John Jack McCarthy

1932 - 2015

John Jack McCarthy obituary, 1932-2015

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Bates & Tuttle Funeral Home

226 Pearl Street

Medina, New York

John McCarthy Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Apr. 17, 2015.

John J. "Jack" McCarthy II, 82, passed away peacefully at home on April 16, 2015. He was born on July 29, 1932 in medina, NY, the son of the late John J. McCarthy and Mary (Deasy) McCarthy. He graduated from Medina High School, received a Bachelor of Arts from St. Bonnaventure Universiy and a Masters Degree from the University of Miami in FL. He was a member of the Pi Kappi Phi Fraternity.
Medina, NY was his home his home for 65 Years, He is predeceased by his parents and two sisters, Katherine (McCarthy) Schilling and Julie Ann (McCarthy) Anderson. Jack married Joyce Marie Rossow on 1/21/1966 who predeceased him on 12-14-1994.
Jack work as a farm manager for Lew Phinney Quarter Horses and Mike Bokman Quarter Horses, successfully showing many horses at halter for their owners. He was a past president of the Empire State Quarter Horse Association. He served as Civil Defense Dir. and Fire Coordinator for Orleans County for 6 years. He attended the National Fire Academy and completed many courses and later instructed there. Jack was a county Legislator for Orleans Co. He retired from the Army Reserves after serving 26 years, becoming a First Sergeant with rank of E8.
He was a member of St. Mary's Church, Rotary Club, Knights of Columbus, Ridgeway Fire Co., American Legion Drum Corps and Vice President of the Shelby Fire Co. Drum Corps. He enjoyed playing semi pro football for MAC (Medina Athletic Club).
Jack was well known for his "McCarthy Auction Service". He sold household goods, horse tack & equip; horses and cars. He loved the auction business and entertaining auction goers with his stories. He was a generous person, willing to help anyone in need. He had a quick wit and enjoyed making everyone around him laugh.
Jack married Virginia (Fowlston) Law on Aug 16, 1997 and relocated to Almond, NY. After moving to Almond he served as Town Supervisor for short time and continued selling horse tack at auction, until 2006 when he suffered an injury from a fall that forced his retirement. In recent years he enjoyed watching John Wayne movies and spending time with family and friends.
He is survived by his wife, two step daughters, Sandra (David) Washburn of Almond, NY, Deborah Billings of Ft. Myers, FL, three step grandchildren, and many nieces and nephews. Special family and friends include: Elrene Monroe of N. Tonawanda, Gary and Diane Woodcock of Lockport, and his niece, Julie Ann "Annie" Anderson of FL.
Relatives and friends may call on Thursday, April 23, 2015 from 11-1 PM at the Bates & Tuttle Funeral Home, 226 Pearl St. Medina, NY 14103, where a funeral service will be held at 1:00 PM with the Rev. Daniel J. Fawls officiating. Burial will be in the St. Mary's Cemetery.
There will also be a memorial service at the Bishopville United Methodist Church in Arkport, NY on Saturday, April 25 at 1:00 PM.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made in Jack's name to: Holy Trinity Parish/St. Mary's Church, West Ave. Medina, NY 14103. Or to: a charity of one's choice.

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April 22, 2015

Gerry Buttery

Jack was a good friend

April 22, 2015

Jeff Molnar

Virginia, Sandra, Deborah & family: I'm sorry to hear of Jack's passing. I worked for Jack in Medina as a kid back in the late 70's. As you know Jack was well known, liked, & respected across the country. I traveled with him on several buying trips ranging from the Southern Tier to Tupelo MS (where they'd promptly say "close the doors the Yankees are here" as we walked into the auction). Prior to moving to Sanibel FL, I joined the fire service and served in several capacities under Jack when he was CD Director. He was a stand-up guy whom you could always count on. I've recently retired and moved to Bemus Point NY and I'm sorry I did not look him up, as you were so close. I have many fond memories of times with Jack & Joyce. He certainly was one-of-a-kind. I attend many auctions and I often have been reminded of him. My prayers and thoughts go out to you all.

April 22, 2015

Carl Petronio

I can say with certainty--"There will never be another Jack McCarthy!"

April 22, 2015

Kathy Marshall

I remember Jack from years ago when he worked for lew and Mike and the Auctions. Really Nice guy! R.I.P Jack

April 21, 2015

Pat Harter

I was very sad to read of Jack's passing. My husband Dave Harter and Jack were Civil Defense Directors at the same time. Jack was one of those people that was always ready with a joke and his never failing humorous attitude was great to be around. My prayers and sympathy go to his family and friends.

April 21, 2015

Pamela Hayes

I have great memories helping Jack at the auctions for many years . So many people looked forward to the next auction from year to year, just to see Jack. I am so great full that I just spoke to him a week ago. He will be truly missed and what a great guy he was. RIP my friend.

April 21, 2015

Gerard Morrisey

Deep condolences from shirt-tail McCarthy relatives in Albion. Jack was always a welcoming presence and a stand-up man.

April 21, 2015

Douglas Hedges

Some of my fondest memories are attending any Auction that Jack ran. You always ended up buying something and he was always picking on us. Life will not the same without him.

April 21, 2015

Al Kurek

I met Jack in 1960 when we were young men playing semi pro football against one another. We really became close , long time friends as a result of the beer parties after the games. Jack always made sure the gatherings were memorable. We renewed our friendship in 1962, when I joined the State Police and was assigned to the Albion outpost for several years while residing in Albion. Our paths crossed many times over the years and Jacks wit & humor never ended. I always respected him for who he was, a down to earth person & true friend. Until we meet again. Al Kurek East Pembroke, NY

April 20, 2015

Richard Callara

Family of Jack,I am very sorry for your loss. I use to help Jack at auctions, and always enjoyed his stories threw the years. He was a special person, and will be missed.

April 18, 2015

Gary Woodcock

Thanks Uncle Jack for being one of the first to welcome me into the family. I will miss our talks

Gary

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