Lionel G. Ruhman

1933 - 2016

Lionel G. Ruhman obituary, 1933-2016, Pacific Palisade, CA

BORN

1933

DIED

2016

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Santa Monica, California

Lionel Ruhman Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Mar. 4, 2016.

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March 29, 2019

Michele Maslin

Sending Love Lionel! Miss you!

March 31, 2017

George Schaub Sr

Posted by George Schaub Sr

April 23, 2016

It was with a sense of shock and profound sadness that I learned of the recent passing of Lionel Ruhman. Lionel was a gentleman of the old-school, a truly lovely family man who set a great example for all of us whose lives he touched.

My sincere condolences to Elza, Eric, and all of his family.

Denise Larkan - Santa Monica, CA

April 21, 2016

Asim Altamimi

It is with sadness that I learn that my lodge brother Lionel has passed away.
He opened his house annually to all his brothers at the lodge. We enjoyed the fraternity. My deepest sympathy to Elza, Eric and Martha.

April 4, 2016

Lionel Ruhman was a true gentleman. He took a tremendous interest in people. He touched many lives.....including mine. His parents raised an outstanding son. It's sad for all of us that we now have a world without Lionel Ruhman in it. Arnie Wishnick

March 20, 2016

Candy Gilbert

I recently found out your sad news and have been devastated since. Growing up in the Flood family of Santa Monica, I got to be with my sister's best friends at Santa Monica Christian Church and mostly at our house. Being with Elza and Donna as they met & fell in love with these handsome men in their uniforms, then marrying & each having two children who I got to babysit on a few New Year's Eve's when the 4 adults would go out on the town.....all in all, such memories of being a part of your family's life gave me the wisdom of what to do for my own family. Martha, do you remember when you checked me into St. John's Hospital the night that I was about to give birth to our daughter, Sarah? I do, it was such a delight having the young lady who I had babysat turning around and helping me into a wheel chair on April 28, 1980. Elza, I cannot extend my sympathy enough for you and the rest of your family at this time. Blessings on all of you. And (as Bob Hope use to sing and say), "Thanks for the Memories!"

March 10, 2016

Dean Broes

Dear Elza, Eric and Martha,
I was very sad to learn about Lionel's passing. When I was 17 and came over from Belgium, Lionel and you made me feel very welcome and offered me a warm home away from home. I have very fond memories of the long talks Lionel and I had then, where he showed a true interest in getting to know me, challenged me to think beyond the obvious and shared his thoughts, and all of this mixed with a lot of humor and fun. I will never forget these moments and I feel that they have had lasting impact.
I will remember Lionel as a kind, caring and very intelligent person. His kindness, love for his family and friends and his lust for life also speak from the pictures you have shared. He will be missed dearly.
Please know that you are in our hearts and in our thoughts.

Those we love can never be more than a thought away...
For as long there is a memory, they live in our hearts to stay.

Dean, Els, Zeb and Vic - Belgium

March 9, 2016

Francis Forde

Lionel is and was one of the kindness men I know. He welcomed me into our fraternity and his home. I will never forget his encouragement and brotherly love when I joined Santa Monica Palisades Lodge 307. My condolences to you Mrs. Ruhman and your entire family! May Gods greatest peace and blessings be bestowed upon you during these difficulty days ahead!

March 8, 2016

Dorothy & Wayne Jacobi

Lionel was one of the nicest people I have ever met. He went out of his way to make everyone feel comfortable at our class reunions. Elza, Wayne & I pray that GOD will comfort you and your family at this sad time

March 7, 2016

I loved Lionel and will never forget the moments I spent in his company. What a loving, kind, dear, special person. I will never forget Lionel Ruhman. Love to Elza and his entire wonderful family. Sharon Teunis Palm Springs, CA

March 7, 2016

Victor M. Lerma

My friend, my brother, a man of conviction, always friendly, lived by moral conduct and principles. I feel honored to have met, serve you. Your plan of work is now in the celestial shop where you continue laboring. You have passed the torch upon my hand, to continue the Fraternity work, thank you for choosing me, farewell until then...

March 7, 2016

Linda Subias

Wow - what can I say that isn't already being said a thousand times. What a thoroughly fine man, full of love and loved by all. His goodness was echoed in his entire wonderful family and his prosperity, spiritual and otherwise. Thinking of him has always made my eyes light up, and my heart goes out to Elza, Martha and Eric.

March 7, 2016

Kris Andresen

Lionel - a man of fine character ... a genuine friend. My sincere sympathy to dear Elza and family.

March 7, 2016

Stephen Frew

My deepest sympathy to Elza, Martha and Eric. Lionel was truly one of a kind - I never met a more caring and generous man.

March 6, 2016

James Rainer Patrisa McHone

Sincerest condolences to Elza, Martha, and Eric, and families. Your beloved Lionel was a man who brought love, friendship, and laughter to many lives. He will be dearly missed.

March 6, 2016

"Words are never adequate in moments like these. We will say though, that our hearts go out to Elza, Martha, Eric and family, and we will always remember the joyous memories that we are privileged to have in knowing Lionel.
Cherish the memories you created with Lionel. We will always remember him for his caring and loving nature.
Rita & Eddy Broes - Belgium

March 5, 2016

Joyce Fisher

Lionel and I were classmates at Dupo High School. He was president of our Senior Class. Over the years we have had 12 Reunions. Lionel participated in the majority. Lionel was an amazing person. He had a kind and generous heart. Throughout the years I felt like I had a brother, even though he was miles away. He and Elza have a special place in my heart. I lost more than a good friend.

March 5, 2016

Joyce Fisher

Our heartfelt sympathy to Elza and family. No one is ever truly prepared for a loss such as this...but in the time that your loved one was here, lives were touched, memories were made and bonds were formed that will last forever.
Deepest Sympathy

The Dupo High School
Class of 1950

March 5, 2016

Ken Stroupe

Lionel and I were classmates from the first grade, through High School. We shared many experiences over the years. The world has lost a great person and I have lost a good friend. I haven't cried since I was a kid but shed a few tears with his passing. He will be sadly missed at any future reunions that we might have. Marge and I express our greatest sympathy to all of the family.

March 5, 2016

Kathy Harrison-Beaulieu

You were a wonderful man who I will never forget!! My thoughts an prayers are with the family.
Love, Kathy xoxo

March 5, 2016

Michele Vice-Maslin

Sending much love to you Elza and keeping you in my heart!
Michèle Maslin

March 4, 2016

Michele Vice-Maslin

Thank you Lionel for being amazing you! I am so blessed to know you! Hugs and Kisses from here to there! With Lots Of Love, Michèle Maslin

March 4, 2016

Gene Gregory

Lionel and I first met when we both attended Dupo High School in Illinois during the time period from 1946 until 1950. It was during that time that we became very close friends and remained so. Over the many years ,our friendship grew stronger developing into one of sincere mutual respect. In addition to being a very successful businessman Lionel was a wonderful human being. He had a very positive attitude that resulted in a supportive influence on others. My wife Michelle and I always enjoyed the many times we spent with him and his wife Elza including our recent evening we spent with them at their lovely home last December. Our hearts go out to Elza and her family during this difficult time.

March 4, 2016

Michelle Gregory

It was an honor to know Lionel as one of my husband's fondest classmates from the Dupo High School Class of 1950. What a sweetheart he was and he and Elza always made our many trips to Illinois so much fun. Lionel was a kindhearted gentleman, generous, friendly and kind. We are so thankful that we had the opportunity to stop in for a visit at your home last December. We will miss you so much and send our prayers to the family for their loss.

March 4, 2016

Yoanna Kulas

Lionel was so kind and understanding. I will never forget his warmest support towards my son and his reaching out to him during his most difficult time. For that, my family and I will be always grateful to him, and we will never forget him. We keep him and his family in our prayers.
Love,
Yoanna Kulas

March 4, 2016

Harry & Maxine Mercer

It's once in a lifetime that someone comes into your life who has a lasting impact on you & changes your views for the better. We feel blessed for the day that Harry met Lionel at the Masonic Lodge 22years ago. That chance meeting evolved into a friendship we treasure every day. Lionel was a loving, caring & thoughtful person who was a joy to be around. We miss you already, Lionel. Rest in peace, dear friend. Love to Elza & family.

March 4, 2016

Christian Kulas

I dedicated my rosary prayer to you Lionel. Hear my prayers as you heard me and gave me counsel during my dark times. May the light in me shine with the light that is you now. I will continue my path in masonry in your honor. You were there for me when I needed someone, so I will be there for someone who is in need like I was, following your example. Your friendship was the light in my darkness. Without it, I surely would have fallen. Instead, you were there, and I changed as a person. I wish I could speak with you right now. Till we meet again.
Love,
Christian

March 3, 2016

Debra Reno

Lionel was a sweet man - honorable and old school. He will be remembered for his kindness and appreciated for not letting business be a cold enterprise.

March 2, 2016

Kathy Harrison-Beaulieu

Lionel will be missed! He was a wonderful man that meant a lot to me and my family. I have so many special memories of Lionel and the Ruhman family. Love him

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