Douglas Gilliam Millan

1956 - 2017

Douglas Gilliam Millan obituary, 1956-2017, Raleigh, NC

BORN

1956

DIED

2017

FUNERAL HOME

Mitchell Funeral Home at Raleigh Memorial Park

7209 Glenwood Ave

Raleigh, North Carolina

Douglas Millan Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Mar. 19, 2017.

Douglas Gilliam Millan was born in Carle Place, NY on June 15, 1956. Douglas joined the Durham Police Department in 1978 and served with distinction for 20 years, earning the ranks of Master Officer and Corporal. During his time he also served as an investigator with the Organized Crime and Drug Division. He received both the Veterans of Foreign Wars Police Officer of the Year Award and the Law Enforcement Award by the Durham Optimist Club.

Douglas moved on to join the North Carolina Alcohol Testing Branch as a lead instructor teaching Breathalyzer testing certification. While at the Testing Branch, Douglas was awarded the prestigious Order of the Long Leaf Pine from the Governor for distinguished service to the State.

After retirement from the State, he returned to police work with the Rolesville Police Department, and the Creedmoor Police Department where he served as Sergeant. He retired from Creedmoor in 2013. While working in law enforcement, Douglas earned Associate degrees in Law Enforcement and Fire Science from Durham Technical College.

Douglas is survived by his beloved wife, Mary Millan and Siggy, his miniature schnauzer who adored Doug. Mrs. Millan is the Instructional Resource Teacher at Leesville Road Elementary School in Raleigh. He is survived by his beloved brother Doc Ryan, Glenn, Charles, Jim, and a sweet sister Pam Millan.

He loved his mother-in-law, Jean Marie Farmer of Royse City, TX, whom he called Mom and considered his second mother; sisters-in-law Becky Jonczak and husband Larry of Rockwall, TX, Ann Marie Dunlap of Erie, PA, and Rachel Farmer, Royse City, TX; brother-in-law Matthew Farmer and wife Judy of Manassas, VA. Douglas had many nieces and nephews and great nieces and nephews whom he loved.

He is pre-deceased by his parents, James and Geraldine Millan and his beloved twin brother, Bruce.

Douglas was a loving husband to his wife that he cherished so deeply, a loving brother, and a loving son. He will be deeply missed by all those officers whose lives he touched as a devoted mentor to the younger officers who worked under him, and by all those in the community whose lives he so frequently touched by the compassion he showed to them.

Douglas was a member of the Masons.

Family will receive friends on Tuesday evening from 6-8 pm at Mitchell Funeral Home (7209 Glenwood Avenue in Raleigh). Services Celebrating Doug's Life will be held on Wednesday, March 22, 2017 at 11 am at the funeral home chapel.

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March 13, 2019

Friend

Brian Devore

You still are missed my friend and I think of you often.

January 5, 2018

Steven Layne

I am deeply saddened to hear about the passing of Doug. In the late 70s we worked together in security in Gimbles in Roosevelt Field Garden City N.Y. We both wanted to be Police Officers and I rode with him when he was with Durham Public Safety. I eventually became a Police Officer for NYPD, but lost contact with him. I even knew his twin when we lived on Long island. I just thought of him out of the blue and googled his name. My sincere condolences. I know it's just short of a year according to the Obituary, but once again I am sadden to read of his passing last year.

July 4, 2017

Mike Walden

I knew Doug through Bruce during our days in Durham during the 80s and early 90s. Unfortunately, I lost touch with Doug after Bruce's passing and did not know Doug had passed until July 4, when a mutual friend and I went out to Oak Grove to visit Bruce. My deepest condolences to Doug's family and friends. They were both fine men.

June 6, 2017

Bruce Borer

So today I found out about Doug's passing and saying I'm devastated is the least of it. I last saw Doug and Mary back in early March and little did I know that would be the last time I would see him. Doug and I got to be good friends for a while but then I had some personal issues I was dealing with and I became distant from the two of them for some time and we weren't speaking. However after running into them that evening in March I felt perhaps it was time to patch things up and take some time to say hello and catch up and more importantly apologize for my disappearance and lack of communication. Sadly I never had that chance and it hits me hard. I've learned a harsh lesson, cherish your friends and live in the moment for you never know what might happen tomorrow. Doug, sorry for not being a better friend, you were one of the most kindest people I will ever meet.

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March 26, 2017

Algie D. Toomer,JR.

March 21, 2017

John Krokowski

To the family and friends of Doug, sorry for his loss. Doug was a great person and a professional always. R.I.P. Doug.

March 21, 2017

Raymond Rook

Hearing of Doug's passing was a shock. Mary ,I never had the pleasure of meeting you but Doug and I use to talk a lot before he moved from Hillsboro. He always wanted to be the best at everything he did. A good friend and he will be missed dearly. Rest in Peace Douggy.

March 21, 2017

Frances Cheek

I live in Rolesville and knew Doug when he was a police officer here. He was a kind and considerate man. He was proactive in our neighborhoods, watchful and vigilant. He made our community a better place. My prayers are with his family as they seek comfort at this time.

March 21, 2017

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Ava Cawthorne

Mary, So sorry to hear of Doug's passing, I knew him many many years ago. What a wonderful man. My condolences to all.

March 21, 2017

Sharon Hupp

Mary, it has been a pleasure to read about the love that is felt by so many for your precious Doug. What an amazing man! He clearly accomplished more than many could ever hope for in his earthly lifetime. He leaves this earth knowing he was loved and cherished by you, his family, his colleagues, his friends and from what it sounds like...Siggy too! You, Mary, are loved and cherished as well and you will remain in my thoughts and prayers. ❤

March 21, 2017

Mike Talbot

My condolences to the Millan family.
Thank you Doug for all your years of service.

March 21, 2017

Art Holland

I had the pleasure of working with the Millan brothers at the Durham Police Department. All were exceptional officers. I was shocked to hear about Doug's passing. He was such a great guy. He will be deeply missed!

March 21, 2017

Ric Lanning

I am so sorry to hear about Doug, he was always the perfect gentleman, like his brothers. RIP Buddy!!

March 21, 2017

Glenn Millan

Many years together as brothers and with the DPD and many years apart.
Very sad to learn of Doug's passing but glad to know he Rests in Peace
with our brother Bruce. Mary, we are glad you and Doug were together
to enrich each other's lives.
Glenn & family and your Sister Pam.

March 21, 2017

Rick Layton

Doug worked for me in District 3 at DPD. An outstanding officer that always gave it his best. RIP my friend. Rick Layton

March 20, 2017

Ercilene correa

Sad,sad, but God have the control, was very nice talk to you Friend, don't matter if the others customers was waiting, was nice listen you that mornings, when you was frustrated in this crazy world, flying whit angels friend go enjoy your brother compania, I will say you name every day when I call my best friend name (Channel millan)

March 20, 2017

Charles Millan

Posted by Charles Millan

March 20, 2017

I had the privilege of knowing Doug for a relatively short time. We didn't always agree on politics or sports teams, but he always treated me with respect regardless of our differences. He also had some great stories to tell, and kept me laughing. Doug held all Veterans in high regard and often thanked me for my service, which embarrassed me. He regretted not being able to serve in the Armed Forces. I spent 4 years in the Navy; on the other hand, Doug put his life on the line for 30 plus years serving and protecting the public. in the last 3 years, I have come to know one of the kindest, gentlest, unselfish, and most generous men I have ever known. Doug - Rest in peace, you will be missed.

Keith Bailey

March 20, 2017

Mike Massey

Lenore and I are saddened to learn of the passing of Mr Douglas Millan. Glenn and we were neighbors which enabled us to know Doug and of his dedicated service to Durham and beyond. Our thoughts are with all family and friends.

March 20, 2017

Grace Martin

Mary, my thoughts and prayers are with you. With sincere sympathy, Grace Martin

March 20, 2017

david laeng

Prayers for the family. R.I.P. Doug It was an honor working with you. Lots of great memories.

March 20, 2017

Richard smith

I'm sorry to hear of Doug's passing. His brother Bruce and I were on the same squad in District 1 for several years. I originally met Doug, Bruce, and "Scoop" while I was on the sheriff's dept. back in the late 70's. These were all three fine officers as well as fine men. My prayers are with the family. Richard A. Smith (Timberlake, NC)

March 20, 2017

Lara Ryan

I was saddened to hear Doug had passed. He's been a loyal friend to my Dad, Doc Ryan, and I fondly remember his kindness and gentle humor throughout the long years of friendship with our family. My condolences to everyone who will be missing Doug daily.

March 20, 2017

Paul Taylor

I've know Doug many years in law enforcement. Always sad to lose a brother officer. My condolences.

March 20, 2017

Jodi Lay

Mary, I am so sorry for your loss. While I never had the chance to meet Doug, I knew him through your eyes. He was the love of your life and it was so easy to see why! What an amazing man! I am sending love and prayers my dear friend.

March 20, 2017

Charles Nordan

I knew and worked with both Doug and Bruce. Two of the finest men around. So sorry to hear of his passing.

March 20, 2017

Darlene Clayton

My condolences to Doug's family

March 20, 2017

I am very saddened to hear of the passing of Doug. I met Doug through working at the Chapel Hill Police Department and he became a friend very quickly! My deepest condolences and prayers to Doug's Family and friends!
RIP my friend! Phil Smith (CHPD), Chapel Hill, N.C.

March 20, 2017

Patty Jordan

Mary, I was so shocked to hear of Doug's passing. Please know my prayers are with you.

March 20, 2017

Kent Caldwell

Doug and I were classmates at Carle Place. Our deepest condolences and prayers for all the family and friends. Always.

March 20, 2017

FRED PEARCE

I KNEW DOUG, AND HIS BROTHERS. THEY WERE ALL GOOD MEN, AND L.E.O'S. R.I.P. DOUG. MY PRAYERS GO OUT TO GLENN AND THE REST OF HIS FAMILY.

March 19, 2017

This is a shock to hear. I send my condolences to the Millan family. My prayers are with you. -Barbara May LI, NY

March 19, 2017

Brian Devore

As down to earth as anyone I've ever known, and considered everyone a friend. I enjoyed working all the those long night shifts with him. He would always listen out for us in the county and would be there in a second if i needed assistance. RIP Doug, you'll always be remembered!! GCSO

March 19, 2017

Charles Millan

So sorry to hear the news of Doug's death. We have been sharing stories and remembering the good times we had with Doug. Mary, our prayers are with you.
Love and peace. Chuck and Kitty Millan

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March 19, 2017

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March 19, 2017

Kiran and Shawn Masich

Doug was a great friend and brought so much fun and excitement to the neighborhood. It just won't be the same without him. We will miss you Doug. We love you.

March 19, 2017

John Knight

Doug was a fine officer and a joy to work with at DPD. He was one of the most respectful people I had the pleasure to be around and always strived to do his best. May GOD'S peace bring comfort to the entire family.

March 19, 2017

Matthew Anderson

Doug was my friend. I will miss him. He always had a smile and something funny to say. Never missing a beat Doug had a quick wit and an unmatched ability to make you laugh when you needed it the most. He had a genuine concern for his friends and those he loved.
Rest easy, my Brother. I will miss you're phone calls, lunches together and deep conversations about things that made us laugh. I will miss the Masonic Brotherhood we shared and all things about you.

March 19, 2017

Carolyn Wilkerson

My prayers go out to Doug wife and his family wonderful person and brother in blue. Sleep on my brother sleep on the battle was fought and you my friend have victory. Much love brother.

March 19, 2017

Don Hanan

I remember the day Doug joined the DPD. He was such an honorable person who always did the right thing. R.I.P.

March 19, 2017

Steve Campbell

My first roommate after I got out of the Academy we had a great time. We had drifted apart after he left the Department but he was a true friend, the world is a lesser place with out him. RIP

March 19, 2017

Kevin Dean

Doug I'm in shock my brother. You were a friend and coworker a good and worthy brother Mason for many years. Your work ethic is what others strive to achieve. God speed and blessings my brother. May you Rest In Peace in that place not made with hands eternal to the heavens.

March 19, 2017

Norman Beck

Prayers for the family. Douglas was a great guy who loved to help others. We always had a lot of fun together. RIP Brother

March 19, 2017

Harold Boyd

Prayers for you and your family, a great guy, I enjoyed lots of laughs with. R.I.P.

March 19, 2017

Harold Pickrell

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