Arnold Boyd Barefoot Jr.

1955 - 2017

Arnold Boyd Barefoot Jr. obituary, 1955-2017, Cary, NC

BORN

1955

DIED

2017

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Arnold Barefoot Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 18, 2017.

Dr. Arnold Boyd Barefoot Jr., 61, of Fayetteville passed away peacefully October 17, 2017. He was born December 6, 1955 to Arnold Boyd Barefoot Sr. and Elizabeth (Tew) Barefoot in Dunn, NC. In 1986, he was married to Terri (Weigle) Barefoot in Pittsboro, NC. Together they had three sons.
 
A graduate of Dunn High School, Class of '74, Dr. Barefoot went on to receive a B.S. in Chemistry from The University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. He spent 12 years at UNC, where he received his M.D. in 1982 and completed his residency in 1986. He is a Tarheel for life. He loved helping others and was active in the rescue squads of Dunn and South Orange County.
 
For over 30 years, Dr. Barefoot practiced as a women's health physician at Women's Wellness in Fayetteville and won several accolades, including Reader's Digest Best OB/GYN over several years. He pioneered robotic gynecologic surgery at Cape Fear Valley Health and touched the lives of many by caring for and skillfully delivering thousands of babies. Toward the end of his career, he specialized in women's incontinence. He was a hard-working man loved by his colleagues and many patients, who valued the time and care he devoted to each of them.
 
At home, he was a skilled cook, an avid fisherman, and a lover of learning, interested in history and Southern culture. He enjoyed traveling, with Chicago and Vienna holding a special place in his heart. While he had many interests, spending time with his family through the fellowship of food was most important to him. He dearly loved his children, his daughters-in-law, and his granddaughter Claire, whose brightness brought him such joy. He was a true and loving friend, whose quick wit and sense of humor will be missed.
 
He is lovingly remembered by his wife Terri; his son Chris (wife Amanda and daughter Claire) of Cary, NC; his son Colin of Austin, TX; his son Ian (wife Settie) of New York, NY; and his brother CC Livingston (wife Brenda) of Dunn, NC. He is preceded in death by his parents, Arnold Boyd Barefoot Sr. and Elizabeth (Tew) Barefoot.
 
A memorial service will be held at 1p.m. on October 24 at Haymount United Methodist Church in Fayetteville. A visitation will precede the service at 11:30a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorial gifts may be made to Averasboro Battlefield and Museum in Dunn, or to Haymount United Methodist Church.

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September 24, 2018

Lynnette Dilldine

I know this was almost a year ago but I just came across it a few minutes ago. Dr Barefoot was my Dr back in 1995-1998. He delivered my baby girl in July 1996 at Cape Fear Valley Medical Center. I can still hear him whistling during the whole delivery. He was so wonderful. I even moved away to Ohio in January 1998 & instead of getting a Dr there I made an appointment with him & flew in for the appointment. My deepest condolences to his wife & family. He was a wonderful exceptional compassionate Dr which is really hard to find.

December 4, 2017

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Michelle Horchler

He's been my doctor for 37 yrs! He's been my favorite most caring Dr. and always very helpful especially when I'm deaf, he has the patience of a saint!! My deepest condolences to the family! God Bless.... (sorry I just found out today when I came in at Women Wellness)

November 30, 2017

Vicki Thaxton

Sorry if this is a double post. Dr. Barefoot always had time to listen to my concerns and always greeted me with a smile on his face. He helped me with my migraines and navigating menopause. The most caring doctor I ever had.

November 30, 2017

Vicki Thaxton

He was my doctor. He Always had time to listen to your concerns and a smile on his face. The most carin g doctor.

November 4, 2017

Angeles Secord

My thoughts and prayers for family and friends. I had the pleasure of working with Dr. Barefoot during my residency. He was super kind, compassionate, and a great teacher.
Sincerely
Angeles Alvarez Secord

October 30, 2017

Tana Fairlcoth-Melvin

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

October 30, 2017

Tana Faircloth-Melvin

Dr. Arnold Barefoot was truly a great physician and a kind caring person. He demonstrated that often to me and to all he knew professionally and also to those outside of his scope of work. I wish you smooth waters "Dr."B" and for your loved ones may god give you comfort and peace that only he can provide at this sorrowful time.

October 27, 2017

Becky Miller

October 26, 2017

Valerie Johnson

Dr. Barefoot was my doctor for 28 years and he delivered my son, 18 years ago. He had the absolute best bedside manner, being very soft-spoken, compassionate, reassuring, yet proactive. He was one of kind and will be truly missed. My thoughts and prayers for peace, comfort and strength are extended to his family, friends, office physicians and staff. I know that Women's Wellness will be a different place without his smiling face.

October 25, 2017

Christine Thou

Dr. Barefoot delivered me the best birthday present ever I've ever gotten, my son. He had treated me during a few of my pregnancies. He was a kind man. I'd like to send my condolences to all his loved ones and colleagues. May you Rest In Peace.

October 24, 2017

diane loesekann

Dr. barefoot was my Dr for almost 30 years What a kind caring man He will be greatly missed in th medical world for me he can't be replaced I pray for his family at this most difficult time. May he rest in peace

October 24, 2017

Wanda Autman-Vaughn

Dr. Barefoot's Family,
Thank You for sharing Doc with all his patients. He will truly be missed. I use to love joking with him about losing weight.RIP The Greatest Doctor.

October 24, 2017

Sandra Jewell

Dr. Barefoot was my doctor for many years. He was patient, professional and personable; in a nutshell, very special. To the family, may God Bless you now and in the days to come.

October 24, 2017

Debbie Thomas

Dr. Barefoot was my doctor for 29 years. He was a lovely man with a sweet spirit and caring bedside manner. He will be truly missed. Prayers for his family.

October 23, 2017

Chandrika, Ishanti, Sabina and The Triplets

Dr. Barefoot was our angel on earth! Words can not express the patience, compassion, and understanding he had for me, my mom and my sister. To the Best Doctor in the World, you will be missed! See you again in heaven.

October 23, 2017

Susan Beard

Dr. Barefoot was my doctor for seventeen years. He was simply amazing! He was reassuring and compassionate, with a knack for putting one at ease. Despite his busy schedule, he always made me feel as though I was his top priority... and I know his many other patients felt that way, too. He was truly a gifted doctor, and I have been blessed to have been under his care. It breaks my heart to hear of his passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family. May it bring you comfort to know that he was truly loved, and that he will be missed more than can be conveyed by words.

October 23, 2017

We are so sorry to hear of his passing.
Our thoughts and prayers are with his family at this difficult time.
With deepest sympathy

Carol Wadon and Bruce Jaufmann

October 23, 2017

Carolyn Henderson

Dr Barefoot was my doctor for over 20 years. He was an outstanding doctor and a very special person. He will be missed!!

October 23, 2017

Vivian Scott

What a wonderful caring Doctor! He saw me through so much, with such concern and a sweet smile. He will be truly missed.

October 23, 2017

Vickie Williams

Words could never be enough to say how sorry I am for your loss or the heartbreak that I truly feel. Dr. Barefoot stood by me during the most difficult time of my life, the loss of my baby. I'm not sure how I would have made it without his kind and caring heart. I was lucky enough to have him later deliver my beautiful daughter who is now 18. I will never forget the kindness he showed us. He will always hold a special place in my heart forever and every time I look at my daughter I will always remember him.

October 23, 2017

Christy

Dr. Barefoot was such an amazing doctor!! I can't explain how caring and gentle he was and he always put me at ease! I will be praying for his family and friends!

October 23, 2017

Friend

Dr. Barefoot was such a kind person and so loved. He always made you feel important and asked about my boys (which he helped deliver when they were born) every time I saw him. I know we will see him again one day and what a glorious day that will be.

October 23, 2017

Drusilla Wright

Dr. Barefoot was such a caring individual. He was my doctor since I was 35 years old. I suffered so long during my teenage years. Dr. Barefoot found out my problem and care for me every since. This is a great loss. To the family Dr, Arnold Barefoot was a great and caring man. He will be greatly missed.
Drusilla M. Wright (Bladen County, North Carolina)

October 22, 2017

Morgan Pierce

Teri,
I was so saddened to hear of your loss! You and Arnold are my favorite lunch companions at Coolomee, and although we don't know each other particularly well, I have always felt a kinship with you both.
Please accept my condolences, and know that I am thinking of you and your family.
Much love,
Morgan Pierce

October 22, 2017

Virginia Phelps

Dr. Barefoot was a very gentle and professional doctor and so precious. I miss him dearly, but I know one day soon we will see him again.
I pray for his family and loved ones that God will wrap his loving arms around them and give them peace and comfort.
Matthew 5:4

October 22, 2017

Susan Few

Heartfelt sympathy and sincere condolences to the family of Dr. Barefoot. A wonderful doctor that is dearly missed!

October 22, 2017

Cathy Bain

Dr Barefoot was SUCH a wonderful Dr that I recommended all my family to him. He was so easy to talk to and such a wonderful and caring Dr. He renewed my faith in doctors and he will be truly missed. My prayers for the family during this sad loss of a loved one and a true loss to all who knew him. May God comfort you at this time of your loss.

October 22, 2017

Wanda Tart

I am praying for the family of such a respected professional. He will be missed by his patients and professioal community along with his family and friends.

October 22, 2017

Katherine Quinn

Dr. Barefoot was a wonderful man and a great Doctor . Praying for Family

October 22, 2017

Denise Petty

Best.Doctor.Ever! Dr. Barefoot touched so many lives and never did you hear a negative from him or about him. He always went the extra mile and always pursued excellence. We will miss you Dr. Barefoot - you are one in a million...and so respected.

Mrs. Barefoot, my heart aches for you and your family...God Bless you all!

Denise Petty

October 22, 2017

Dianne Casey

I pray Dr. Barefoot's family find peace in knowing what a wonderful doctor an human he was. He touched so many lives. He gave me back something I was missing and I'm forever greatful. The world lost an angel but Heaven gained another. Rest in Heaven Dr. Barefoot.

October 22, 2017

Shelia Strickland

I feel very blessed to have had Dr. Barefoot as my doctor and friend. Such a wonderful person, may his family be filled with God's peace, an know my thoughts an prayers are with his loving family.

October 21, 2017

Donna Lockamy

So very sorry to hear of dr. Barefoot passing. He was my doctor for over 20 years. He also delivered my son and was so patient and wonderful! Have missed him at women's wellness since he left. Will never have a gynecologist I trust and liked as much.

October 21, 2017

Heather White

Dr. Barefoot delivered my two oldest kids. He had a very compassionate spirit and he embodied everything a doctor should be. He will be missed.

October 20, 2017

Linda Selsey

Wow so sorry to hear of Dr. Barefoot' passing. He was an awesome doctor very caring , he knew and performed his job well. He will be missed.

October 20, 2017

Julia Rossi

I am so sorry for you loss! Dr. Barefoot was a wonderful doctor & a wonderful man. He was my gynecologist for years and was my daughters as well! We loved him and thought the world of him!

October 20, 2017

He was a wonderful person and a great doctor. I had the privilege of working with him and of being his patient. I'm so sorry to hear of his passing.

October 20, 2017

Kim Proffer

i had the privilege of working with Dr. Barefoot for many years. Such a wonderful mentor and person!!! There are not enough words to discribe what a wonderful person and physician he was. My heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with his beautiful family! You will be truly truly missed Dr. B!! With love and respect.

October 20, 2017

Pat Smith

Dr. Barefoot, my doctor for many years, will be missed by many. His attitude and knowledge of medicine made him a favorite of mine. Prayers to the family and rest in peace Dr. Barefoot.

October 20, 2017

Sandy Linder

My heart aches for all of Dr. Barefoot's family and for our loss too. He was an amazing man, doctor and friend to all of us. My association with him as a patient was very short compared to most who knew him but in those few years I can say I've never been treated so special by any other physician. Sending my heartfelt and sincere sympathy to all his family. God bless you all.

October 20, 2017

Libby P. Millen

October 20, 2017

Kathy McMillan

He was an amazing doctor. Just a kind and caring man. He was my doctor for twenty years and helped me during some difficult times. He will truly be missed. Prayers for his family during this difficult time. He was loved by all that knew him.

October 20, 2017

Theresa Ferrell

I am so sorry to hear of Dr. Barefoot's passing. He was my doctor for 30+ years. He was the kindest and most caring person and physician. Dr. Barefoot was a very special man who took such wonderful care of so many. He will always be remembered in my heart. My most sincere sympathies and heartfelt prayers to his family and those who worked with him at Women's Wellness.

October 20, 2017

Andrea Pearson

October 20, 2017

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Andrea Pearson

Dr. Barefoot was the best OB/GYN! He was a great caring doctor and overall nice man. He took wonderful care of me when I was pregnant with my second daughter, which he delivered. With my first daughter five years before I can still hear him saying " If you had held on another hour, I would have delivered your baby girl." This was after a full day of labor with my first child, and I could do nothing but laugh. Rest in Peace, you will always be remembered by your patients who thought the world of you!

October 20, 2017

I started seeing Dr. Barefoot in December 1991. He did my hysterectomy before Christmas and he made me feel very comfortable about the surgery. Over the years we had many talks about family and our interests. He was such a compassionate and caring person and doctor. Today I was at the center to see Dr. Meeks and the atmosphere was somber. As I looked at his picture on the counter many memories came back to me. I had to hold back the tears. He will be missed and I thank you for letting him be my doctor. My thoughts and prayers are with you. RIP Dr. Barefoot.

October 20, 2017

Tina Canady

Dr Barefoot was my doctor for 24 years. He delivered my son and took good care of me. His kindness and compassion will not be forgotten. I will truly miss him.

October 20, 2017

Tiffany Toler

I'm so saddened to learn of Dr. Barefoot's untimely passing. Prayers and Blessings to his family.

October 20, 2017

Marcia Adair-Davis

Dr. Barefoot was the kindness and most caring doctor! His bedside manner were amazing! I am grateful to have knew him! I pray peace for his family!

October 20, 2017

Linda Johnson

Dr Barefoot was the best doctor ever! He was my OB/GYN Dr for 25 years. He was so compassionate & caring. He can never be replaced. Gone to soon...RIP. Sincere condolences to his family.

October 20, 2017

Gayle Beasley

Dr. Barefoot was more than my doctor he was my friend. I will miss him. Please take comfort in knowing he was cherished and loved by many. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.

October 20, 2017

Retha McLamb

Dr Barefoot was my doctor for many years and until he retired. I have missed him already and to hear of his passing saddens my heart. He was the most caring and kind man and the greatest doctor. He will be greatly missed and my heart goes out to his family...RIP--Dr Barefoot

October 20, 2017

Angela Barton

Dr. Barefoot was the best doctor anyone could ask for. I had the pleasure of being his patient for over 25 years. May he Rest In Peace as his legacy will go on. Prayers for the entire family.

October 19, 2017

Peggy Page Britt

My heart is sad for the family of Arnold Barefoot.Praying for the family to have peace and comfort at this time of sadness. He was my doctor for many years. Not only was he a great doctor! he was a great person.

October 19, 2017

Ami Cooper

Once a year I had the pleasure of seeing Dr. Barefoot. He was the warmest, kindest, most caring doctor that I ever had. My heart aches for his family. God Bless you, Dr. Barefoot.

October 19, 2017

Beverly Herring

He was such an amazing Dr. He will truly be missed by all the ones who knew and loved him.

October 19, 2017

Karen Adcox

Will be missed. Great OB GYN Doc! Worked at Cape Fear Valley for 35 yrs. My heart goes out to the family. Karen Adcox. Fayetteville NC.

October 19, 2017

Wanda Turlington

Arnold was a high school classmate. We graduated the same year. Those high school years hold good memories.
Am sending prayers and condolences to all of the family and friends that he made thru the years.

May God be with you all.

October 19, 2017

Karen Larrimore

May God be with your family. Dr. Barefoot was my OBGY doctor and he was truly a very nice and kind man. He always took a lot of time to explain things to you and let you know that things were ok. Dr. Barefoot will truly be missed by all of his patients Karen Larrimore (Stedman N.C.)

October 19, 2017

Judy and Steve Rochman

We are so sorry to learn of your loss. Our condolences to Terri and the entire family. May you and your family be comforted by beautiful memories of the past as an everlasting light. Sincerely, Judy and Steve Rochman

October 19, 2017

Sharon Williamson

Truly a great man. Best OB/GYN doc ever!!!!! Been a patient over 22 years and will never be able to replace him.

October 19, 2017

Toni McLamb

October 19, 2017

Toni McLamb

Dr Barefoot was my Dr for 24 yrs & was by far the BEST! I am absolutely heartbroken to hear this news. My prayers go out to his wife, son's, family & friends. Gone way too soon & will always hold a special place in my heart. He took great care of me as one of his patients, always felt like he truly cared & that speaks volumes. ❤

October 19, 2017

Barbara Butler

He was a great doctor and a really nice man. I worked at CFV on gyn floor nd the morning I told him I was retiring he got up from his chair came nd hugged me. That was so special to me! Have thot about that a lot over the years.

October 19, 2017

Lisa Orr

This makes me very sad. Dr. Barefoot was such a kind, gentle doctor, and I will miss him greatly. My prayers for comfort for the family.

October 19, 2017

Karen Vaughn

My heart is truly broken by your loss. It was such an honor to have been your nurse for at least 15 years. Your compassion for our patients were second to none and the wonderful sense of humor will never be forgotten. Rest now and know you were and will forever be much loved! Hope you and Ed don't get into to much trouble in heaven...love you forever. Strength to you and the boys Terri,love you...

October 19, 2017

CJ Jackson

Dr. Barefoot saved my life by finding blood clots that no other Dr thought to check for. Even though it was not gynecological he visited me & checked on me while inpatient numerous times. I am forever grateful. RIP Dr Brown.

October 19, 2017

Pat Scull

Truly a great man

October 19, 2017

Leslie DeSessa

A loving second family to my son Mark. May peace , comfort and strength surround you all.

Love, the DeSessa Family

October 19, 2017

sally biggs

what a nice man!! he is going to be missed. I love you Dr. Barefoot!!

October 19, 2017

Glenda Lambert

Out of all the physicians I have visited, Dr. Barefoot was by far the best. I was a patient of his for over 30 years and he will be greatly missed. Prayers to his family, friends and patients.

October 18, 2017

Dessie Nutley

My prayers to the family, friends and patients of this wonderful physician. He was a gift to women's medicine and will be greatly missed.....

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