William "Carl" Deen

1963 - 2014

William "Carl" Deen obituary, 1963-2014

BORN

1963

DIED

2014

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McEwen Funeral and Cremation Service

7428 Matthews-Mint Hill Road

Charlotte, North Carolina

William Deen Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Feb. 27, 2014.

William "Carl" Deen, 50, of Charlotte, NC, passed away Wednesday, February 26, 2014. He was born in Charlotte, NC on August 9th, 1963.

Carl graduated from South Mecklenburg High School, and received his aviation license in 1991 from Conway Aviation School in Conway, SC. He was Senior Vice President of Bank of America/Merrill Lynch, and was previously a Captain with US Air. Prior to earning his pilot's license, Carl worked at Saber Cargo, Rock Hill Airport, Queen City TV & Appliance, Village Market, was a Wrestling Announcer, Lawn Service, and A&P Grocery.

He is survived by his wife, Susan Brunson Deen, to whom he married on February 6, 1994; and his children, Brittney, 23, Corey, 18, and Bryce, 13. Carl is also survived by his mother, Rachel Deen; sisters, Rachel Hass and Gail Caudle; and brother, Ronnie Deen.

Friends are cordially invited to a visitation with the family from 10:00 until 11:30 A.M. Monday, March 3, 2014, at Hickory Grove Baptist Church, with a funeral service to immediately follow at 11:30 A.M. at the church. The Reverend Clint Pressley and The Reverend John Harrill will officiate. Interment will follow in Forest Lawn West Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Hickory Grove Baptist Church or Hickory Grove Christian School, 6050 Hickory Grove Road, Charlotte, NC 28215, or to the Levine Cancer Institute to support Ewing's Sarcoma, of which Carl was a survivor, please call 704-355-4048.

Condolences may be offered at www.mcewenminthillchapel.com.

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March 29, 2014

Grams and Pa Cannon

Words just cannot express the grief a mother feels for her children at a time like this. Rachel is without one of her sons and our daughter is without the love of her life, her life's partner, friend and father to their children. Never did I imagine that one of our daughters would become a widow and that three of our precios Grandkids would lose their father! We do know that our heavenly Father knows what is best for us even when we don't. There is a reason we are given these things in our lives that make us stronger after having gone through them. The most difficult part is at first and then the pain begins to fade and we remember the good and happy times. We want our grand kids, Brittney, Corey and Bryce to NEVER forget all the things of life that your Dad taught you! Even all the little silly things and funny things he said and did. He always had a way to bring out a smile....talking to or about your pets....or just about anything. He loved to cook both inside and on the grill and was good at both. No one will ever replace a Dad like Carl! He was a good man, husband and father who loved his family, brothers and sisters and his Mother.

March 26, 2014

Jean Scott

So sorry to hear of Carl going "Home" he and the family are great friends and I and my George will miss him! Prayers to Susan and the kids.

March 23, 2014

J. Scott Woods

Carl & Susan were one of my very first clients a Real Estate agent many, many years ago. We shared a bond and became friends. I was honored to help his young family find their first home together and start their roots. Carl & I shared many interests together, including flying. He took me for a flight over Charlotte in a private plane, and let me sit in the cock-pit of a classic DC-3. These are memories that I have shared with many people over the years and ones that I will never forget. Carl was one of the most sharing wonderful person that I have ever known and he will truly be missed.

March 19, 2014

Daniel Arrowood

I had the opportunity to work with Carl during the mid 90s, it was truly a unique experience to meet such a man, his enthusiasm for life was contagious!

March 16, 2014

Laurie Rosenthal

Carls death was such a shock. After an amazing difficult fight 10 years ago it is hard go believe he went so quickly and unexpectedly. Carl taught me many things about being a nurse....he was forever inspirational....god bless you Susan, he lived you and his family so deeply..."

March 14, 2014

Laurin Brunson

I have so many fun memories of my brother-in-law Carl. My thoughts and prayers are with my sister, my niece and nephews, and the Deen family. He will be greatly missed.

March 14, 2014

Carl, my staff and I have been in shock of seeing your obituiry in the Observer. You have been under my care for over 10 years. All along I found you a caring husband and a very loving father. You handled your illness bravely and with courage and dignity. All the best wishes and regards to the family to bear this huge unexpected loss.
V.Sagar Sethi, MD, PhD & Staff at Carmel Psychiatric Associates.Charlotte, NC

March 13, 2014

McNeill Gibson

Carl was not only my patient, but was more importantly a good friend. I learned from him over the years how to be a good Dr, and how to approach the vicissitudes of life with optimism and good humor. When I think of him, I will remember to cherish my family and to live each day to the fullest as he did.
McNeill Gibson

March 10, 2014

Sally (& Calvin) Martin-Hagler

To Rachel, my heart and soul go out to you in the loss of your precious son. I did not know him but got to know him very well at the memorial service at HGBC. It blows me away to know I worshiped with him and his family every Sunday morning and was there on the Sunday he was taken to the hospital. What a wonderful man and beautiful family filled with love and God. My prayers are going up to our Heavenly Father for you, my dear Rachel, and also for Susan, and the children. Seeing the baseball team honoring their Coach warmed my heart. May God bring all of you peace and acceptance, and may He bless you and keep you safe and secure in His love and protection.

March 7, 2014

Brittney Dickson-Deen

Dad I just want you to know how much I love you, and that I miss you terribly already!! I take great comfort in knowing that you are up in heaven watching us from above. You are no longer suffering or in pain but in peace, finally catching up with Papaw after all these years. I will teach the boys all the things that you have taught me, so that your legacy will live on in us. You are such an amazing father to myself, Corey and Bryce. You have taught me so many important things that I will never ever forget. I know that all the things we will have happen in our lives, in the future, that you will still be there with us in our hearts and in Spirit watching from above. I love you more than you will ever know dad! I hate that you're gone, it was way too soon but I know that GOD has a plan behind all this and He never gives you anything you can't handle. I know you were watching on Monday during your funeral service, I am so amazed by all the people that you have impacted without even knowing it. All those people were there because of you and how you touched there lives. You sent me this verse when I was having a hard time:

Peace I leave with you, my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.
John 14:27

I will continue to hold onto this verse and many others, especially while we overcome our hearts hurting with missing you! Give Papaw a big hug for me, and I can't wait to see yall both again one day in heaven!! I love you more than you will ever know dad!! I am so proud to call you MY dad! I love you!!!
Love, Brittney

March 7, 2014

Brittney Dickson-Deen

Dad I just want you to know how much I love you, and that I miss you terribly already! I take great comfort in knowing that you are up in heaven watching us from above. You are no longer suffering or in pain but in peace, finally catching up with Papaw after all these years. I will teach the boys all the things that you have taught me, so that your legacy will live on in us. You are such an amazing father to myself, Corey and Bryce. You have taught me so many important things that I will never ever forget. I know that all the things we will have happen in our lives, in the future, that you will still be there with us in our hearts and in Spirit watching from above. I love you more than you will ever know dad! I hate that you're gone, it was way too soon but I know that GOD has a plan behind all this and He never gives you anything you can't handle. I know you were watching on Monday during your funeral service, I am so amazed by all the people that you have impacted without even knowing it. All those people were there because of you and how you touched there lives. You sent me this verse when I was having a hard time:

Peace I leave with you, my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.
John 14:27

I will continue to hold onto this verse and many others, especially while we overcome our hearts hurting with missing you! Give Papaw a big hug for me, and I can't wait to see yall both again one day in heaven!! I love you more than you will ever know dad!! I am so proud to call you MY dad! I love you!!!
Love, Brittney

March 6, 2014

George Hodge

My deepest sympathy. Carl was a good childhood friend as we lived across the street on Brynhurst. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

March 5, 2014

Lou Baxley

Susan, my heart and prayers are with you and your children. I can't imagine your loss. May you feel God's loving arms around you during this difficult time and the days ahead. Blessings and love to you...Lou Ellen.

March 5, 2014

Meredith Fore

So very sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what it must feel like to loose a child. My thoughts and prayers are going up for you and your family. Call if there is anything I can do for you or to just listen for a while.

March 5, 2014

Tim Wolfe

What a blessing to know such a great guy. I was blessed to get the opportunity to work with Carl at BAISI.

March 5, 2014

Paul and Colleen Malone

We are praying for God's perfect peace at this time. So sorry for your loss.

March 4, 2014

Willem van Beek

Deepest condolences and sympathy from the van Beek family. We will fondly remember him as a great family man and the energetic supporter of Bryce and his baseball buddies, including our son, Andrew. Please let us know of any way we can support your family. The Deen family will be in our thoughts and prayers.

March 4, 2014

Amanda Tuten

I briefly worked with Carl at Bank of America/Merrill Lynch...My deepest condolences to the Deen family...very shocked to hear this news.

March 4, 2014

Donna Roupas

We are so sorry for your loss. We feel blessed to have known Carl and the Deen family. Carl's love and thoughtfulness towards others will always be appreciated and never forgotten. May his memory be eternal.
The Roupas Family
Taso, Donna, Alexander, Julianna, and Adam

March 4, 2014

Debbie Pender

"Carl Deen" That is what we chanted through many challenges. Your strength and good humor carried me through many stressful projects. Now you are in the arms of Jesus. I will see you again in heaven. I love you. My prayers go up for your family. Love in Christ, Pender

March 3, 2014

Lisa Maxey

To Mrs. Deen and family and extended family....my deepest sympanthy during this difficult time. Carl was my boss for 3 years. He truly was a great boss, great man of God, a great husband, great father, great son, great brother. I can't say enough about his huge heart. I have alot of great memories but one that stands out was when my son and I ran into him at the mall. He was with his youngest son and he had just gotten him a Christmas gift. He hid it in his jacket and he looked about 5 months pregnant. But he was happy to see me and my son and we had a great talk all the while he's going through all of this hiding of the gift/looking pregnant to surprise his son on Christmas day. He's resting with the lord.

Lisa Maxey

March 3, 2014

Don Amthabhai

My deepest condolences to Carl's family. He lived his life with vigor and passion, and I consider myself privileged to have known him and work with him on many occasions. You will be missed my friend and I know you are sharing your humor up in heaven!

March 3, 2014

Zog Hamdia

My deepest condolences on your loss. I was fortunate to have worked with Carl over the past few years.
It is rare to come across someone as unique as Carl, he was as level-headed, humble, hardworking and devoted as they come.
Carl spoke frequently of his family and took every opportunity to talk about the baseball games, visiting colleges and family get togethers. He enjoyed every minute of it.
I think I can speak on behalf of all that have met Carl by saying he enriched the lives of all that he met.
In this time of loss, may your burden be eased and your family bonds strengthened.

Bless you all.

March 3, 2014

Jeffrey Bender

My deepest condolences to the Deen family.

March 3, 2014

Elizabeth Cunningham

Sweet Deen Family, We are all thinking of you during this sad time. Although we did not know Carl, we know what a wonderful man he must have been to have such a lovely wife and daughter and such amazingly fine sons. We send our love to all of you from all of us at New Creations.

March 3, 2014

Jennifer Linsenmayer

My prayers go out for Carl's family. I worked with Carl for many years at Banc of America Investment Services. We were all like a small family and he made us all laugh. Amoung many humorous memories, I will never forget the time we were in Seattle at a fancy restaurant and Carl ordered some more 'duck biscuits'..which I think were actually some fancy 'duck confit' on the menu. He had a way of making everything funny and his expressions did the same. To his family, I want you to know that while it is so hard right now, it will get easier as time goes on. He IS with you and always will be. Carl was there for me when I lost my dad (9 years ago) and gave me words of comfort. I hope that my words have given a little bit of comfort back to his beloved family.

March 3, 2014

Connie Kniffen

To the family of Carl Deen. Carl was not just a colleague, but also a friend. He bestowed upon us a sense of optimism, kindness, humor and a true willingness to lend a hand. If you knew Carl, you knew how important family was and the pride he felt as he talked about them and shared treasured memories. In these difficult times, please know that Carl made an impact on not just the events of the work day, but also to all of us that knew him. Our sincerest sympathies are with you- Connie Kniffen on behalf of the entire Wealth Management Banking Support Team- Bank of America

March 3, 2014

Dear Family,
What a loss for all of you! I know this is overwhelming and you have my deepest sympathy, each and everyone as you cling to one another and to God, the great peacegiver and comforter.
Jeannette Edwards

March 3, 2014

Dan Mulder

Sorry to hear this, Carl was a great guy that helped me in many ways to succeed in my career. I enjoyed flying DC-3's w him and we had many laughs in the US Air Express "CC Air" crew room. May God Bless his family! Until we meet again my friend.

March 3, 2014

Pam Alwran

We are so blessed to have known Carl. He was such a nice person to talk with. We enjoyed all our conversations at the ball field. We are thinking of you all and know he is smiling down on his family.

March 3, 2014

Phyllis Blair

I had the pleasure to know and work with Carl at Bank of America. Carl was a kind soul, great humor and adored his ufamily. My prayers of comfort to the family at this difficult time.

March 3, 2014

Dear Ronnie, Rachel, and Gail. I am so sad to hear of your great loss. I was privileged to be able to see Carl grow up in his younger years, because at that time all the Deen siblings were in and out of my mother Maybelle's house there on Nations Ford so we all sort of just grew up together. Such happy times, and great memories. And now, let God's grace and mercy, and those wonderful memories sustain each of you as you mourn his loss. Praying God's Blessings on your entire family.
Rev. Larry & Melinda Donaldson

March 3, 2014

Glenda Benson

To the family of Carl Deen, may your hearts be comforted in knowing that Carl is in the loving arms of Jesus our Lord. Prayers of peace and comfort are continully being brought before God on your behalf.
Blessings

March 3, 2014

Drea Bryant-Houston

My sincere condolences go out to you, Susan and your family. I worked with Carl for many years in BAI. He was a wonderful partner and even better friend. No matter what was going on he always found a way to make you feel better about the situation. He will truly be missed!

March 3, 2014

Tim Bowden

Susan and family,
I am very sorry for your loss, I worked with Carl at BAI and he was a kind soul with a positive attitude that was contagious. I will miss him.

March 3, 2014

Marie Painther

Susan, We know Carl will be missed by his family, as well as a lot of friends...He was such a kind person. Can only express our deepest sympathy to you and the children...Will continue to keep you all in our prayers...

March 2, 2014

Debbie Thomas-Gulledge

Susan, I am so sorry. There aren't any words that I or anyone else can say to you and the children to ease your pain. Just know that I love all of you, and I am keeping you in my prayers.
Debbie Thomas Gulledge

March 2, 2014

Alan Parker

My prayers are with all of you. I will miss Carl this Spring standing on the hill at the baseball field. Somehow I know he will be watching. What a good man taken way too soon. My Dad and Carl will surely be eating hotdogs in heaven 2nd guessing every move I make coaching 3rd. I will miss a good friend.

March 1, 2014

Betty Kisiah

Rachel, my deepest heartfelt sympathy goes out to you and your family in the loss of your son. May God grant you the peace and comfort that only He can give at this time.

March 1, 2014

Susan, my sympathy and prayers are with you and your family. May God bless and comfort you.
Avis Anderson
Darlington, SC

March 1, 2014

Willene Byrd

Susan, Corey, Brittney, and Bryce - I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. You are such a special family to me! I am thinking and praying for you during this time. Much love to you all!

March 1, 2014

I am so sorry to hear of Carl passing my deepest symathy goes out to Rachel and family .God bless
Troy Campbell

March 1, 2014

Kim Loughlin

Not only did I attend school with Carl, we worked together for many, many years at Bank of America. He will truly be missed. My condolences to the Deen family.

March 1, 2014

Rachel, Susan and children.....words cannot express the extreme sorrow Jim and I feel for your loss. Our love and prayers are with you all.....
Jim and Linda Almond

March 1, 2014

Ben King

Carl will be missed by many. May his family be comforted during this time. I remember the times we bad in school. May god bless the family.

March 1, 2014

Karen Lucas

March 1, 2014

Nicki Jones

I don't even know where to start. Carl Deen, blessed me and my family in so many ways. He was a blessing to all that had one interaction w him. He was an example of a God loving family man that took in any and all.
Carl and Susan shared a love that few do. Their love for each other, their children, their church led their life. Carl, loved being at the baseball fields w all the boys. He took in all 12 boys as their own and did it because he loved them. Carson was loved by an amazing extra dad and that connection will never be forgotten. I will celebrate his life on Monday because I know without a doubt he is sitting in heaven w his maker smiling down on all of us!
Susan, Brittany, Corey, and Bryce you are loved by so many!!!! We love you!!!!!

March 1, 2014

Tim K

My condolences to the entire Deen family. Having recently lost my mother way too soon, I know the pain can be almost unbearable. May the god of all comfort give you strength in this time of need (2 Cor 2:1).

February 28, 2014

Gail Caudle

I am sitting here looking at Carl dignity memorial and how hard the last few days have been. Wishing that this was all a bad dream!! My brother invited me for supper just three days before all this happen. I had no clue that would be the last time I would get to talk to carl.Carl is the one that kept our family going and it's going to be so hard with out him. In December our mom had a stroke and carl took care of it all. Everyday he was there with her making sure that she was being took care of. This was the kind of great SON,BROTHER and GUY he was!!!!! Had a heart of GOLD. I hope with all my heart that carl know's how much his family LOVE'S him. May God always be with him. I Love you Carl!

February 28, 2014

Tom Demas

Carl was a true friend.

Carl's spirit of optimism, combined with a consistent love and kindness to others were unmatched. He always held humility before honor, but was stacked to the hilt with both.

He fought for life on earth, managing hardships that few are asked to manage and that required enormous moral and physical courage.

The Lord knew he was strong enough to bare that cross.

He gave inspiring confidence to his children, at all times, particularly when facing difficult challenges. It shines through in their character.

He loved his wife Susan, like Christ his church.

I shed tears for his loss, but am more joyful, in the certitude that he remains with us in spirit, that we will always be able to call on his example, and that he is sitting at the right hand of the Father.

February 28, 2014

Christine Moraitis

I had the pleasure of working with Carl for a short while and he was always a pleasure. I was very saddened to hear of his passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

February 28, 2014

Erica Blount

Extending my deepest sympathy, for you in your loss and hoping that comfort and peace may come to you.

Thank you,
Erica Blount

February 28, 2014

Richard Ames

My deeepest condolences with your loss of Carl. He will be missed but know he will not be forgotten. May God bless you & your family in this time of sorrow.

February 28, 2014

Ron Eddy

Although his will was strong and love of life was insatiable, his body was not strong enough to continue.

For those that knew him well, there will be a huge void and emptiness in their life.

He was everything to everybody...a friend, a big brother, a little brother, a mentor, a teacher, someone you could count on and someone you could depend on. He had the ability for time to stand still while he told stories or made jokes. Most importantly, he was a great dad and loved his family dearly.

Even in his passing he lives strong in the memories and hearts of those he knows, the people that he touched, and the lives that he affected.

Through his passing, he has given hope and life to others by donating his organs to those in need. He will give sight to those who cannot see and strength to those who are weak.

Prayers, love, and support for the Deen family.

February 28, 2014

Sue Vincent

In the short time I knew Carl, he was a kind person who took great pride in his work. He was a great partner to work with. You will be missed Carl! My prayers are with you and your family.

February 27, 2014

Barbara Stecher

I was and am so sorry to hear of Carl's passing. In the short time that I knew him I was so impressed with how good a father and husband he was. He was always so kind and upbeat about everything. I never heard him say a harsh word about anyone...If there is anything Jack or I can do for you and your family please just ask. I will be praying for you and the kids daily ..May God keep you all in the palm of his hand and someday you will meet again in Heaven.

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