BORN

1919

DIED

2016

FUNERAL HOME

Montville Funeral Home of Church & Allen

53 Norwich New London Tpke

Uncasville, Connecticut

Annette Kashar Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 18, 2016.

Annette (Neussbaum) Kashar, 97, of Uncasville, formerly of Reseda, California, passed away peacefully at home on October 17, 2016 surrounded by her family.

Annette was born on August 21, 1919 in Brooklyn, New York, to Samuel and Rose (Ulen) Neussbaum. She attended New York University and graduated with an Associates Degrees in Business. She fell in love and married Simon on August 8, 1942. They had a wonderful life together for 63 years until his passing on June 24, 2005 at the age of 91.

They had two children Marc and Fran, both born in Brooklyn, New York in 1947 and 1951 respectively. The family moved to North Hollywood in 1951 when Simon, who worked for Hickock Men's wear, received a transfer and a promotion to the Los Angeles, California area as District Manager.
Life was good for the family. Annette made a wonderful home, loved playing bridge with family and friends, enjoyed planning and having parties at our home, and was a wonderful mother. She always tried to make sure that nothing was lacking.

In later years, Annette became a caregiver to Sy as cancer took some of the fun out of life. She was there round the clock taking care of his needs for many years and to the wonder of his doctors, he made a full recovery and spent many extra years of enjoyment together traveling the world and visiting many European countries.

Annette leaves one sister, Ruth Schure of Lakeworth, Florida, her Son Marc and his wife Kathy of Uncasville, CT., Granddaughters Brittany Kashar of Portland, Maine, Melissa Velasquez of Uncasville, CT.,Amie Sonnichsen (Jerry) of Norwich, CT., Julie Perry of Norwich, CT., and Jennifer (Chris) Spencer of Norwich, CT. She also leaves two great grandsons and four great granddaughters and an extended family of nieces and nephews who will all miss her dearly. Annette was predeceased by her two sisters, Dotty and Gerry, one granddaughter, Stacie and her daughter Fran.

The family would like to give a special, heartfelt thank you to Orchard Grove Speciality Care Center, Lighthouse Homecare Services, Hartford Healthcare Hospice, Doctor Paul Deutsch, Kathleen Kashar, Jennifer Spencer, and Amie Sonnichsen for their dedicated love, care, and support of Nettie during the last years of her life.

The Montville Funeral Home of Church and Allen is in charge of arrangements. The family will be sitting shiva at the Kashar residence at 41 Richard Brown Drive in Uncasville, on Thursday, October 20, from 4:00 pm to 8:00 pm with a prayer service at 7:00 pm: and on Sunday, October 23 from 12 Noon to 4:00 pm, with a prayer service at 3:00 pm. Friends of the family are also welcome to come and celebrate Nettie's life at this time.

Donations in Annette's memory can be made to a charity of your choice.

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October 25, 2016

Annette was an amazing lady and I loved the way she was always so positive and upbeat. I remember what fun Fran used to have taking her shopping, to lunch and to get their hair & nails done. I know Annette will be truly missed.

Nancy Closson

October 22, 2016

Kathy and Nettie's family: Steve and I met Nettie at Orchard Grove. Both were patients there. Nettie would always give Steve encouragement when doing his therapy. She nicknamed him "Papa", she made him smile and he in turn would encourage Nettie to walk the rails. She and Kathy were always friendly and cheerful, we appreciated their friendships.Rest in peace dear Nettie. Love: Barbara & Steve Rich

October 22, 2016

David Shankman Prouty

I had only met Annette a few times, and she always made me feel welcome and a real part of the family. I will miss her.

October 19, 2016

Lorin and Janet Lapins

Our hearts go out to you and the entire family on the loss of such a wonderful mother, grandmother, aunt, and friend. We wish she had lived just 1 more day to witness the birth of the newest member of her extended family, our sweet new baby, Emily Grace, granddaughter of Lorin and Janet Lapins and daughter of Wayne and Kimberly Watts. Annette was always telling us how important this baby is and would have enjoyed sharing in the excitement of her arrival. I believe she must have been smiling down on us with great pleasure that day. We will miss her each and every day and wish safe journeys through the path she has chosen.

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October 19, 2016

Sam Prouty

We wish we could be with you for Shiva. Please know we're there in our hearts. Eva's favorite moments with Aunt Annette were when they spoke on the phone and Aunt Annette said, "Hello Dawling!!" That always made her smile. I will miss my lovely aunt.
Love,
Sam

October 19, 2016

Judi And David Keanon

October 18, 2016

Evelyn Bass

Sending you my sincere condolences and love!

Evelyn Bass

October 18, 2016

Doris Bass

Dear Marc, Cathy and family! I just want to give you my condolences. I have known your family since I was born. Living across from you in North Hollywood. That was a good time! My brother and I called your mom and dad Aunt and Uncle! Aunt Annette will be missed and I am sending you all my love!

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Oct

20

Prayer Service

7:00 p.m.

Kashar residence

CT 06382

Oct

20

Shiva

4:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Kashar residence

41 Richard Brown Drive, Uncasville, CT 06382

Oct

23

Prayer Service

3:00 p.m.

Kashar residence

41 Richard Brown Drive, Uncasville, CT 06382

Oct

23

Shiva

12:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m.

Kashar residence

41 Richard Brown Drive, Uncasville, CT 06382

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53 Norwich New London Tpke, Uncasville, CT 06382

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