1943
2017
Barbara E. (Wodja) Lane, 74, wife of the late Ronald P. Lane of Norwich, died peacefully Thursday evening at home surrounded by her family. Born in Yonkers, NY on June 15, 1943, she was the daughter of the Late Anthony and Loretta (Lowery) Wodja. She dedicated her life to the care of others as a mental health professional at Norwich State Hospital in Preston, CT. During the course of her career she obtained her RN and continued to follow her passion for supporting the mental health field through working with clients of Caring Community, Colchester, CT; retiring in 2016. A day never passed without Barbara showing her love of family and friends especially the support of her children's sport aspirations. She spent time enjoying traveling with friends and family. She will be remembered as a woman of tremendous strength, a loving wife, mother and grandmother and true friend to all who had the honor of meeting her. On August, 5 1967 in Yonkers, NY she was united in marriage to Ronald P. Lane. A loving mother of three children, Michael P. Lane of Old Saybrook, David T. Lane of Bozrah, and Kerri Lane of Norwich. Proud Grandmother of six grandchildren; Kaitie Graichen, Tanya Lane, Taylor Lane, Zachary Lane, Mackenzie Lane and Connor Lane. Further survived by several nieces, nephews and friends. Visitation will be from 6 P.M. to 8 P.M., Tuesday, at Church & Allen Funeral Home, 136 Sachem St., Norwich, where the funeral will assemble on Wednesday at 9 A.M. and proceed to the Mass of Christian Burial at the Cathedral of St. Patrick precisely at 9:30 for mass at 10 A.M. Interment to follow in St. Joseph Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in her memory to Center for Hospice Care of South East CT, 227 Dunham St, Norwich, CT 06360. To leave an online condolence please visit www.churchandallen.com.
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September 20, 2017
June Frederiksen
My thoughts and prayers goes out to the Lane Family. Barbara was always kind and things never seem to get her down. I will always remember, when I was visiting , my nephew Tyson & Kerri, they all treated me like one of the family.... she was always on call for her nursing duties...it seemed I every week-end I was there, she always got
calls....never did I ever see her getting upset to stop what she was doing to give her expert advice. I think she was a very special person and we are all fortunate who have had the pleasure of knowing her in our lives.......Rest in Peace, Barbara.....Happy Trails to you, till we meet again........love, Aunt June
September 20, 2017
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Lisa Tietjen
Kerri, David, Michael, I am so sorry to hear of your mom's passing. Barbara is a wonderful fun lady of whom I have such good memories of growing up. I know she is now with your dad and my uncle John smiling.
September 18, 2017
Charlie & Donna Blanchard
Kerri....We were so sadden to hear of the loss of your mother. We have some great memories, laughs, and card nights that we will hold in our hearts. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time. You were a wonderful daughter to your mom and Dad. They were truly proud of you. Our deepest sympathy goes out to your family.
September 17, 2017
Randy Aey
My sympathy and condolences for your loss. She was always friendly and helpful. She was a wonderful Norwich Hospital family member. She will be missed.
September 17, 2017
My sympathy to Barbara's family. she was a wonderful, friendly person to work with. Sincerely, Jerri Phillips
September 16, 2017
Ken & Kate Hoeard
Dear Michael and Michelle and family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Your mom is at peace now with no more suffering. Please know that we are with you in spirit at this difficult time. May God grant you what it takes to get thru this emotional journey.
Love and Hugs Kate and Ken Howard
September 16, 2017
Carol-Joe FArrell
Joe and I would like to send our sympathy to all her children. We knew Barbara for years and she always was a happy-go-lucky person. She will definitely be missed by all who knew her.
September 16, 2017
Nancy Bayer Kaika
Kerri, David and Michael, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your families. I hope your memories will comfort you in this time of loss. She is now at peace with your dad and they will always be with each of you.
September 16, 2017
Nina Schulz
David, Kerri and families, the world has lost a wonderful, caring, loving woman. So many will miss her. She's at peace with your dad now and will remain in the hearts of all who loved her forever. My sympathy and prayers are with you all.
September 15, 2017
Allison Byrd
My sincerest condolences to the family of Ms.Barbara. She was a wonderful and joyous person to work with. She will definitely be missed by all whom knew her!
September 15, 2017
Nina Schulz
David, Kerri and families, the world has lost a wonderful, caring, loving woman. So many will miss her. She's at peace with your dad now and will remain in the hearts of all who loved her forever. My sympathy and prayers are with you all.
September 15, 2017
Kim Benoit
Kerri,Michael, David and your families I am at a loss for words on how special of a person your mom was to me. She is at peace now with your dad. Thoughts and prayers to all of you. i loved Barbara and she will forever be kept in my heart.
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