BORN

1963

DIED

2016

FUNERAL HOME

Dodd Payne Hess Funeral Home

350 W MAPLE AVE

Fayetteville, West Virginia

Paula Gilliam Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jun. 14, 2016.

Paula Canterbury Gilliam, 52, of Fayetteville went home to be with the Lord on June 13, 2016.

“I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith.”



Paula was born at home on August 24, 1963 to Shirley and Ralph Canterbury, the seventh of nine children.



Paula was married to the love of her life on November 11, 1983, Luke Gilliam. They shared many wonderful years together spending time at their cabin at Hawks Nest, going to the beach, going to church activities, enjoying family cookouts.



Paula graduated from Fayetteville High School and spent the next twenty years working in Retail Management. In later years, Paula provided Home Health Care. Paula was someone who always took care of those who could not take care of themselves; whether it be a chicken, a ground hog, a cat, a dog, her nephew, her sister-in-law. She had compassion for all God’s creatures.



Paula was preceded in death by her parents, Shirley and Ralph; and two brothers: Timmy and Scotty.



Survivors include her husband, Luke; her Dad, Robert Hanshew, sisters: Anita Bess Smart (Bill) of Cary, NC, Karen Bainer (Steve), Becky Wood (Bruce), Fonda Shockey (Raymond), all of Fayetteville; Jeff Canterbury (Sandy) of Fayetteville, Vicki Widman of Grand Prix, TX and Jake Canterbury of Largo, FL; Mother-in-law: Barbara Gilliam of Beckwith; and best friend, Sharon Fink of Victor.



“Paula, you will always be in my heart” Love, Luke



Funeral services will be held at 2 PM, Friday, June 17, 2016 at Dodd-Payne-Hess Funeral Home, Fayetteville, with Pastor Mack Canterbury and Ron Eagle officiating. Burial will follow at Huse Memorial Park, Fayetteville.



The family will receive friends from 1 PM – 2 PM Friday at the funeral home.



For those wishing to express your condolences to the Gilliam family, you may do so by visiting our website at www.doddpaynehessfuneralhome.com.



The family has entrusted arrangements to Dodd-Payne-Hess Funeral Home, 350 W. Maple Avenue, Fayetteville, WV.







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June 19, 2016

Bonnie Sparks-Sansbury

Luke and family, Please accept my deepest condolences. No words can erase the sadness you feel, but it may help to know there are others who understand and care. I loved Paula and will treasure my fond memories of her. She was the sweetest, kindest, most out going friend, one could ever ask for. I will never forget her or her beautiful smile. I hope your fond memories will bring you much comfort. Sincerely,

June 17, 2016

Trina Neal-McClung

Luke, words are unable to express just how sorry I am for you and your entire family for your loss. I've always been so very fond of you and of Paula. She was such a sweet lady with a very kind heart. She will be missed by many. May God cover you and your family in the peace that only he can bring. You're in my thoughts and in my prayers daily. Love to you all.

June 17, 2016

Terry & Sherri Groves

So sorry for your loss. She was a sweet, sweet person. Praying for your peace and strength in this time of grief.

June 17, 2016

Michael Buzminsky

Luke Vickie and i are Praying for you. We are at a loss of words due to the loss of your wife Paula.May the Holy Spirit comfort you and your family through this most difficult time. We are here for you if you ever need a friend to talk to. God Bless . Michael and Vickie Buzminsky.

June 16, 2016

Lisa Smith

So sorry for ur loss.Paula was a beautiful person inside and out.Prayers for the Canterburys/Gilliam families.

June 16, 2016

Jennifer Atha

Luke, and family. I am so sorry to hear about the loss of dear, sweet Paula. May God wrap you all in His loving arms. I will keep you all in prayer during this very difficult time.

June 16, 2016

Charlotte Daugherty

Luke we are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you.

June 16, 2016

Betty Holt

I was so sad to hear of Paula's passing. Paula and I worked together when I was a teenager. She was so fun to be around. We laughed a lot. She really treated me good. My thoughts and prayers are with her family.

June 16, 2016

Pam Price

So sad to hear this, whenever I would see Paula she had a smile on her face. May your memories help you through this sad time.

June 16, 2016

Luke and family " I'm so sorry for your loss, prayers and thought are with you all .Paula will be missed."
Debbie Cody Calvert (Fayetteville,WV)

June 15, 2016

Eva Buttrick

So sorry for your loss! Love and prayers

June 15, 2016

Paul Witt

Luke & family...you and your family are in my prayers.

June 15, 2016

Hoss

Luke I'm so sorry to hear of the passing of your wife you and your family are in our prayers.

June 15, 2016

Paul Humphrey

"So sorry for your loss Luke..."

June 15, 2016

Luke my prayers are with you and I pray that you find the peace that you need. I admire the fact that you changed jobs in order to be with her in the evenings. May God Bless you for that. I have a previous commitment and will be out of the state on Friday but my thoughts and prayers will be for you. May you find peace and comfort in God and what He can do for you.

June 15, 2016

Margaret Coleman

Dear Luke and all the Canterbury family,
I'm so sorry to hear about Paula. God bless you all.

June 15, 2016

Cathy Smith Carlson

Very sorry to hear of Paula's passing.I knew her best from the stories Lou would tell me. dressing up for Halloween ect..Lou loved the both of you Luke. Prayers for all of you. Paula and Lou together in heaven "all my goodness"!!

June 15, 2016

Natalie Asanti

Becky, Anita and Family - very sorry to hear of Paula's passing. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

June 15, 2016

Joyce (Arrington) Johnson

I've known paula for yrs. Very funny and loving woman. I worked with her at Shell, and Daniels market, also went walking with her and my aunt a few times when she first started her weight loss. It's very shocking and sad to hear of her passing, and I hope Luke and her family and can peace and comfort in this time of grief.

June 15, 2016

Sommer Copley

Luke and Family, I am so sorry to hear of Paula's passing. She was such a beautiful person. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Please let me know if there is anything you all need. Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid ~ John 14:27

June 15, 2016

Mother Angelina

Dear Luke, Anita, and all of Paula's family and friends,
Our community is deeply saddened by Paula's repose. We are praying that you are surrounded by the love of our merciful Lord Jesus Christ, just as Paula surrounded all of you and God's creatures with her love.
Love in Christ,

June 15, 2016

Debbie Niday

I didn't know Paula personally but I worked with Jeff and Scotty at the park, and thought a lot of them. Your family has seen so much tragedy and I'm so sorry for your loss of another loved one. She sounded like she cared a lot for others, like Scotty did. I miss him and think of him often. I hope you can find some comfort in knowing she's reunited with Scotty and your mom now. Love you Jeff! God bless you all during this time and forever more.

June 15, 2016

Becky Neal

May God hold all of you in His loving arms and give you strength in your time of need. My heart goes out to you. May you find peace in His words.

June 15, 2016

Sarah Treadway

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

June 14, 2016

Cheryl Reigle

I never had the pleasure of meeting Paula. From reading the messages already posted, she was a loyal, supportive friend and a joy to those who knew and loved her. I do have the honor of calling Paula's sister Anita my friend. I know from Anita that her siblings were very close to each other and I am so very sorry for the loss of Paula from her earthly life. She does live on and always will in each and every person that knew and loved her. What a wonderful legacy to inherit. With prayers to all.

June 14, 2016

Rhonda Blake Church

Luke keeping you and the family in prayer.
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June 14, 2016

Kiersta Rhodes

Luke, I don't know you guys very well but I feel as though we are all part of a family in ways - God's family and our little community here in Beckwith. I am so sorry that you have to go through the loss of your wife. She was a beautiful lady.

June 14, 2016

Audrey Gill

To Luke and family, I am so sorry to hear about Paula, I remember you both from school. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. Audrey Blankenship Gill

June 14, 2016

Deena Harless

My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I know God will give you His peace and surround you all with His love. Paula's sweetness and beautiful smile will always be with you. I pray God's blessings and comfort on all of you at this difficult time.
Love you all.

June 14, 2016

Sherry Conley

My heart is so sad to hear of Paula passing,Luke I pray that you ,her sisters ,Jeff and all who knew and loved her find comfort in God's word.

June 14, 2016

JANETTE WOODRUM

To each and everyone of you... may God guide you during this sad time......with love and prayers....never be afraid to cry..every tear is a memory of your sister..aunt ...wife...daughter and most of all friend.........Paula always greeted people with a huge smile.......with love and prayers to u all......

June 14, 2016

Pam & Frances

June 14, 2016

To Luke, and the entire Canterbury Family; my deepest heart felt thoughts and prayers to each of you. The Canterbury Family has been a part of the Pilato Family as far back as I can remember growing up/
May God Bless each of you.

Steve Pilato

June 14, 2016

carolyn BLANKENSHIP weaver

Luke, I am so sorry for your loss of Paula.

June 14, 2016

Walter Lyons (Wally)

Luke, Keep sight of the big picture, as we are all one with the Lord. And the Lord is one with each of us.

June 14, 2016

Jackie Hendricks

Luke and family, I'm so sorry for your loss. Paula was a awesome person. Great person to work with. Loved her awesome smile and always willing to help at anytime. May God bless you and your family in this difficult time. She's another one of God's angels that will be with you always.

June 14, 2016

Eddie & Bambi O'Neal

Luke & family, we are so sorry to hear of paulas' passing, Sending lots of prayers & hugs! !

June 14, 2016

Anita McClung

Becky, Jeff and Karen,

I am so very sorry to hear about Paula's passing. She was always so sweet. Should you need anything, please let me know.

Anita and Christopher McClung

June 14, 2016

Gloria Clyburn

I light this candle for you, to remember what a loving person you was. We will always remember you in our hearts!
Love you

June 14, 2016

Liz Hamstead -Reynolds

So very sorry to learn of this terrible loss. My prayers and strength go out to you Luke...Becky, Jeff, Karen, Fonda, Anita and all the friends and family who hold Paula deep in their hearts.
God bless all my love to you all.

June 14, 2016

John Jones

Luke, you are in my prayers. I am so sorry for your loss.

June 14, 2016

Lola Hobbs Hunt

So sorry for your loss praying

June 14, 2016

JoAn Quick

Luke,and Canterbury Family We were so sad to hear of Paula's passing! You are in our thoughts and prayers through this difficult time. Alice,Kathy, JoAn (Miller)

June 14, 2016

Debbie Gilliam

Luke, I am so sorry for your loss of Paula. May God bring you comfort during this difficult time. Love, Debbie Koontz Gilliam

June 14, 2016

Luke and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers for comfort for all of you. Tammy Holcomb ODell

June 14, 2016

Malisha and Offie Kessler.......So sorry for your loss....Praying for all family and friends....

June 14, 2016

Missy Hambrick

Luke and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers for you through this difficult time.

June 14, 2016

Vicki Widman

Luke I am so sorry for your loss.. My love and prayers are with you and the Family. I loved her and will miss her.


Love Vicki

June 14, 2016

Naddie Kay Gilliam-Gravatt

Dear Brother Luke,

My heart breaks for you and the loss of Paula. There are no words that I can say that are worthy of what she meant to all of us. She was my sister as much as you are my brother. I have so many memories of the times I spent with you both. May God send you the peace and comfort that you need, may He wrap His arms around you and bring healing to your heart.
Your Little Sister _ Naddie

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