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2017
Memorial service for Amanda Carroll Blease Stegenga, 33, will be held at 2:00 p.m. on Friday, September 29, 2017 at Dunbar Funeral Home, Dutch Fork Chapel, Irmo. The family will receive friends following the service at the funeral home.
Amanda passed away unexpectedly Saturday, September 23, 2017. Born on July 25, 1984, in Columbia, SC, she was a daughter of Sandra N. Penland and the late Ernest C. Blease. Amanda spent most of her life in Columbia except while attending Waccamaw High School in Pawley’s Island, SC, where she was a 2002 graduate. She attended Midlands Technical College and received her Associates Degree from Independence University. Amanda worked with JNP Services. She was an avid Clemson Fan who loved spending time with her family on the Black River in Georgetown County. Amanda was a rescuer and lover of animals, she enjoyed music of all genres, and most importantly, her greatest love were her three sons.
Surviving in addition to her mother, Sandra, are her husband, Chad A. Stegenga; children, Nicholas Allen, Jackson Ernest, and Jason Blease Stegenga. She is also survived by her sister, Alicia Blease; brother, James Blease (Buffy); paternal grandmother, Marcella Rogers; aunt, Gerrie Blease; cousin, Byron Penland; nieces; nephews; and best friend, Erin Nelson. She was preceded in death by her maternal grandmother, Alice Morris; maternal grandfather, John Penland; and paternal grandfather, James Blease.
In lieu of flowers, the family asks that you consider making a donation to the boys 529 Savings Plan, c/o Sandra Penland, PO Box 21627, Columbia, SC 29221.
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Sponsored by Dunbar Funeral Home - Dutch Fork.
September 29, 2017
Sharisse Johnson
Sandra,
I was so sadden to hear about the loss of your daughter. You and your family are in my prayers during this very, very difficult time. God Bless you and your beautiful family.
September 29, 2017
My precious friend words cannot express how my heart hurts for your loss of Amanda. Our kids grew up together and kept us going. Our children spent and gave us some special memories from their endeavors. Amanda always loved animals and I credit her with getting Sean started with hamsters. Steve and I will keep you in our prayers and you know you will always be in our hearts.
Carolyn and Steve Benson, Canton, MS
September 28, 2017
Ann Counas
Sandra, I am heartbroken for you and your family. I pray God will cover you all with His love as you move forward. I love you.
Ann Counas
September 28, 2017
Friend
Tyrone Smith
My sincere thoughts and prayers go out to Amanda's family, especially her three boys.
I went to school with Amanda. She was smart, funny and just a cool person to be around. RIP, Amanda.
Deepest regrets,
Tyrone
September 28, 2017
Cathy Gram
Sandra, I remember your beautiful daughter Amanda from our time together at the racquetball club. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
Cathy Gram
September 27, 2017
Chad, How we wish we could b of somee support to you. Amanda was so faithful in keeping in touch with us over the years.She was our speecial lnk to you and your boys.Your Mom was faithful in raising you to know Jeesus. He is the only way you will know for sure that you will see Amanda again someday.Tell that to your children.We love you . Grannie
September 27, 2017
Mary Monroe
Sandra, be comforted in the knowledge your beautiful girl is in the arms of her
Heavenly Father. God bless you all.
September 27, 2017
Connie Gaddy Veron
Oh Sandra I am so sorry about your daughter Amanda. Sending hugs.
September 27, 2017
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September 27, 2017
So sorry for your loss, Said a prayer for you and your family at our bible study this morning
Danny Young
September 27, 2017
My thoughts and prayers are with you and for you at this very sad time.
Kathleen C Fowlkes
September 27, 2017
Patrice
May the thought of knowing that friends family and God share your grief be of comfort to your family Pro 17:17
September 27, 2017
Barry Frishberg
Words cannot express the depth of your loss. Too soon, too sudden. May god guide the family through these trying times. My thoughts and prayers will always be with you.
September 27, 2017
Braun Family
I'm so sorry for your family's loss, Sandra! May Amanda be your Guardian Angel; watching over and protecting you & your family.
September 27, 2017
Rosemarie Carrillo
Sandra, I am so very sorry for your loss. Although no words can really help to ease this tragic loss, just know that you are very close in every thought and prayer. My deepest sympathy
September 27, 2017
Wendy Jarrell
Sandra,
We are heartbroken for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Wendy and Brian (SMS)
September 27, 2017
mike calkins
Sandra, We are so sorry for your loss.
September 27, 2017
Cathi George
God Bless , I know the plans I have for you .Jeremiah 29:11. Praying for you ALl, trusting the Lord He will carry you through these tough times. I'm here for you. Much love and concern.
September 27, 2017
Sandra,
I am so very sorry to hear about the loss of your daughter. You and your entire family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Gail Hinson
American Forest Management, Inc.
September 27, 2017
Michelle Humphrey
James , Buffy and family - I am sitting here trying to think of what to say - my words mean nothing- so I will lift you before the Throne of Grace and Mercy - "Father, Only You can comfort in times like this . Only You. This pain is too much and too deep for the natural so we ask that by Your Holy Spirit, You give comfort , strength, and the peace that passes all understanding. Wrap Your Arms around them right now and allow them to feel Your Mighty Presence We know You promised to never leave us nor forsake us and we believe that but sometimes we need to Feel Your Presence- please allow them this as You take them in Your Arms In Jesus Mighty Name we ask." Amen
September 26, 2017
Barbara Christie
Sandra, I am so saddened to hear about Amanda's death. You and Alicia are in my prayers. I cannot imagine how difficult this is for you all. Love, B Christie
September 26, 2017
Cathie Taft Starr
Sandra There are no words that can relieve your grief. Loosing a child is the hardest thing a parent can go through. Please know that you are your family are in my prayers.
Cathie Taft Starr
September 26, 2017
Alicia Amick
Sandra, I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that you and Amanda's family are in my thoughts and prayers.
September 26, 2017
Jill Calkins
Sandra and Alicia, I am just sick about this for you two and Amanda's boys. I know it's a terrible time for you and I'll be thinking about you. Jill calkins
September 26, 2017
My deepest condolences to all. I am truly saddened to hear of your loss and offer genuine sympathy to her mother, siblings, children, husband, and close friends. Sincerest condolences from my family to yours. Fly high and keep a watchful eye on the people you left behind, angel.
September 26, 2017
Christy Burleson
I am so deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Amanda was a beautiful person inside and out. I was truly blessed to know her and will never forget the times we shared. I have been praying for the family and will continue to do so. May God comfort you all and be with you in this time of mourning.
September 26, 2017
Chuck & Joette Ward
Dear Sandra,
What can we say that will assuage your grief? We are so sorry to learn about this very sad loss. What can we do for you? It all seems so futile, our words, but know we are here for you, thinking of you, and praying for you and the family. If there is anything we can do, please let Joette and I know. May the love of Jesus surround you and Amanda's family...
September 26, 2017
Michelle O'Quinn
So sorry to hear about your loss. May you find some comfort in the company of her precious boys.
September 26, 2017
Kathryn Holmes Galloway
My sincerest sympathies and prayers to all Amanda's family. Amanda and I were friends in grade school and had just reconnected recently and I was so happy to see her 3 beautiful children - that look just like her. This is so heartbreaking.
September 26, 2017
Jean MacCallum
Dearest Sandra,
I am so saddened to learn of your heartbreaking loss on Facebook... I've been praying for you and all your family and dear grandchildren all day today!! I asked the Lord Jesus to hold your heart in his loving hands and His Holy Spirit to comfort you in all the days to come. God bless you my dear.
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