Debra (Oelschlagel) McIntyre, 63, of Old Saybrook passed away peacefully surrounded by her family on March 13. Debbie was born in Westbrook, CT to the late Herbert and Kathleen Oelschlagel. After graduating from Westbrook High School, Debbie married her high school sweetheart and they started their journey to live happily ever after. Over their 44 years of marriage they lived in Montana, Virginia, Germany, California and North Dakota before returning to the CT Shoreline. Debbie is survived by two children, Jason McIntyre of Minneapolis, MN and Jasmine McIntyre of Stamford, CT, and her grandchildren Emma McIntyre and Harper McIntyre. She is also survived by her sisters Linda Norton, K.C. Whelen and Laurie McGrath. Debbie retired after 20 years as a civil servant at the Grand Forks Air Force Base and Groton Naval Base . In her retirement, Debbie pursued her lifelong dream of becoming an Artist. Some of the things that Debbie loved most was time with her family and friends, bike rides to the beach, sketching, jewelry making, art journaling, painting, teaching art classes, sister trips, and always trying to make things special for others.
Calling hours are from 5:00 - 7:00 p.m. Friday March 17th at Swan Funeral Home on 1224 Boston Post Rd, Old Saybrook CT. A funeral service will be held at 10:00 a.m. on Saturday March 18th at Westbrook Congregational Church at 1166 Boston Post Road, Westbrook, CT 06498. In lieu of flowers, donations in Debbie's memory may be made to the Michael J. Fox Foundation.
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March 29, 2017
Paula Weigel
Please accept my deepest condolences. Deb and I met in Charlotte at an artist weekend. In fact, I took a photo for her of her and Bob in the hotel - they were the first people I met at the conference. She had a light and generosity that touched everyone. What a lovely soul. I pray for peace for your family.
March 20, 2017
Eric & Sue Clayton
Dear Bob, We were so sorry to hear of Deb's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Jasmine and Jason.
March 19, 2017
Toby and Debbie Post
Our deepest condolences, Uncle Bob and Family, may you find some comfort in all your treasured memories.
Aunt Debbie will always be In our hearts, a memory will always be kept, of one we loved, and will never forget.
March 18, 2017
Kathy Johns
Dear Bob, Jasmine and Jason,
My deepest sympathy. Deb always brought out the best in people. She was the sister I never had and will truly be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
March 18, 2017
Tom and Barbara Dingle
Extending our deepest sympathies, Bob, Jasmine, Jason, and family. May your many happy memories comfort you during this difficult time.
March 18, 2017
Tom and Barbara Dingle
Please accept our deepest sympathy on your loss.
March 17, 2017
Ruth Baker
It's hard to believe such a young, vibrant woman is no longer with us. She was very special. Prayers for the family
March 17, 2017
Peg York Witham
My deepest condolences to Debs family and friends. God has blessed us with a wonderful gift...it is called 'our memories'...may your memories help you through this time and keep her close to you. Rest in eternal peace, Deb.
March 17, 2017
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Cheryl Dyer
March 17, 2017
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Cheryl Dyer
March 17, 2017
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Cheryl Dyer
From the moment we first met I knew we'd be friends. I still laugh whenever I enter an elevator (only she and Bree understand that) and I smile when I look at her artwork on my wall or on my wrist. She was a confidant and friend and always knew just the right words to say. I will be forever grateful that we met. My heart goes out to Bob, Jazz, Jason and the girls... she talked about her love for all of you so often and her eyes lit up every time. Rest in peace my friend. <3
March 16, 2017
john krom
sorry for your loss
March 16, 2017
I only knew mac thru the paper craft club house...but she had such a genuine sharing art soul...it was always extra special whether she was the instructor or a fellow classmate to spend time with her. May god grant her family peace, comfort Nd wonderful memories. Peej lankford, Meriden, ct
March 16, 2017
Sally (Brennan) Coviello
My deepest sympathies are with you, Bob, and your beautiful family. I will never forget Debbie and her positive, loving energy.
March 16, 2017
Rick and Joanne Faraci
Jasmine and family, our deepest condolences to all. Deb was one of the sweetest women we knew.
March 16, 2017
MaryElla Coakley
My deepest Condolences to the family. Debbie touched the hearts of many, she encouraged many of us from the Inspired days to chase our dreams to just do what our hearts felt. One of my greatest Memories she shared with me is from a story her Dad had shared with her while sailing...He said Hey Debbie I wonder what the Rich people are doing? We will miss you Mac...You have gained your Angel wings.
March 15, 2017
Connie and Hal Farrington
To Bob and family of Debra :Our deepest sympathy .We were blessed to have your family as great neighbors over the years and your friendship . We will miss her and never forget her wonderful personality . I even got to know Debbie at the Sub Base when we both worked there . We have both seen our families grow and move onwards in life . love and prayers to everyone Connie and Hal
March 15, 2017
Suzanne "Zanne" Koller
Mac, you "Inspired" so many when we met you at Inspired all those years ago. You are gone too soon. I send my heartfelt condolences to your beautiful family.
March 15, 2017
Keith & Cathy Maynard
Dear Bob and family:
We are so very sorry for your loss. Debbie was blessed with a great life filled by a loving husband, children, granddaughters, sisters and many friends. She will be missed by all. You are in our prayers at this most difficult time. May the Lord heal your hearts.
March 15, 2017
Colleen Antone
Debbie's love light was always "on" - she touched so many lives in so many loving ways - hold onto all the cherished memories she gave to all she loved. Prayers and blessings to all her loved ones.
March 15, 2017
Judy in Huntsville AL
Such a sweet soul... I met her at one of her many art weekends... will cherish my bracelet she created. Hold on to the good memories, praying for you all during this time-
March 15, 2017
The Bechard Family
Keeping all of you in our thoughts and our prayers!
March 15, 2017
Mark Dunham
We were so sorry to hear of your deep loss. Loosing someone so close leaves the deepest of holes in your heart. Her place must have left a giant gap and hopefully it will be filled with the happiest of your memories and love that lives on in you and your children and others she loved. Be well ~ Mark Dunham and wife, Anita Ferrari
March 15, 2017
Morgan and Puchita Ely
Our sincere condolences to the family. Our prayers are with you. Blessings to all.
March 15, 2017
Celise McLaughlin
I will miss my childhood friend. My sincere condolences to Bob, their children and the families.
March 15, 2017
Michael and Crystal Sonn
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this hard time.
March 15, 2017
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Sandy & Jim Long
Jazz, Bob and Jason and the girls... My the good Lord give you strength to get through this difficult time. Your family will forever be in our thoughts and prayers. I am so blessed to have a bestie like Mac. She one of a kind to all who she touched. Her spice for life was contagious and was always willing to help any way she could, made me want to be a better person. A cup of coffee, a glass of wine or a bottle of water and good conversations made our lives more rich just knowing Deb was in them. Until our paths cross again my friend you will forever be missed. XO
Sandy & Jim
March 15, 2017
Barb & Bill Kelsey
Our deepest sympathy goes out to Bob, Jasmine & Jason, along with the entire McIntyre family. Deb was a wonderful, caring person. Her life should not have been cut short so quickly. Everyone that knew her will miss her cheerful, great smile. To know Deb was to love her. We will miss her that's for sure
March 13, 2017
Jazz, Bob, Jason, It's unimaginable to think of a world without this special loving woman, I was honored and blessed to be able to call her friend. She truly was a blessing in my life, I will miss her more than words can convey. Please know your are in our thoughts and prayers, today and always. Peg & Bill
March 13, 2017
May God's loving kindness and comfort help you and your family through this very sad time Psalms 29:11
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