1979
2017
Brent M. Lilly, 38, of Vestal, died unexpectedly on August 15, 2017. He is survived by his loving wife of 15 years, Tina L.; sons, Michael, Benjamin and Owen; parents, Clyde & Nancy Lilly; grandmother, Carolyn Marlatt; in-laws, Peter & Donna Salim; brothers, Jason & Hilary, David & Amy; brother-in-law, Craig & Emily; niece, Elizabeth; nephews, Addison, Nathan and Clark; several aunts, uncles and cousins; special friends, Eric & Melissa Newell. He was employed by J&K for over 16 years. Brent enjoyed being outdoors and was an avid hunter. The family will receive friends on Monday, August 21, 2017 from 1-3 pm at the Wm. R Chase & Son Funeral Home, 737 Chenango Street, Port Dickinson, NY 13901. A memorial service will follow at 3:00 pm at the funeral home. In lieu of flowers, kindly consider donations in his memory to his children, c/o Visions FCU, 24 McKinley Avenue, Endicott, NY 13760.
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October 7, 2023
Family
Ben Lilly
6 years later and I´m still looking at these pages reading everyone´s messages. Missing you everyday and thinking back to the memories. Wish we could´ve had one more hunting trip together. Can´t wait to see you again someday.
January 23, 2018
Marie L
My sincere condolence to you for the loss of your loved one ,Jeremiah 29:11 reminds us that God's true thoughts for us are of peace, not pain may reflection on his goodness comfort you.
September 5, 2017
James Boyles
I had the chance to work with Brent on a couple of Corning projects. What a great guy!
August 20, 2017
Jim & Ann Rounds
We will always cherish our special memories of Brent and feel blessed to have gotten the chance to call him our friend. God bless you all.
August 20, 2017
Nancy,Clyde and family
We are saddened to hear of Brent's passing. Our sympathy and thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Please accept our heartfelt condolences.
Carol & Dave Ross, Rochester,ny
August 20, 2017
To the family of Brent Lilly I am sorry for your loss I worked with Brent ..he was a hard worker and a always helped out with anything you ask...God bless your family at this time in your lives...
August 19, 2017
Cheri Williams-Areis
I'm so very sorry to hear of the loss of Brent. I remember in high school how kind and funny he was. My heart and prayers go out to the family.
August 18, 2017
Mike and Mary Seaman
We are so sad and sorry for your loss. Brent will always hold a special place in our hearts. We will never forget his smile and the kindness and patience he had with Jon and Krissy growing up. You are such a special family and our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
August 18, 2017
To the Lilly Family:
It's been many years since we've seen one another, but I wanted to take a couple moments to let you know how sorry I am to learn of your loss. Jason & David, I still think of you all as little fellas running n jumping, fooling around, riding bikes and playing with construction trucks in the living room as we spent the evenings together when your Mom n Dad got away for a night out. We had fun those nights, didn't we? I remember poor "little" Brent never wanted to go to bed though, afraid he would miss out on the fun, I guess. He'd sneak out of bed after his big brothers were asleep, cuddle up and watch a baseball game with me or whatever happened to be on. Thanks to you guys, I was "ready" for my boys, once they came along lol. I'm sure you all have many happy memories of times spent with Brent, from crazy antics growing up & later special times with his own family. I'm sure he has been a terrific dad. I hope you boys are local so you can share fun memories of their dad with his kids & continue to make new memories for his them. Help them keep their daddy close in their hearts, he will walk with them forever and keep watch over them. Tina, Nancy & Clyde, I'm very sorry for your loss. May the love of your family and friends bring you comfort and strength as you all grieve your loss.
Sincerely,
Suzie Michalek-Huntley
Conklin
August 17, 2017
Jim, Nancy and Brian Roth
Nancy and Clyde,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts, prayers and memories are with you as you celebrate Brent's life, taken too soon. We will never forget you or him.
August 17, 2017
Daniel Sullivan
My condolences to the family and friends of Brent.
I will miss him as a friend and coworker.
I have spent many good years working with Brent on some intense projects. Brent always went above and beyond and met any challenge that he was presented with. I know that Brent had the same approach with his family due to how he would speak of Tina, the kids and his parents.
I am truly sorry for your loss, i know that we will all miss him dearly.
Dan Sullivan
August 17, 2017
Daniel Sullivan
August 17, 2017
J James
August 17, 2017
Dan Sullivan
August 17, 2017
August 17, 2017
Nancy and family my heart aches for you. Thoughts and prayers for you
August 17, 2017
Pat Shelton
Dear Clyde, Nancy and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all as you mourn the loss of dear Brent.
August 17, 2017
Amber Youngs
Tina, Mike, Ben, Owen and all those that Brent leaves behind-my heart goes out to you all in this time of profound sadness. May memories of Brent and the love of family surround you and give you strength in the days ahead.
August 17, 2017
Patty (Gellock) Miller
To the Lilly Family,
I am sorry for your lost. You and your family are in my prayers. He will be missed by all. Patty Gellock Miller.
August 17, 2017
Susan Burrell
Nancy and Clyde and Family,
i am so sorry to hear about Brent. Know that I am thinking and praying for you. I cant imagine your grief . My heart goes out to you.
August 17, 2017
Melissa & Eric Newell
August 16, 2017
our deepest sympathy goes out to the entire family. we will say prayers for all of you to help you through this sad time, gail and Rich gal
August 16, 2017
Edward Garber
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
August 16, 2017
Linda Stempa
To the entire Lilly family, please accept my deepest heartfelt sympathy during this most difficult time. May you find peace in the days to come. Sincerely Linda Stempa (Lew Gellock's daughter)
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