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David Aaron Vandevander, 38 of Mt. Sidney, passed away on May 23, 2017 at Augusta Health.
He was born March 22, 1979 in Harrisonburg and was the son of David R. and Dorothy M. Good Vandevander.
He leaves behind his best friend and wife of 15 years Kelly A. Couch Vandevander; three young daughters, Mckenzie 15, Madison 13, and Mirabella 11, the loves of his life.
David loved spending time with his family and his dogs, working on vehicles and projects with his father, cooking and watching sports especially if UVA was playing. ESPN was constantly on at least one TV in his house at almost all hours and he loved most genres of music but his favorites were The Dave Matthews Band and The Beatles, in particular John Lennon.
David was a painter by trade and he took great pride in the quality and amount of work that he produced while employed at Blue Ridge Classic Painting. He could tell you a story that would have you laughing long after had having told it, even if it wasn't particularly funny.
His girls always said that he stated that he didn't like anyone but his family and then would have his family waiting for him while he met someone he knew and engaged in conversation for extended periods and upon return to his family he would share the content of the recent conversation. He loved to talk and made it very easy for people to be open in their conversation with him due to his kind and caring personality.
David had a penchant for never had met a stranger and could/would engage in conversation with all in which he came in contact. David had made a trip to the UK to visit Liverpool, The Caverns and The Grapes the birthplace of the Beatles and was offered a chance to stay and work for Timsons Ltd. of the UK due to their amazement at his ability to always make a friend at first acquaintance.
David is survived by one sister, Dana and husband, Charles Layman of Staunton; paternal grandmother, Madeline Vandevander; father and mother-in-law, Bob and Dinah Couch of Staunton; brother-in-law and sister-in-law, Josh and Robin Couch of Midlothian, VA; numerous nieces and nephews ,Alexus Vandevander, Brooke, Katelynn, and Nikki Layman, Starla Mahon, Hailey, and Nicholas Couch; Aunt, Vanessa Thompson, cousins Jessica Smith and Chloe Thompson, Meagan, Josh and Zachary Vandevander; Aunt and uncle, Bernice and James Ramsey of Palmetto, FL, Jason Ramsey and Family of Elon, North Carolina, John Ramsey and Family of South Carolina and Jack Ramsey of Kansas; Aunt and Uncle, Linda and Frank Good of Stanley, cousin Jessica Good Cardwell McGaheysville and cousin Denita Jo Gray of Stanley.
He was preceded in death by his grandparents, Alfred and Maxine Huffman Good and Charles O. Vandevander, an Uncle Charles E. Vandevander and an Aunt Shirley Ruffner.
The family will receive friends 5:30-7:00 pm, on Friday, May 26, 2017 at Lindsey Funeral Home in Weyers Cave. A funeral service will follow at 7:00 pm, with Pastor Cindy Carr officiating. Private burial will be held at Rest Haven Memorial Gardens.
Memorial Contributions may be made to Augusta Regional SPCA, P. O. Box 2014, Staunton, VA 24402.
Online condolences may be sent to the family by visiting www.lindseyweyerscave.com.
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Sponsored by Lindsey Funeral Homes.
May 30, 2017
Coworker
Karen Lokey
Dave and Dottie, my heart goes out to you and the whole family. I cannot imagine what it feels like to lose a child and so unexpectedly. Sending prayers to you and the family to get you through all this. God will take care of them now.
May 29, 2017
Neal Frankel
David and Family, I am saddened to learn of your son's passing. I hope your memories bring you comfort.
May 27, 2017
Dale Cupp
To the Family;
You have my most heartfelt sympathy.
May 27, 2017
mark wilson
I was saddened to learn about David. He and his young buddies (Abe, Ben, and Lee), along with my son, Chad, were all inseparable. My condolences to all of you.
May 26, 2017
Cindy Farmer
David, Dottie and family, We are so very saddened to hear of David's passing. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time of unimaginable loss.
May 26, 2017
Lynn Fogleman and the whole Fogleman family
I am so very sorry to hear about Aaron. I kept him a few times when he was little. Prayers to his friends and family.
May 26, 2017
Shocky Jewell SOurs
Dottie and family I am so very sorry for the loss of your Son and your Sister and pray for God's blessing to you all. At a lost for words I remember "If God brings me to it, HE will lead me through it". Again many prayers for everyone and I am so very sorry.
May 26, 2017
David and family, Heartfelt sympathy for the passing of David. Thinking of you in praying as time goes by fond memories will give you peace. Phyllis Lambert
May 26, 2017
Tammy McCray Simmons
Dana, I'm so sorry for your loss. You and your entire family are in my thoughts and prayers.
May 26, 2017
Jennifer Showalter Thacker
May 26, 2017
Jennifer Hartman
I am so deeply sorry to hear this, I will pray for his kids and family. David and I went to school together and he will be missed. I'm sorry for ur loss.
May 25, 2017
Dana Wade
My sweet Dotty! I'm so heartbroken as I read about this. I had no idea. I love you all and want you to know I will be praying every day for you. David was such a sweet guy and he will be truly missed.
May 25, 2017
Billy Gale
Dave, Dottie and rest of the family: We are so sorry to hear about the passing of David.. We enjoyed watching him play Little League football and High School baseball & basketball with our son (Mike). You all are in our thoughts and prayers....Billy and Charlsie Gale and family.
May 25, 2017
Dennis & Donna Epping
Dear Dave, Dottie and Family. Please accept our deepest condolences on the passing of David. Our hearts are with you during this difficult time.
May 25, 2017
Ann Lowry
Dave and I went to school together he was definitely a character. So sorry for the family's loss. Sending thoughts and prayers.
May 25, 2017
Emily Yetzer
May 25, 2017
Aaron Moss
May 25, 2017
Christina Hutchison
May 25, 2017
James and Susan Hutchison
All family and friends will be in our prayers. Our heart goes out to all. He will be missed by many.
May 25, 2017
Rosemary Comer
Dear Dottie & Family, I am praying for you as you mourn the loss of your son, Cavid and your sister, Shirley. Please keep the wonderful memories that you all shared in happier times with you always. It has been a long time since we grew up together on Main Street in Stanley, but I still have such fond memories of you, Shirley, and Bernice. Since Frankie was a little younger, he kept me company when I was a lifeguard at Shuler's pool. My heart aches for the family as you grieve so much loss. With love and sympathy,
May 25, 2017
Paul Remis
Dave, so sorry to hear of your son passing. I will keep you and your whole family in my prayers.
May 25, 2017
Kay & Bill Flavin
Dottie and David and family, please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time. We remember what a sweet young man David was when he was playing baseball with our son. Our deepest sympathy to all of you.
May 25, 2017
Sandy Greene
Oh, sweet Vandevanders,
What a tragic loss of such a kind and friendly neighbor. I grieve for you and with you, and will never forget that little snaggle-tooth fellow with a ready laugh, helping to can tomatoes, and the jolly Dad bringing the kids trick or treating in the barn. I will never listen to John Lennon again without thinking of him. Sandy
May 25, 2017
Bridgewater College Campus Police & Safety Department
David and Dottie,
There are no words to express our sympathy with the loss of your son. Know that both of you, and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.
May 25, 2017
Dottie and David I am so sorry and heart broken that this loss has happened to you. I remember having David in class and coaching him in football. He was a really fun guy to teach and coach. I remember David trying to do the moon log. Also, not only was he an offensive lineman that myself and Coach Duty coached but he was one of my defensive ends.
A really fun and interesting guy to coach. He is taller than me and I can remember him looking down at me and grinning as we addressed some defensive technique or adjustment. Then he would go out and execute the technique or adjustment. He was one of the better defensive ends that I coached in my 32 years. As a teacher and coach, these are the things we remember about the students and players we work with.
Once again, Suzie and myself send our deepest condolences to you and your family for this unexplainable loss. My hope is that at some point in the future your memories will bring warmth to you just as the coals from a fire do on a chilly night.
Vic and Suzie Spotts
May 25, 2017
APRIL Spotts
Mrs. Vandevander and family - You all are in my families thoughts and prayers.
May 25, 2017
Charles Brown
Dottie and David & Family! Please know that I am thinking of you all at this difficult time. My deepest sympathy for your loss. May God bless each of you.
May 25, 2017
Cindy Watkins
Vanessa, Dave, Dottie, Madeline, Dana, family and friends - I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time.
May 25, 2017
Friend
Susan Miller
Rod and I offer our deepest condolences. My heart breaks for you and David. Just turn the scrapbook memories in your mind, and you'll find yourself smiling, Love you so, Susan
May 25, 2017
Abbie Parkhurst
Dear David and Family,
I'm so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
May 25, 2017
Mark and Dianne Streiff
It is not in our capacity of awareness to understand God's plan. Mark and I do not have words to express what to say. One thing is certain: the whole family is being carried by prayer from the one who can provide all that is needed. Please know our prayers are being lifted to heaven for peace to be with you and strength to move forward. Blessings to all
May 25, 2017
Donna Harner
Dear Dottie, David and Family. Today you are in our thoughts and prayers. May they bring you comfort and strength now and in the days ahead. Our love to you and your family. Donna and Jim
May 25, 2017
Roy Ferguson
David and Dottie -
My deepest sympathies at the passing of David. You are in our prayers.
May 25, 2017
Daniel Hylton
My sincerest condolences on David's passing. My heart goes out to you all. I'll remember David for how nice a person he was and his great smile.
May 25, 2017
Patty Whitesel/Botkin
I have such fond memories and will keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers. He was a very special young man. Hugs to all.
May 25, 2017
We are sorry to hear of David's passing...our thoughts and prayers for the family. Tom & Karen Powell
May 25, 2017
Kim Metje
Dear Dottie and family. So sorry to hear about David's passing. May God comfort you. Our hearts are with each of you.
Metje Family
May 25, 2017
Deborah J. Gill
David,Dottie and Family.
I'm so deeply sorry to hear about "Uncle Dave" (as Lexi would always say).
My heart truly goes out to you all. If you need anything, please let me know.
Keeping the entire Vandevander Family in my Thoughts and Prayers!
May 25, 2017
Classmate
Kelly Smootz
David, Dottie and family,
We are saddened to hear of the passing of David. May God wrap you all in his loving arms and comfort you in the next coming days.
May 25, 2017
Marc Barb
Sorry to hear of David's passing he will truly be missed. Prayers for the entire family.
May 25, 2017
Angie Wrenn
May 25, 2017
Terry Waters
David and Dottie,
My prayers are with you and the family.
May God comfort each of you.
May 24, 2017
Thom & Judy Verga
Our deepest sympathy.
May 24, 2017
Julia Sheets
I'm so sorry to hear about David's passing. He was such a special child to Lowell and me. David Aaron traveled like a trooper to WV with Patrick and us to visit my parents. What wonderful memories! Condolences to your family. David will be missed.
May 24, 2017
Lisa LaMay Tinsley
David, Dottie, Dana, Kelly and girls,
I am deeply saddened about hearing of David Aaron's passing. I am out of town and won't be able to make the services but you all are in my thoughts and prayers.
May 24, 2017
Janice Converse
Dottie, David, and family, my heart is breaking for you. I love you all and hate that you are having to endure this heartache. Please know that you are in our prayers and in our hearts. Whatever you need, just call. Sending hugs and love to you, and I pray that God's love will enfold you and give you peace.
May 24, 2017
Natasha Goodloe
My thoughts & prayers go out to your entire family during this very sad time!
May 24, 2017
Weldon Rankin
So saddened to hear of Davids passing. Keeping everyone in my prayers. May God embrace you all during this time and give you peace in healing.
May 24, 2017
Diana Miller
David and Dottie: My sincere condolences to you and your family on the passing of your son David. It is never easy to lose a child, no matter their age. I pray for your peace and comfort as you continue your life journey without your son's earthly presence. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. My sympathy to you both.
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