BORN

1950

DIED

2017

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Wilbur-Romano Funeral Home - Warren

615 Main Street

Warren, Rhode Island

Stephen Butera Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 19, 2017.

Stephen Butera, age 67, passed away Wednesday, October 18, 2017 at his longtime home in Bristol. He was the beloved husband of Felecia (Freiday) Butera.

Born in Jacksonville, FL, he was the son of the late Vincent and Emma (Matthews) Butera, and brother to the late Douglas Butera.

He attended East Providence High School and the Rhode Island School of Music. He was a manager in furniture retail for many years and later became a valued member of Butera Building, LLC, a family business.

Stephen was an accomplished drummer who had mastered many other instruments, such as the piano and guitar. With his drumsticks, he traveled the Hilton Hotel circuit performing at numerous musical venues. He was an avid boater who enjoyed cruising the bay, and loved his muscle cars and motorcycles. Not only was he extremely intelligent, handsome and fun-loving, he had a true heart of gold and a kind, gentle soul. He will be missed by many, but especially the family that he fiercely loved, took care of and always protected.

In addition to his beloved wife, he is survived by his loving brother, David Butera and his wife Sheila of Barrington. His nephew David Butera, Jr. and his wife Kim of Bristol, nephew Bryan Butera and niece Brittany Butera, both of Barrington.

A Celebration of Life will be held on Monday, October 23, 2017 at 10:00 AM in the Wilbur-Romano Funeral Home, 615 Main Street, Warren. Burial will be in North Burial Ground, Bristol. Visiting hours are Sunday, 4:00 – 7:00 PM. For directions and tributes, www.wilbur-romano.com.

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October 22, 2017

Susan Blanchard

My deepest condolences to you Felicia. I'm so sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.

October 22, 2017

Beverly Brouillard

Felecia, you have lost the love of your life and the world has lost a wonderful man. He will be forever in our hearts and watching over you always.

October 21, 2017

Ssndy Rodrigues

Our deepest condolences to you Felecia, Stephen will forever be in your heart.... so very sorry for your loss.... Sandy & Darc Rodrigues

October 19, 2017

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