Shan Vincent Sayles

1934 - 2016

Shan Vincent Sayles obituary, 1934-2016

BORN

1934

DIED

2016

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The Paul Mortuary

390 Lighthouse Ave

Pacific Grove, California

Shan Sayles Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Dec. 27, 2016.

A Celebration of Shan's Life will take place in March 2017. Arrangements under the direction of The Paul Mortuary, Pacific Grove, CA.

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April 3, 2017

Larry Kaplanis

Shan was big and loud and pretty much "in your face" but that's what was so endearing about him. I met him almost 20 years ago and in a very short time came to feel very close to him. I was privileged to know him and to experience his hospitality, both in his home in Palm Springs, California, and in Carmel as well. I will remember you, always, Shan. Rest in Peace.

January 18, 2017

Candace Harrison

Shan is one of the kindest men I have known. So very loving and always thinking of others. I will always feel blessed that I met him. Thinking of you John.

January 18, 2017

John Harris

Deepest condolences, John.

January 18, 2017

Sally Greene

Shan, the was a pleasure meeting you! Rest In Peace! Love you, JB!

January 18, 2017

James Yates

Sorry for your loss , brother ,only meet him twice, but love talking to him , a well traveled and educated person

January 18, 2017

Jan Lewis

January 18, 2017

Harvey Holbrook

So sorry for your loss John. Heartfelt condolences.

January 18, 2017

pam gollihue

So sorry for your loss may peace be with you, and help you , love and prayers to you.

January 18, 2017

MARCO RODRIGUEZ

John, I feel 4 Ur loss and pain, he was a beautiful fun loving man, may the good Lord Bless his way 2 heaven and may he also bless U N this time of need. Love always Marco

January 11, 2017

Susan Koza

Dear John, I just learned of Shan's passing. I'm so deeply sorry. Shan lived a fascinating life and the two of you shared such a great affection, not only for each other but for all the joys you made possible together. You are in my thoughts.

January 6, 2017

Valerie Kazansky

John, I hope that peace and comfort will find you. Although it is difficult to see beyond the sorrow today, I know we haven't really lost Shan because he has left an indelible imprint in our memories. I especially remember his stories which were engaging, humorous, and just terrific! I will miss my fascinating and loving friend.

January 4, 2017

Carol Claus

A brilliant man. He lived life to the fullest...no regrets. RIP dear Shan.

January 4, 2017

Jeanne Leone

I knew Shan through my cousin Tom DeSimone. I only used to see Shan from time to time and yet he always knew what was going on in my life had many helpful ideas and was one of the most generous people I have ever met. I always felt happy in his presence, he just has such wonderful energy and he was happy to share it with others. The world has lost one of its lights.

January 4, 2017

Bob DeSimone

The mere mention of your name always brought a smile to my face. Thank you, Shan, for the many laughs, movies, dinners, stories, anecdotes and life lessons. I am proud to have known you

Rest In Peace, dear friend

January 3, 2017

Tom DeSimone

A light that burned for fifty years in my life has gone dark. It will be difficult to go forward without the guidance, life-lessons and abounding humor and affection that Shan showed me over the years. To say he'll be missed doesn't do justice to the loss I am experiencing now. I'll miss our daily wake up calls, dear friend.
Tom DeSimone

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December 28, 2016

Gary Meyer

One of the most colorful showman in the film biz. I hope someone recored his many stories. It would make a great book.

December 27, 2016

Kit and Donna Parker

We have cherished our friendship with Shan over many years, and it is hard to believe someone so dynamic could ever be taken from us. The term "one of a kind" is overused, but in the case of Shan Sayles it truly fits. Bless you Shan for being such a good and caring friend.

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