1949
2017
Kenneth O. Meyer, passed away on July 25, 2017 in Hampshire, Illinois.
Kenneth's Visitation will be held on Tuesday, August 1st from 9 a.m. to 11 a.m. with a Prayer Service starting at 10:00 a.m. at Lakeshore Mortuary, 1815 S. Dobson Road, Mesa, Arizona 85202.
The Military and Committal Services will begin at 12:30 p.m. on Tuesday, August 1st at the National Memorial Cemetery of Arizona, 23029 N. Cave Creek Road, Phoenix, Arizona 85024. A Reception at the home of Kenneth and Amy will follow after the services.
"Seeing is believing." For many, those words simply represent a motto. But for Kenneth O. Meyer, it summarized in every way who he was. He was modest, quiet and observant, taking in everything around him and always thinking before acting. He was a realist, someone who was efficient and practical in everything he did. He was a friendly person who truly cared about those around him.
He was the son of Merrell Meyer and Tena Velde. Raised in Pipestone, Minnesota, he was brought up to be tolerant and trustworthy. As a child, he learned to be conscientious, responsible and punctual. These were all traits that he would carry with him throughout his life.
As a young boy, Kenneth was always aware of how others around him felt and this quality served him well. With a deep capacity to tolerate the feelings of others, Kenneth was generally able to avoid conflicts. It seemed as if Kenneth was the family member who was always working to keep stress at bay. Preferring a quiet environment where he could concentrate, Kenneth also had the ability to relate well with his family and friends. Kenneth was raised with four siblings: Judy, Nick, Kathy and David. Kenneth was constantly involved in activities with his family. Kenneth and his siblings had the typical rivalries while growing up but they deeply cared for each other and shared many life experiences over the years.
Growing up, Kenneth was one of those children who didn't need to be in the center of a whirlwind of activity. He was content to entertain himself. Kenneth was never pushy when it came to games and other activities, but rather, he was able to enjoy the pure fun these could bring. Kenneth took part in wrestling and in his spare time he liked fishing.
Those who were privileged to know Kenneth well learned that he was a solid, good friend. Kenneth best trusted those people that he truly knew. He was concerned about how those around him felt, and he always seemed to uncover the positive side of people. He could relate to others and had the ability to see their point of view, to "walk a mile in their shoes," as the saying goes. The friends that he made, Kenneth kept. Later in life, he became friends with Larry and Darwin.
Love can't be defined but must be experienced. That was so true for Kenneth. He married Amalia "Amy" on November 11, 2011 in Las Vegas, Nevada.
Kenneth was a good father to his children. He had "old fashioned" parental values and could handle typical family conflicts in a fair and calm manner. Because he trusted emotions, Kenneth was reluctant to force issues and used gentle persuasion to resolve situations. In this way he seemed to radiate an aura of warmth and caring to those around him, always thinking before acting. In addition, Kenneth was a master planner. No matter how hectic life around him might be, he seemed to know and track everyone's schedule. Kenneth was blessed with two children, son Gabe and daughter Tasha. He was also blessed with two grandchildren, Jacob Fjeld and Jeremy Fjeld.
Kenneth was an Army veteran serving from 1966 to 1969. He was in the Fourth Infantry spending most of his time in Vietnam. Kenneth saw action during Vietnam serving as a Medic. Through his hard work and dedication, he achieved the rank of Medic Specialist E5 (SP5). He received several awards including a National Defense Service Medal; Vietnam Service Medal; Vietnam Campaign Medal; Good Conduct Medal; Combat Medical Badge and Marksman Badge (Rifle).
While thorough and measured in his approach to things, Kenneth often liked to physically do things rather than just think about them. He was like that with sports. Recreational sports included hunting and fishing. He also enjoyed watching his favorite teams whenever he got the opportunity. In this way, he was something of a sports fan and enjoyed watching the Minnesota Vikings and Nascar.
An individual who respected and maintained traditional values, his faith was important to Kenneth. His compassion, consideration and sympathy toward others was evident in his personal beliefs. His followed in the Presbyterian faith.
Doing things to help others seemed to come naturally to Kenneth. He never set out to gain individual recognition, but the praise and accolades given him for his many and varied efforts throughout his life were well deserved. Some of his most prestigious awards included fishing awards for 1st Place Flounder in 2005 and 1st Place Calico in 2013.
Anyone who traveled or went on vacation with Kenneth had smooth sailing. It was often taken for granted that he was the trip planner. He would start early and examine all of the possibilities, selecting the best and most effective options. Favorite vacations included trips to Mexico.
Kenneth had Chadwick, a Rottweiler, who was his best friend for 6 years. Kenneth was as loyal to his pets as they were to him.
He had taken the time to learn about his various options and chose his course wisely. His new life involved relocating to Arizona. Even in retirement, Kenneth continued to stay in touch with his old friends while making plenty of new acquaintances. He was active in the community and felt fulfilled with the opportunities retirement offered him.
Kenneth passed away on July 25, 2017 at Hampshire, Illinois. Kenneth fought a brave battle against cancer. He is survived by his wife Amy; his children Gabe (Desiree) and Tasha (Ty); and his grandchildren Jacob and Jeremy Fjeld. Services were held at Lakeshore Mortuary Chapel in Mesa, Arizona. Kenneth was laid to rest in the National Memorial Cemetery of Arizona in Phoenix, Arizona.
It is said that some people can't see the forest for the trees. Kenneth was able to focus on each individual tree, tending to its needs, thus making the forest stronger as a whole. Kenneth was a trustworthy, pragmatic and sympathetic person, the kind of man to whom everyone was drawn. He was thorough and practical. Kenneth Meyer was very literal with his words. You always knew where you stood with Kenneth. He will be missed.
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6 Entries
September 10, 2017
Zuhair And Maram Muakkit
We'll always remember you Ken. Such a great neighbor! Very kind and will be missed greatly.
July 31, 2017
JANET MALKIEWICZ
Our hearts and prayers go out to Amy and Ken's family. May God hold you all in the palm of His hand and bring peace and tranquility to you during this difficult time. Although we only met Ken a few times, he will be remembered with fondness and love. His laughter and smile will brighten up Heaven.
John and Janet Malkiewicz
July 30, 2017
Mike n Alma Guerra
Our condolences to his his wife Amy n his children Tasha n Gabe. He'll be missed a whole lot n another angel in heaven. He might be gone but not forgotten. May Kenneth O. Meyer R.I.P.
July 30, 2017
Lots of love and hugs to all of you.
Dan, Jill and Noah
July 28, 2017
Frank Campanella
My deepest sympathy goes out to my dear aunt Amy and to Ken's children and family. I can't say enough things about Ken. He was such a kind person. He was such a good force in my aunt's life and I know he made her very happy. He was a confident, but quiet man with a great sense of self. I love that he lived his life to the fullest and took advantage of every moment he had. He certainly fought his fight with a great amount of dignity and strength.
I will miss seeing him at our family dinners. As Italians, hanging around the table during mealtime is not for the faint-hearted. We tend to talk loudly and cut one another off, jumping from topic to topic at break-neck speed. I have to say, Ken held his own, and when conversations and political views got heated, he quietly stepped back and watch the drama unfold, rarely ever getting flustered. Luckily, I imagine, he found it all rather amusing.
One of my favorite memories was one particular fall when we all decided we were going to learn how to make my dad's homemade wine. Ken and my aunt Amy came over and they were front and center in the chaos! The picture I have added was of them together tasting the grapes before they were about to be crushed.
Sending all of you my love and although I am away, please know that I am thinking of you all and of Ken, such the steadfast man, during your time of loss. May your memories bring you peace and eventually joy.
Sincerely,
Frank Campanella
July 28, 2017
May God's loving kindness and comfort help you and your family through this very sad time Psalms 29:11
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