BORN

1953

DIED

2017

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Carlene Westebbe Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 8, 2017.

Carlene Ruth Westebbe took her final breath at 4:30 am, November 8, 2017, with her family by her side. She wrestled with cancer for 18 long months, and showed us the way. She lived each day fully; funny, strong, loving and true - a mother and elder daughter of the Deel clan. She is survived by her children, Rayna, C'aira, Mark II, Mathew and John; grandson, Todd; husband, Mark and 'adopted' son, Josh; sisters, Wanda and Dianne; brothers, Ray, Bill, Barry and Scott of Northern Virginia; Aunt Laurie and her children of Southwest Virginia- Lee, Curtis, Debbie and Barb; a host of aunts, cousins, nieces, nephews and in-laws. She was preceded in death by her parents, William and Marie Deel; her brother, Ronnie Deel and her cousins, Jane and Mike. A light has gone from our eyes, but continues to burn in our hearts. We are grateful for the many prayers and kindnesses we have received and will honor her request to remember her personally and privately. There are no services planned.

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November 27, 2017

I am very sorry for your lost. I cant imagine how heartbreaking it is to lose a loved one for you, but its uplifting to know that God promises us in Isaiah 65:17 a near future in which not only we wont feel this pain in our hearts when we lose a loved one, but we wont even remember how it felt.*

November 22, 2017

Carlene, Thanks Be to God. Your outreach to me via FB was a Godsend & how grateful I am for the brief journey we traveled together. You gave me faith when I thought I had lost all hope. Peace be with you. Lovingly, Sharon

November 20, 2017

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Jean Geiser

Oh, how I miss you. You always have had that infectious laugh (that still lingers in my ears) and that fun, loving spirit (that I hold in my heart). You became a special part of my life, teaching me what it is like to be gutsy, how not to take flack, how to be spontaneous, ad how to laugh until our stomachs hurt. A little whine/wine never hurt. You will always have a piece of my heart. My vision of you bouncing out the door with that pony tail swinging is one I will remember always. I always hated to see you go then....

November 17, 2017

Euticauls Wambua

Mark and the entire family I send my sincere condolences to you on the promotion to glory of Carlene. I have fond memories of her and how she welcomed me to her home when I visited with you and the family. She was caring and had a loving spirit. My prayers are with you that the God of all comfort will comfort your at this time. You remain in my prayers. Rev. Euticauls Wambua, Nairobi,Kenya

November 16, 2017

Daughter

C'aira Westebbe

This is my Mom. She is my powerhouse, my superstar, the one I run to. We do not have her here, but we have her laughs, humor, smiles, big hearts, and hellraising fun times. Her stories and legacy will definetly be talked about and remembered always. Her heart was as deep as the ocean.

Posted by C'aira Westebbe

November 16, 2017

Mark, I am so sorry to learn what you and Carlene and all the family have struggled with this past year and a half. May the Spirit fill each of you with peace that is deeper than the sorrow and may Carlene be blessed in her new life.
Barbara Sadtler

November 16, 2017

Rebecca Jones

Mark, Just wanted to say I am saddened to learn of your wife's suffering and death. You have been there for so many as you were for my husband and my friend Jeannie. Please know that prayers of support and love are being said for you and your family at this time. My heart hurts for each of you.

November 16, 2017

Sandi King

Oh, Mrs. W ~ how I will miss you and your infectious personality. I still can't believe you're gone but I'm so thankful you're not in pain anymore. Your kindness was like no other and your light will shine forever in so many hearts, including mine. I'll see you when I get up there. I love you!!

November 15, 2017

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Heidi and Bette Joyce Joyce-rogers

My thoughts and prayers go out to all of my family in there time of need. Carlene will always be remember and continue on our ❤ . I will love her always and forever! Until we meet again in heaven! Love always Heidi Joyce-rogers and Aunt Bette Joyce.

November 15, 2017

Rick Steiner

The staff of Monticello Memory Gardens and Holly Memorial Gardens would like to offer its deepest sympathy and sincere well wishes to you and the members of your family in your time of loss.

November 15, 2017

Trish

I met Carlene through her daughter C'aira and every interaction I had with her she was smiling & joyful! What a presence she had & impression her smile made on everyone! She truly was lit from within & she has passed that light & warmth onto her children. I am praying for each of you, that you will be comforted by memories of her & God's Amazing Grace! The love she left with you all is eternal & I hope that it fills you with peace. May God bless each of you as you all have blessed us with your witness.

November 15, 2017

Theresie and Mark Houghton

Mark,
We are lifting prayers and sending our love to you and the family as you grieve and celebrate Carlene's wonderful life. May God give His comfort and peace as He catches all your tears.

November 15, 2017

Lucy Smith

Mark,
I am deeply saddened to learn of Carlene's death and will continue to pray for you and your family.May you each have the peace that passeth all understanding.

November 13, 2017

Donna Bowyer

"Mark, may God surround you and your family with peace and comfort. Thoughts and prayers will continue in the days ahead. You are loved by so many."

November 13, 2017

Joey Charlton

Mark, the owners and staff at Charlton and Groome Funeral Home will keep you and your family in our prayers.

November 13, 2017

Doug and Karen Hall

We are close in prayer for you Mark and for your family especially during this difficult time.

November 12, 2017

Rayna

I thought of you today, but that is nothing new.
I thought about you yesterday and days before that too.
I think of you in silence, I often speak your name.
All I have are memories and a picture in a frame.
Your memory's a keepsake from which I'll never part,
God has you in his arms, I have you in my heart.

I love you Mom

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