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O'Brien, Thomas Patrick, 56, of Beavercreek, passed away Friday, May 5, 2017 at Hospice of Dayton. He is preceded in death by his father Thomas J. O'Brien, brother Gary O'Brien, father-in-law Herbert Forsthoefel. Survived by his wife Ramona (Mona) O'Brien of Beavercreek; mother Patricia O'Brien of Beavercreek; children Tim (Jessie) O'Brien of Beavercreek, Kevin O'Brien (Emily Snyder) of Beavercreek, Kyle O'Brien (Rachel Reed) of Beavercreek; Chelsea O'Brien (Jackson Vandergriff) of Beavercreek; brother Bill O'Brien of Beavercreek; sisters Barb (Jerry) Hemmelgarn of Knoxville, TN, Connie O'Brien and husband Brian Jarvis of Beavercreek, Erin O'Brien and husband Greg Bell of Bellbrook, Kristy O'Brien and husband David Leo of Beavercreek, Kelly Maxwell and husband Ken of Beavercreek;mother-in-law Madeline Forsthoefel of Coldwater, OH; brothers in law and sisters-in-law Roger (Peggy) Forsthoefel of New Paris, OH, Doug (Judy) Forsthoefel of Coldwater, OH, Paula (Matt) Dirksen of Winchester, IN; special cousin Holly Whalen of Columbia, S. Carolina; numerous nieces, nephews and cousins. Thomas was a Financial Manager at WPAFB for 20 years, a member of Ascension Church, and was an avid UD Flyer fan. Thomas also coached the CYO teams for many years in numerous sports. Family will receive friends from 5-9 PM Tuesday, May 9, 2017 at TOBIAS FUNERAL HOME-BEAVERCREEK CHAPEL, 3970 Dayton-Xenia Rd. at Grange Hall Rd. Prayers will be 9:45 AM Wednesday, May 10, 2017 at the funeral home. Mass of Christian Burial 10:30 AM Wednesday at the Church of the Ascension, 2025 Woodman Dr. Interment Calvary Cemetery. Contributions may be made to the American Cancer Society or a charity of your choice. Online condolences may be sent to www.tobiasfuneralhome.com.
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May 10, 2017
Bob & Carol Dirksen
Mona and family, Sorry to hear about the loss of Tom. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers during this time. May God bless you in your days ahead.
May 9, 2017
Kimberly Poole
I worked with Tom for several years, he was one of the most knowledgeable and kindest people I've ever met. He will be missed greatly by those of us at Wright-Patt. My thoughts are with all of you during this difficult time.
May 9, 2017
Tim, Mona and the O'Brien family,
We remember many days watching the boys play basketball together. Tom will be missed. Our family is all thinking of you during this time.
Jean, Tom and Mike DeBrosse
May 9, 2017
Dawn Voelkl
I am so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. I worked with him for several years, and he was one of the best people with whom I have ever worked. My thoughts and prayers are with his family during this very difficult time.
May 9, 2017
Sandy VanEtten
Mona,
I'm so sorry to hear about Tom. May God bless you and your family during this difficult time and help you find strength and peace.
May 9, 2017
Jan Cannon
Mona, I am very sorry for you and your family, I can't put into words how sad I am to hear of Tom's passing. His love for all of you shows in the photos, every single one of them.
May 9, 2017
John Stachler
My son Damon and I were greatly saddened to hear of Tom's passing. We enjoyed getting to know Tom while playing basketball at Ascension Church on Sunday evenings. Tom and his family are in are prayers.
May 9, 2017
Kim Carroll
I am so very sorry to hear of Tom's passing. Tom was not only a wonderful co-worker for 20+ years, but a wonderful friend. My deepest condolences for Tom's family and friends. Tom will be missed greatly. Praying for strength and peace for all of Tom's family. God Bless and be with all of you during this sad time.
May 9, 2017
Amy Christopher
I was saddened to hear about Tom's illness and death, My greatest sympathies go out to all the O'Briens.
May 9, 2017
Libby LoPresti
I am so sorry to hear about Tom's passing. God gained a great man. God Bless the O'Brien family.
May 9, 2017
Sally Crowe Nash
Dear Aunt Patty, Cousins, Mona and Family,
My brother Dan let us know about Tommy's illness and death. We are grieving and praying for you. We feel blessed that we got to know him and Mona at the O'Brien family reunion our family attended in the late 90's.
May 9, 2017
Dennis Kahn
I had the honor of working with Tom for almost ten years. I found him to be one of the kindest people I had ever met. Whether he was having a tough day or not, he always had time for others. Tom never complained or dwelt on any of his own problems, but always had his employees and customers interests as a priority. I loved talking to him about our beloved Dayton Flyer basketball team. He was always so optimistic about their future. I'll miss him a lot and will always have fond memories of him and his ever-present smile. You served the US Air Force well and I personally owe you a debt of gratitude. I love you, Tom and will think of you often. May God bless Mona and the entire O'Brien family.
Dennis Kahn
May 9, 2017
Robin Horth
Tom was taken from you far too soon, Mona. Our prayers and condolences are with you and your family in your time of sorrow. Robin and Helen Horth
May 8, 2017
Sandy & Jeff Van Fleet
Our hearts are heavy to be writing in this guestbook today. We will miss Tom but have so many memories of him - playing volleyball in the many gyms over the last 25+ years, and the fun afterwards, New Year's Eve parties and many other moments. We feel blessed to have happened upon the O'Brien Clan for Ken's birthday not long ago to visit with Tom and share a pint. We wish we could be with you tomorrow but our thoughts, prayers and hearts are with the whole O'Brien family.
May 8, 2017
Ruth Crivello
Mona,
I am so very sorry and my heart goes out to you and your family. I know how difficult this time is and my prayers are with you.
Ruth Crivello
May 8, 2017
Rhonda Tubbs
My deepest condolences to the entire O'Brien family. May God strengthen you all now and in the many days ahead. Tom was a wonderful person.
Rhonda Tubbs
Wright-Patt FM Family
May 8, 2017
Beth Jankowski
Mona,
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Tom was so very blessed to have you, his children, family, and friends in his life. He is very loved indeed.
May 8, 2017
Cuesta Family
Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire O'Brien family during this tough time. Tom left an indelible mark and will be truly missed.
May 7, 2017
Dain & Susie Stall
Mona, Kyle and O'Brien Family I was so saddened and shocked to hear of Tom's passing, it was just several weeks ago that I saw Tom and he was so full of life. Tom was such a great person so cherish for eternity all the great memories you have of him. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time. God bless all.
May 7, 2017
Mona, Kevin, Kyle, Tim, Chelsea, and our dear friend Connie, the Eichner family is so saddened by Tom's passing. Eric always had so much fun playing basketball with Tom,and talking about UD ball. Tom always had a smile and bright way of looking at things. He fought the tough fight but is now at peace. Our sincere condolences for all of you and yours. Amy, Eric, David, Katie and Kelsey Eichner and Sarah Kincaid.
May 7, 2017
Tom & Petra Ryan
Our sincere condolences to the O'Brien family. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
May 7, 2017
Mona and Family,
Bill and I are so sorry for your loss. We have many happy memories of Tom that we will cherish.
Liz Crowe and Bill Stachler
May 7, 2017
Bill Stout
Patty. was saddened to se that Tommy passed away & also Gary. We know too well the pain you have. We pray for you & all your family at this time.God bless. Bill & Suzy
May 6, 2017
Manfreda Family
Mona, Tim, Kevin, Kyle and Chelsea, we are so very sorry for your loss. Tom was an amazing man that always seemed to have a smile on his face. Please accept our sincerest condolences.
May 6, 2017
Ann&Mark Wehner
Please accept our sympathy and prayers. Ann and Mark, Chris, Kristen, Kyle and Caitlyn Wehner
May 6, 2017
Cindy Hoffman
Mona and family, I am so very sorry for your loss. I have many fond, funny memories of working with Tom in the Materiel office back in the day. There was never a dull moment at work with Tom. May God wrap you in His loving arms and give you the strength and peace at this difficult time. You are in my prayers.
May 6, 2017
Alexis McLaughlin
Mona and Family,
Kevin and I are both so terribly sorry for the loss of your husband and dad. We simply do not have words to express our sorrow. Please know that we are praying for you to get through this tough time so that you can think about Tom with joy in the future. May God hold him in the palm of His hand.
Kevin & Alexis, Maura, Danny, Brian, and Evie McLaughlin
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