Banks Cooper Talley Jr.

1926 - 2017

Banks Cooper Talley Jr. obituary, 1926-2017, Raleigh, NC

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Banks Talley Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 23, 2017.

Dr. Banks C. Talley, Jr., 90, of Raleigh, North Carolina died on October 19, 2017. He was born in Bennettsville, South Carolina on November 15,1926 to Banks Cooper and Mary Elizabeth Colvert Talley. Although he grew up in Bennettsville, SC, he lived in Raleigh for more than 70 years and always considered North Carolina his true home. He graduated from Bennettsville High School at 17 and enlisted in the Army, serving in the Philippines at the end of World War II and achieving the rank of Sergeant. His job as Company Clerk materialized when his CO discovered he was the only one who had taken typing in high school. After the war, he graduated from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill where he completed an AB in History in three years. He was a member of the Chi Psi fraternity and served as President in 1950. He ran for UNC Student Government Secretary-Treasurer with the campaign slogans, "You can Bank on Talley" and "Rally with Talley." He was also President of the Dialectic Literary Society and a member of the Order of the Golden Fleece and the Order of the Old Well. His best pals at UNC-CH were roommate John Sanders, Henry Bowers, Dick Murphy, Al Lowenstein and Richard Jenrette. He then proceeded to finish his Masters and PhD degrees also at UNC-CH. He also served in the US Air Force Reserves for 30 years where he achieved the rank of Lieutenant Colonel.
After graduation, a chance call from UNC System President William Friday led to his first job as Assistant Dean of Students at NC State College in Raleigh in 1951. His boss was Dean Edward Cloyd and John W. Harrelson was Chancellor. While working as the first Director of Student Activities at NC State, he met his future wife, a beautiful and intelligent Financial Aid Counselor named Louise Wooten. His Executive Assistant, Ms. Alice Shirley, played matchmaker to the man the Technician called the "Bachelor Dean," introducing him to Louise. Banks and Louise were married in Goldsboro and then settled in Raleigh to live in George Matsumoto's former house. They later designed and built their home at 2511 York Road for their growing family.
Banks worked at NC State University through 33 years and five Chancellors, rising to the position of Vice Chancellor for Student Affairs. His most trusted Administrative Assistants were Undine Legrand and Debbie Henderson. His working relationships with Chancellor Carey Bostian, Chancellor John T. Caldwell and Dean Jack Stewart were the most rewarding of his professional career. His greatest achievement at NCSU, and the one of which he was most proud, was creating an arts-intensive atmosphere at a traditional STEM university. He was vital to the creation of: Friends of the College, the Music and Theater departments, Thompson Theater, the Craft Center and the Gregg Museum of Art. Banks thought it was paramount for students from all walks of life to be exposed to the visual and performing arts. His closest colleagues at NCSU were Henry Bowers, Thomas Stafford, Gerald Hawkins, John Kanipe, Carolyn Jessup, Ron Butler, Charles Haywood, Karl Eycke, Tom Covington, Brita Tate, George Worsley and Art White. He also enjoyed his friendship with his colleague Suzy Purrington, who he always called "Dr. Purrington." He took leaves of absence from NCSU to serve as the first Chief of Staff to Governor James B. Hunt, Jr. in 1977 and as Executive Vice President of the National Trust for Historic Preservation in Washington, DC in 1983. He retired from NCSU in 1984 and went on to serve as the Executive Director of the North Carolina Symphony for 11 years. His good friends and Symphony Board Members, Margie Johnson and Peyton Woodson, sought him out for the job. Never one to stop working, he next worked as a Consultant and Fundraiser at Preservation North Carolina. He then returned to NCSU as Director of Special Projects and Vice Chancellor Emeritus for Arts NC State where he raised money for the Gregg Museum and saw the renovation of Thompson Theater and the Craft Center come to fruition. A point of pride was the roughly 500 thank-you calls he made to individual donors to the Gregg, and he was thrilled to be able to attend the museum's opening in August.
Banks' accomplishments on behalf of his beloved state resulted in numerous awards. He was especially honored to receive the North Carolina Award for Public Service, the Distinguished Alumnus Award from UNC-CH, membership in Pi Kappa Phi at NCSU, the Bowers Medal of the Arts from NCSU (with friends Martha and Henry Zaytoun), the NCSU Alumni Award for Meritorious Service (for a non-alumni member), the Ruth Coltrane Cannon Award for Historic Preservation, the Order of the Long Leaf Pine, the City of Raleigh Award, and the Raleigh Medal of the Arts (with friends Nancy Olson and Dwane Powell) and to be inducted into the Raleigh Hall of Fame. The naming of the Talley Student Union at NCSU in 1995 was his greatest honor.
Banks was also a voracious reader, an ardent world traveler and a classical music and opera lover. To Louise's frequent dismay, he would often read the end of a book before he even started it. "That way, I know how it ends," he would reply when asked about his frequent habit. In his youth, he accomplished ten years of perfect Sunday school attendance and earned his Eagle Scout with Bronze Palm. His summers were spent at Scout Camp in Cheraw, SC with his buddies Eston Norwood and Franklin McLaurin.
He went regularly with his mother to hear concerts and see plays in Columbia, SC. He enjoyed spending time with his cousin Julia Talley Mullis. He and his father, a decorated WWI and WWII veteran, purchased their first hi-fi in Columbia so they could listen to classical and opera 78's together. He also liked watching high school baseball games and going to Blowing Rock in the summertime.
Banks was an accomplished gardener and his two favorite things to plant were daffodils and hydrangeas. His yearly purchases from the Wayside Gardens catalog were legendary. With his trusty pickaxe in hand, he would regularly plant 500 to 1,000 daffodils each year at his home at York Road. He documented his plantings with a detailed topographic yard map. He delighted in sharing his daffodil crop with his family, friends and colleagues. His love of collecting books, art, design, convertible sports cars, Winston Churchill, tall Christmas trees, WCPE, ice cream (especially Peppermint), anything chocolate, Masterpiece Theater and good single-malt Scotch was well known by his circle of friends.
Banks also loved to travel. His bachelor days were spent globe-trotting with his good buddy Grady Cooper. They even drove his trusty 1956 Thunderbird to Manhattan once. The specific details of that trip remain vague. He enjoyed a lifetime of travel with his wife Louise and saw England, Paris, Spain, Greece, Jordan, Crete, Turkey, Yugoslavia, Sicily, Malta, Tunisia, Ireland, Canada and Italy. He also enjoyed sailing on the Sea Cloud and the River Cloud. Some travel highlights were seeing the Taj Mahal in India, the Great Pyramids of Egypt and the Frank Gehry-designed Guggenheim Museum in Bilbao, Spain. His favorite place in NYC was the Metropolitan Opera House. After gazing at the large Marc Chagall murals he would dine at the Grand Tier restaurant while formally attired. He would then attend operas by Rossini, Wagner, Verdi and Mozart. His favorites were The Magic Flute, Tanhauser, Der Rosenkavalier, La Boheme, Aida and Tristan und Isolde.
Banks was a patron of the arts and historic preservation and loyally supported the NC Museum of Art, the Friends of the Gallery at NC State University (which became Arts NC State), the NC Symphony, Thompson Theater and the Craft Center, Mordecai House, the NC Museum of History the NCSU Friends of the Library.
He was a lifelong member of the Democratic Party. He was also a member of the Sphinx Club, the Cosmos Club, the Carolina Country Club and St. Michael's Episcopal Church.
Banks is survived by his daughter Sterling Talley Wheless (Jim) of Raleigh, his son Banks C. Talley III (Noelle) of Raleigh, his daughter Mary Louise Talley Wright of Raleigh and by his five grandchildren; James Harris Wheless III, Banks Wooten Wheless, Cooper Talley Wheless, Rebecca Selby Talley and Rainey Olivia Wright. His wife of 54 years Louise, his parents and his two beloved first cousins, Mary Cornelia Calvert Graham and Angelene Beall Calvert Pickett, predeceased him.
A memorial service will be held at St. Michael's Episcopal Church, 1520 Canterbury Rd., Raleigh, NC on November 7, 2017 at 2:30PM. The family will host a reception in the Parish Hall after the service.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to: Mordecai Square Historical Society, Inc. or the Gregg Museum at NCSU or the North Carolina Symphony.
Arrangements by Brown-Wynne Funeral Home, 300 Saint Mary's St., Raleigh. Condolences may be made at www.brownwynne.com

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November 6, 2017

David Brook

Banks was a national figure in historic preservation and a great friend and colleague in preservation efforts here in North Carolina. His legacy lives on and will enrich the lives of generations to come. I have fond and pleasant memories of working with him as he shepherded me through the publication of my work dealing with the history of the old N.C. Antiquities Society.

David Brook

November 1, 2017

Wes and Susan McClure

We send our condolences with fond memories.

Having known Banks first through Student Government at NCSU in the 1960's, and years later, both Banks and Louise through St. Michael's - they will be long and fondly remembered.

October 29, 2017

Dan Ellison

Banks and Louise were both such wonderful folks who helped the cultural community of all North Carolina. I got to know them while director at Mordecai Historic Park where they were both instrumental volunteers.

October 28, 2017

Shane and Amy Wright

Sending our most sincere condolences to Mary Louise, Banks, Sterling, and their families upon the passing of Mr. Talley. You all were blessed with a wonderful father and grandfather. May God comfort you all in the time ahead with peace and love.

October 26, 2017

My sincere condolences to the family. It is truly a blessing Banks lived a long life. He remind me of Psalm 90:10, an especially strong individual.

October 25, 2017

Truly a one of a kind...what a legacy of loving life and all with whom he interacted. Thanks for your mentorship over the years...enjoyed our talks. Fly high my friend. Peace to his family.
Mike Giancola

October 25, 2017

John Claydon

Dr Talley you shall sorley missed. You were the true essence of class and an explorary gentleman

October 25, 2017

Banks was one of our favorite people, and we always enjoyed spending time with him. He was the quintessential Southern Gentleman, was exceptionally intelligent, up-to-date on current affairs, and was a caring and loving person.

In Blowing Rock, we were always pleased to look across the street and see that black BMW parked in the parking area, because we knew we would get to see Banks and Louise. We will miss them so much.

LaRose and Bill Spooner

October 25, 2017

Monica Tolbert

May God bless you and comfort you in your time of sorrow.

October 25, 2017

Banks was one of a kind--a true servant to his state and nation. Sincere condolences to all the family.

Jeanne (NCSU Professor Emerita, English) and David Smoot
Wake Forest, NC

October 25, 2017

Barbara Palmour

My heartfelt condolences to the entire Talley family at this time of sad loss for our community. Sincerely, Barbara Palmour

October 25, 2017

Our condolences to your family on the loss of your father. Pam Leden O'Connor

October 25, 2017

Michael and Robin Barnes

a truly great man and exemplary family

October 25, 2017

Beth Johnson

October 24, 2017

Mary Louise Talley Wright

October 24, 2017

Condolences to the family. We will miss Dr Talley, he was always so friendly. Sincerely Dr Brian Kelleher and Staff

October 23, 2017

Carroll Overton

Sincere condolences
Overton Family

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