David Lee Ruffin

1953 - 2017

David Lee Ruffin obituary, 1953-2017, Virginia Beach, VA

BORN

1953

DIED

2017

FUNERAL HOME

Smith & Williams Funeral Home/Kempsville

4889 Princess Anne Road

Virginia Beach, Virginia

David Ruffin Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 7, 2017.

David Lee Ruffin, 64, passed away peacefully on November 6, 2017.

David was born in Johnstown, PA and resided in Virginia Beach since 1956. He was preceded in death by his parents, Charlie and Dorothy Ruffin. He was a carpenter by trade and was an avid fisherman and enjoyed hunting.

Survivors include 3 sons David Lee Ruffin, II and wife Samantha, Justin C. Ruffin and Holly Kendig and Jeremy T. Ruffin; 2 brothers Charles Ruffin and wife Diane and Eugene Ruffin; 3 sisters Dorothy Simpson and husband Richard, Robin Baker and husband Michael and Susan Augustus and husband Gus; and a host of nieces, nephews and cousins.

The family will receive friends on Friday, November 10, from 6 to 8 p.m. at Smith & Williams Funeral Home, Kempsville Chapel.

A graveside service will be held on Saturday, 10:00a.m. at Woodlawn Memorial Gardens.

Friends may offer condolences at www.smithandwilliamskempsville.com

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November 13, 2017

David Laswell

I was saddened to hear of David's passing. He was a good friend and co-worker. My thoughts and prayers are for the Ruffin family.

November 13, 2017

susan gullixson

David was a sweet & charming man. I am happy to have met him!

November 13, 2017

Jeremy Ruffin

You were the greatest father I could ever ask for and you always made sure we had everything to make us happy. I appreciate you so much Dad and will always remember you as the fun and goofy dad. I love you so much and will miss you I LOVE YOU DAD!!!!

November 10, 2017

Theresa Stillman

I was saddened to hear of Uncle David's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May God cover you in peace and understanding.

November 10, 2017

Wayne Bielitz

To the Ruffin Family, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of David Ruffin, I have known him since the 5th or 6th grade, Courthouse Elementary, also went to Kellam with him, was good friend, he will be missed.


Wayne Bielitz " Murphy"

November 10, 2017

shirley frank

David was my cousin. he was a great guy. thanks for sharing the pictures. he will be missed. Shirley ruffin-frank

November 9, 2017

Kathy Bodie O'Neal

Thoughts and prayers for the Ruffin family. Have known David since high school along with brothers Charles and Gene. May you find peace knowing David is now wrapped in God's loving arms. Love to you all.

November 9, 2017

Mary Hickman

So sorry to hear about the loss of David! I went to school with David at Courthouse elementary and Kellam!

November 9, 2017

Martha and John Stewart

Martha and I met David at the wedding of Angella and Scott Wetterlin. During part of the celebration, he sat at our table among his family. When we were readying to leave, he made a point of coming up to us, introducing himself, and thanking us for being a part of the evening. We shall always remember that moment - such kindness and consideration for people he had barely met. We share in the grieving for his loss.

November 9, 2017

Vance & Jenny Owens

David was a great guy. Always had something nice to say to everyone. The Ruffin family will be in our thoughts and prayers.

November 9, 2017

Bob Lint

November 8, 2017

Angella Wetterlin

We're so sorry to hear about the passing of Uncle David. Lee, Justin and Jeremy and family, you are in our thoughts. Love, Scott, Angella, Alexander and Erik.

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Nov

10

Visitation

6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Smith & Williams Funeral Home/Kempsville

4889 Princess Anne Road, Virginia Beach, VA 23462

Nov

11

Graveside service

10:00 a.m.

Woodlawn Memorial Gardens

VA

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Smith & Williams Funeral Home/Kempsville

4889 Princess Anne Road, Virginia Beach, VA 23462

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