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2017
Shirley M. Merrow, 79, of Lewiston, passed away on Tuesday February 21, 2017, at the Androscoggin Hospice House surrounded by her loving family. Shirley was born in New Haven, Vermont, June 10, 1937, the daughter of the late Scott and Christine (Currier) Lowell. On October 22, 1955, she married the love of her life, Raymond Merrow. She was a military wife, who traveled to Bermuda, Japan and numerous stateside bases during her husband's military career. After retiring from the military together they lived and worked in the Lewiston-Auburn area while raising their four daughters. Besides being a loving homemaker, she spent over 10 years working at St. Casmire Nursing Home and John F Murphy Homes. In her later years she worked with her daughter Rachelle at Playful Pals Home Day Care. As is evident by the type of work she did, she was a caring and loving person who was all about taking care of her family. She loved family gatherings, playing card games around the table, doing crossword puzzles and collecting magnets from her travels and her families travels. Her biggest joy was camping every weekend while raising her girls. After they were grown she continued the tradition by renting large lakeside homes to spend time with her girls and their families. Her hobbies included painting, ceramics, bowling and going to craft fairs. She was a camp counselor back in her younger years for the Girl Scouts of America. Most of all she was always willing to help those in need. She was a loving wife and devoted mother. Shirley is survived by her husband of over 61 years, Raymond Merrow, and four daughters: Shelly Merrow of Lewiston, Sheila Merrow of Freeport, Rhonda Dow and her husband David Jr. of Buckfield and Rachelle Dickinson and her husband Bart of Lewiston, nine grandchildren: Stephanie, Scott Sr., Melissa, Jonathan, Timothy, Christina, Hannah, Hunter and Julia, nine great grandchildren: Scott Jr., Ella, Matthew, Alexis, Natalie, Brynn, Ronan, Joseph and Kenzie, a sister in law: Donna Lowell of Vermont and many nieces and nephews. The family would like to express their special thanks to Mass. General Hospital as well as the Androscoggin Hospice House and their compassionate staff for the loving care given to Shirley in her final days. You are invited to share your condolences, fond memories and pay tribute to Shirley by visiting her guestbook at: www.thefortingroupauburn.com
Visitation will be held on Thursday March 2 at The Fortin Group/Plummer Merrill Funeral Home in Auburn from 6:00 to 8:00 PM and on Friday from 1:00 to 3:00 PM. Funeral services will be held at the Funeral Home at 3:00 PM on Friday March 3. Committal Services will be held on June 10th at St. Peter's Cemetery in Lewiston at 11 A.M. For those wishing to make a donation in honor of Shirley's memory please send to: The Hospice House of Androscoggin Home Care and Hospice, In Memory of Shirley Merrow, 236 Stetson Rd., Auburn, ME 04210. A Service of The Fortin Group Funeral Home, Cremation and Monument Services, 217 Turner St., Auburn, Me. 04210. 783-8545s, 217 Turner St., Auburn, Me. 04210. 783-8545
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March 17, 2017
Hi Hon
I miss you so much, it's breaking my heart but I know I have to be strong for the girls and the grandchildren. I'll never forget the last three words you said to me "I love you". You must of practice saying them all day, because you were having such a difficult time trying to talk and the minute I walked in the room you looked at me and said those precious three words. I can't wait to be with you.
Love You Forever
Your Husband Ray
March 2, 2017
Richard and Beverly York
Deepest sympathy to Ray and family! I enjoyed working w/Shirley at St.Casimir, as well as visiting Ray and Shirley in their home! I was always impressed w/the closeness and love in their home! Family was her life! Rest in peace, Shirley?
March 2, 2017
Phyllis Morrissey
Deepest sympathies to Ray and familyWe are so sorry to hear of Shirley's passing.Never saw Shirley without a big smile,she was always so pleasant! So many memories.Sincerely Jack and Phyllis
March 2, 2017
a loved one
February 28, 2017
Norman Lizotte
My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time of need. You are all so blessed to have such great memories. I have some great memories of Aunt Shirley that I will never forget. She was a person that if you needed to talk she was there and would tell you like it is, which was great, there was no beating around the bush with Aunt Shirley. She is now at peace and no more suffering. She will be deeply missed.
February 28, 2017
Debbie Sansone
To the Merrow family, We are so sorry to hear the news of Shirley's passing she was such a wonderful person to be around and will be greatly missed. I have a lot of wonderful memories of Shirley in the daycare we had some good times together. My heart is with all of you in this difficult time. Love from Hank and Debbie Sansone
February 28, 2017
Linda&Bob Goulette
To Ray and Family,We are so sorry to learn of Shirley's passing. She was such a beautiful and wonderful person with a smile that would light up any room. Her light hearted personality was an inspiration to us all. She will be greatly missed.
May you have some comfort, in the memories that you share of her. Love Linda and Bob Goulette.
February 27, 2017
Sally Lester
To the Merrow family, I am so sorry for your loss, Aunt Shirley was a great lady and enjoyed many laughs with her and Uncle Ray. She will be greatly missed and your all in my prayers. Take care and I know how hard this is for all of you! Love Sally (Ryan and Brittany's mom)
February 27, 2017
Dear Raymond and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I am so sad about the passing of one of the sweetest women I have ever known. She really was a joy to be around. She is the last one of the Lowell siblings. I just know they all welcomed her with open arms. I am so sorry we will not be with you this week, but we will see you in June. Love you all
Donna Lowell
February 27, 2017
Amy Edwards Klette
Mel, I'm so sorry for the loss of your Gram. She was such an amazing woman and I'm so blessed to have known her. My heart is with you and the family.
February 27, 2017
To my very special Uncle Ray, my thoughts are with you and all of my cousins. To my very special Aunt Shirley, I will miss you smiling face each time you entered a room and reached out and gave me a hug. You always made me feel loved and warmed my heart. I will always remember you with a smile on my face. You are now an Angel looking over your amazing husband, daughters and family and friends. love you lots, Pam
February 27, 2017
Terry Fournier
February 25, 2017
Melissa Grondin
Gram,
I could fill the guest book but I'll keep it short and sweet. You have and always will be the light of my life, my role model and so much more!! I don't know what I'm going to do without you. I have so many joyous memories that I will forever cherish until we meet again. Thank you for being "world's best grammy" & great grandmother, for being the best role model for both myself and my girls, for all your love, for EVERYTHING!! I miss you so much already. Until we meet again, know I love you to the moon and back, forever and always. Family is forever ❤ RIP to the most amazing woman in the world!! Love you Gram ❤
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