BORN

1942

DIED

2017

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Sandy Griffiths Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 25, 2017.

GRIFFITHS, Sandra Ann (nee Walter), 75, on Thursday, May 25, 2017. Beloved wife of 20 years of Larry Griffiths; loving step-mother of Debbie Geno, Dawn (Jim) Simon, and Don (Charlotte) Griffiths; dear grandmother of Michelle (Andy) Wall, Emily Geno, Janie (Jason) Kern, Jimmy (Laurie) Simon, Matt (Fadia) Simon, and Andrea (Ole) Eiker; great grandmother of Mason, Harper, Landon, Hunter, and Charlie; dear sister of the late Fred Walter.

Born in St. Louis to Fred and Dorothy (nee Mark) Walter, Sandy joined the StLCCA in the mid 1960's, serving as president and leader of the organization for over 40 years, until her retirement in 2007. She managed hundreds of volunteers and thousands of carolers, produced recordings, holiday cards, and Christmas Carols Festivals in addition to the annual neighborhood caroling, all to benefit children. Under her guidance, the StLCCA provided over 70 area children's agencies with thousands of dollars in funds to support their efforts. The St. Louis Christmas Carols Association exists today because of her dedication to the organization, its history and its mission. She also was a dispatcher for the Clayton and Richmond Heights Police Departments. She and Larry married in December of 1997 after 10 years of friendship and love.

SERVICES: The family will welcome friends and neighbors on Saturday, June 3, 2017 from 12pm until time of service at 1pm at KRIEGHAUSER MORTUARY WEST CHAPEL 9450 Olive. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions are greatly appreciated to the St. Louis Christmas Caroling Association (http://stlchristmascarols.org/) or Siteman Cancer Center (www.siteman.wustl.edu).

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June 9, 2017

Betty Cowen

Larry, I just learned of Sandy's passing and I am so sorry for your loss. On behalf of my late husband Gene Cowen (your old classmate and friend), even never having met your Sandy, I can see how charming she was from her photos. May God be with you as you face each tomorrow.

Posted by Betty Cowen

June 7, 2017

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Kathleen Sanders

Larry, I'm so very sorry for your loss. I'll keep you and your family in my prayers. Sandy way a joy to work with. I'm so glad I got the chance to know her. She was one of the sweetest people I've ever known.

June 6, 2017

Donna McDonnell

Larry, my sincere condolences to you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you, for God's peace and comfort in your heart. It was a joy knowing and working with you and Sandy at McBride. Sandy will truly be missed by so many who knew and loved her.

June 5, 2017

Lonnie Ledbetter

Larry, I am so very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers at such a difficult time. Sandy was such a kind person and pure joy to be around. I feel blessed to have known you both.

June 4, 2017

Renee Jerry

Larry,

I just learned of Sandy's passing. I am so very sorry for your loss. She was a delight to be around and will be missed by many at McBride & Son.

You and your family are in my prayers.

June 3, 2017

Sharon Griffiths

Larry, I am so sorry for the loss of Sandy, she was a loving person and will be missed by us all.

Sharon Griffiths and Family

June 1, 2017

Karen & Ron Schaufelberger

You are in our thoughts and prayers for the peace and comfort only God can provide during this sad time. Sandy was such a sweet and gentle person who was a joy to be around and she will be missed by so many. Sending condolences to all of the family.

May 30, 2017

Bill and Susan Sulaski

Larry and family:

Please accept our deepest sympathy for the loss of Sandy, someone that we know was loved by so many and especially you, Larry . So sad to hear the news but know that the strength of the entire family will pull you through these tough days . Although you've lost a great person, know that the memories will remain forever.

May 28, 2017

Larry, I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Sandy.
Roy Sherwood

May 28, 2017

Wayne Burkhardt

A Life


A life is like the brightest flame.
So bright it puts the sun to shame.

It sheds the rays of love and peace,
and spreads it's warmth like a golden fleece.

We share the brightness and take it in,
where It fills our cup and flows out again.

It waxes and wanes but is always there.
When it's light is low we show we care.

We prop it up with shining beams,
with sturdy thoughts and golden dreams.

But flames go out, when the death knell calls.
Like the edge of night and darkness falls.

The flame grew dim, then flickered out.
Our love flared brightly, and cast about.

But the flame was gone, we feared to say,
then our love burst through, like the break of day.

It brought the flame to life again,
Not for us to see, but deep within.

For the flame can never really die,
It's only gone from the touch and eye.

It warms our heart and soul you see,
for it's ours to keep, for eternity.

May 27, 2017

Janet Azar

Larry - It is with a heavy heart that I offer this prayer; May God's strength, and peace which surpasses all understanding, be continually with you and your family.
Sandy brought such joy and inspiration, a true blessing in my life. I only wish I could have known her much sooner. However, so very thankful to have known her and proud to say she was my friend.

May 27, 2017

Joe Johnson

Please accept my deepest sympathies. I often think about the wonderful times we had together

May 27, 2017

Janet /Joe Azar

May 27, 2017

Ted Kirkpatrick

Larry and Family

So sorry for your loss. We will remember your family in our prayers!

Ted Kirkpatrick

May 26, 2017

Keith & Sandi Parks

We were so sorry to hear of the loss of the love of your life. Remembering your great love story today and always.

May 26, 2017

Joan Koontz

The St. Louis Christmas Carols Association extends its deepest condolences to Larry and all of Sandy's family. She was the heart and soul of our organization for more than 40 years; the StLCCA exists today because of her dedication. Rest in peace, Sandy.

May 26, 2017

Phil LaBenda

Sandy, you will be sadly missed by all those you touched during your time here with us. You and all the memories you still bring to life will never be forgotten. You were a great co-worker at Clayton and a good friend. You never seemed to have a bad day and kept us all on the light side of life. I feel for Larry's lose and again know you'll be missed but never forgotten.

May 26, 2017

Judy (Roach) West

I am so sorry for your lose and praying for peace in Sandy's passing.

May 26, 2017

Mary Goodwin

Larry,
My heart is saddened by the loss of your sweet Sandy. Words cannot even begin to express my sorrow. May your soul find peace and comfort, I am thinking about you and sending much love your way in this very difficult time.

May 26, 2017

Larry, I share with you the pain you are experiencing with the loss of Sandy. She was a wonderful person and the two of you made such a happy couple.

Pat and I remember the many fun times we spent together. I pray for God's Peace for you and your family.

Paul and Patricia Rueter

May 26, 2017

Stacy Kempfer

"It is with a saddened and pained heart our dear friend and coworker Sandy Walter-Griffiths passed away. Sandy was one of THEE classiest of ladies we ever met. Her beauty was enough to bring tears to your eyes. She had an infectious, witty sense of humor and a heart of gold. She absolutely ADORED her husband and LOVED soooo much her step-children and step-grandchildren. Sandy was also a best friend and beloved daughter to her mother.they were the dynamic duo to all who knew them. She was my mentor. I know a GEM when I see one!!! I was also her protégé! I loved her with all my heart, as do many others as well. Sandy grew up in Clayton and was a life-long resident until she married Larry and put her sweet mother to rest. She also gave many, many years of service as a police and fire dispatcher to the Clayton PD. She loved our officers and their love was dually returned to her. Sandy could bring an officer to pause' with her wit and charm like no other! She proudly loved a nickname of Stand By Sandy and even one that she called herself Double Dipper. AGAIN, her sense of humor was humbling and so Contagious! We still speak 'Sandyisms' to this day and talk about her with so much love and sincere, contagious laughter! Sandy dedicated many, many countless years to the St. Louis Christmas Carols Association, which was founded by the Danforth family. Sandy was the backbone of this organization, which aided numerous children's organizations in St. Louis. Sandy's vivaciousness and effervescent beauty both on the surface (gosh she was so pretty!) and the beauty in her heart (even prettier!) are all that one would find to want to duplicate! Fly High Our Dear Friend. Watch over us and give of "sweet hints" of yourself, so that we can be more perfect like you were . To Sandy: Janet and I were talking tonight and a Cardinal flew up and sat on my boys pitch back WE KNEW IT WAS YOU!"

Posted by Stacy Kempfer

May 25, 2017

Ray & Joy Messner

Larry,
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Sandy was a beautiful lady and will be greatly missed. We will remember all the good times, funny, and entertaining things Sandy did. You are in our prayers.
Love,
Ray & Joy

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