Joseph Bernard Lagoy

1965 - 2017

Joseph Bernard Lagoy obituary, 1965-2017, Virginia Beach, VA

BORN

1965

DIED

2017

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Joseph Lagoy Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Apr. 10, 2017.

Joseph Bernard Lagoy, 51, passed away April 9, 2017 surrounded by his family. Born in Leominster, Mass., he was the son of Phillip and Suzanne Lagoy.
Joseph was a sailor in the U.S. Navy for 10 years, where he served as a Petty Officer Second Class. During his time in the Navy he earned many achievements. He ended his service on the USS Dwight D. Eisenhower.
After his military service, he spent 15 years with the federal government working for MARMC.
He is survived by his loving wife, Sue, of 27 years; his children, Derrick and Kellie; his sisters, Ann-Marie Fontaine and Caroline Brunton; his many nieces and nephews. He was preceded by his brother, Phillip.
A funeral service will be held on Saturday, April 15, 2017 at 3 p.m. at Smith & Williams Funeral Home, 818 Norview Avenue, Norfolk, VA 23509.

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April 14, 2017

Tom McWain

I worked with Joe on the Kennedy. I have a zillion memories. From the hockey games, softball games, to Santa's Helper in France.
Being MM's, we worked in spaces throughout the ship, responsible for a myriad of equipment. Joe pretty much knew it all. I remember a time in the Mediterranean, he had to do a repair on an aircraft elevator. In the dark of night, underway. Kinda sorta under the elevator. He just said, give me a flashlight.
He was a great shipmate, and a great man. I count myself lucky to have had him as a friend. I'll miss our "talks" about the Flyers and Bruins. I will miss you, my friend....

April 13, 2017

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Mark Raasio

It's with a heavy heart that I send condolences to the Lagoy family. I've known and worked with Joe for a few years now and have learned a lot from him. He will be missed by a great many people. May the Lord bless and comfort his family and all who knew him.

April 13, 2017

Ron Rutan

Joe,
Your family, loved ones, friends, and co-workers will all miss your full-bodied fun and energetic way of living life. I thought that sharing a memory I have from long ago would be appropriate. It is more about your sports acumen than your great work skills, or any truly hilarious exploits...of which you had many.
If you recall Joe, the USS JOHN F. KENNEDY had two semi-professional (term used loosely here) Softball Teams, the 'A' Team and the 'B' Team. They traveled and played teams within the city of Norfolk. Auxiliaries Division (known as A-Gang not to be confused with 'a gang'), on the other hand, scrapped together a bunch of misfit players and competed on the base between other divisions, departments, and even other ships. So...the ship (prompted by the 'A' team and 'B' team) decided to put together a softball tournament....and of course A-Gang competed. We beat all comers and met the 'A' Team in the finals. Throughout the season and especially during the final game, I watched you (and envied you at times) play Short Stop. You recall I was Third...and Ed was 1st Base. The most impressive display....which I still talk about today, mostly to the Little League boys I coach....was the manner in which you fielded the ball. No matter how hard it was hit to you....like a rocket, bouncing off hard uneven packed dirt, skidding, or even bending on the fly....you were like a vacuum cleaner....sucked them all up. And then the part that sticks in my mind to this day.....after calmly fielding the ball, or flying through the air to snatch it with inches to spare and dust flying off your glove and body, you would stop....look into your glove....take out the ball....inspect it....move it around a little to get your fingers properly on the threads....and then you would step calmly towards first base and fire a rocket that would crack into Ed's glove. The runner always thought he had a chance....and the ball would always arrive 1/2 to a full step in front of the runner.
And your skills were never lorded over others....a true team player....you built up others around you and made us all better. Even Tenhulzen (sp?) who never played before and was so very out of place on the field. We were a true 'team' and you were a true leader. I will miss you.
...And you were an incredible mechanic too :-)
Maybe....if it is appropriate....I will tell the story of you, Tubaca, and the fuse pullers.
My prayers for you and your family,
Ron

April 13, 2017

Scott Drew

Rest in peace my brother in arms. My heart goes out to Sue, your two beautiful children, your family and friends. Save me a seat in the blue boxes bud. We all miss you very much...

April 13, 2017

Brian Tinder

What a shock! Some of us leave this world too early & Joe was one of them. Our thoughts & prayers go out to Sue, the kids, & those close to him. Wishing the Lagoy's the best in the future from Brian & Sharon Tinder & the HyVal family.

April 13, 2017

Mike Novak

I worked with Joe for many years providing tech support to the Navy. I learned a lot from having Joe's input and will miss that access. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family, both personal and his work environment.

Mike Novak (Philadelphia, PA.

April 11, 2017

Brad

I would call Joe a close friend. He will be sorely missed on the ORF waterfront, as he always wanted what was best for the Navy. But he was needed to keep our Navy running strong in Heaven! And to look over the Bruins...and to play the best courses imaginable!

April 11, 2017

Leroy Cook

I have woked with Joe for many years. He was also in high gear. He will be missed on the waterfront.
God bless him please.

April 11, 2017

Priscilla CORCORAN

We are heartbroken for the Lagoy family. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Much love, Dick and Priscilla Corcoran

April 11, 2017

Mac McDermott

My condolences to the Lagoy family ! Joe was a good man who will be sorely missed . He was the Boston Bruins # 1 fan ! ! I have many good memories of working with and talking to him about ship problems . He was very dedicated at what he did . RIP big guy ! !

April 11, 2017

Neal Degala

Heaven has gained another angel. Rest In Peace Brother.

April 11, 2017

Rich

I consider myself lucky to have been able to count Joe as my friend. I will carry great memories of him with me for the rest of my life.

April 11, 2017

Kenny Guishard

My condolences and prayers go out to the Lagoy family.

April 11, 2017

Nina Davis

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

April 11, 2017

Dave M.

We hadn't spent much time together, but the days on travel were fun. You will be missed Joe.

April 11, 2017

THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH THE LAGOY FAMILY.. WHAT A JOY TO HAVE YOU AS A FRIEND AND CO WORKER. YOU WILL BE GREATLY MISSED. GLEN AND LAURA NELSON

April 11, 2017

I am very sorry for you loss, may god hold you close at this time

Tommy MARMC

April 11, 2017

Karen Price

My sincere condolences to the Lagoy family. He will be missed.

April 10, 2017

Such a tragic year for the Lagoy family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time.

Jeanne and Rick Brown

April 10, 2017

Brian Shevlin

I'm sorry for your loss, If there is anything you need please let us know.

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