Pauline A. Wilson

1939 - 2017

Pauline A. Wilson obituary, 1939-2017, Spring, TX

BORN

1939

DIED

2017

FUNERAL HOME

Earthman Resthaven Funeral Home

13102 North Fwy

Houston, Texas

Pauline Wilson Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 13, 2017.

Tribute to Mommie

The two most important things to our mother were her faith and her family. This was evidenced by how she lived and loved throughout her life.

We lost our father when we were quite young, and since then Mommie was always our unshakeable rock and foundation. She instilled in us a sense of confidence and always told us to believe in ourselves. She taught us that we could soar to great heights if we worked hard and always kept our faith in God.

She was a sweet and gentle soul who always had a smile for anyone and everyone who came her way. She had love for everyone and never spoke ill of others. She was generous of spirit and always gave people the benefit of the doubt, often giving second and even third chances. At the same time, she always advocated and strove for excellence, while also standing her ground on her convictions. Her faith in God was unshakeable.

Her kindness and benevolence extended beyond her immediate family and even to total strangers. She raised and educated several children of relatives as her own. When she found out that one of our brilliant classmates who wanted to attend college could not afford the cost of the application process she, without hesitation, covered all his costs; and she didn't even know the young man!. That is the kind of person she was, generous to a fault.

Mommie was the glue that held us all together. After college when some of us moved away from Houston, she made it a point we all kept in touch regularly. She came to assist whenever any of her grandchildren was born and always stressed the importance of maintaining a strong family bond. If she didn't hear from you in a couple of days, she would call and say: "Hey, why haven't I heard from you in so long? It's been almost a year!"

She was also very active in the lives of her grandchildren, making sure they all spent practically every summer together with her in Houston. They always had many loving stories and lessons learned from Nana. More often than not, they also gained a few pounds because Nana made sure they were always more than well fed; her portions were legendary, to say the least! It was rude not to clean out your plate, according to Nana! Sunday service was a must too, and you had to be in your Sunday best to enter the house of the Lord.

Her love for God and family was the essence of her whole life, and she understood and lived the principle of the oneness of humanity. Everyone to her was considered her son, daughter, brother, sister, mother or father.

She loved to look good at all times, and expected the same of all of us. No one was spared the "look over" when they came to visit; young ladies had to have their

earrings on and young men had to be sure their hair was neat and clothes pressed. This was the case, whether you were her grandchild or someone else's.

Mommie battled colon cancer and underwent multiple surgical procedures dating back to 1980, each time defying all odds and statistics. After her last procedure, she was given about four to five years to live; that was in 2001. Through all this, she remained very calm and steadfast in her faith, always saying "It is all in God's hands and may His Will prevail". If only we could all have that kind of faith! So, in 2016 when she was informed about the recurrence of her cancer, she approached the diagnosis with her characteristic calm resolve. She was at peace with her decision to turn down chemotherapy, and the ravages of the treatment, in favor of living a good quality of life in her final year with us . Even though she physically declined over the last couple of months, her strong spirit always shone through. She constantly reminded us about the strength in love, unity of family and faith till the very end.

Even though we grieve our loss, in our quiet moments, we still feel her love in our hearts and know that though her physical body is gone, her beautiful and kind spirit will always be with us; OBAATAN SAMAN PA!

As we celebrate her memory today, her voice clearly speaks through the soothing words of the following poem:

"To those I Love and those who love Me"

When I am gone,

Release me, let me go

I have so many things to see and do.

You mustn't tie yourself to me with tears;

Be happy we had so many years.

I give you my love,

You can only guess how much you gave to me in happiness.

I thank you for the love

You have shown me

But now it's time I travel alone.

So grieve a while for me,

If grieve you must.

Then let your grief be comforted by trust.

It's only for a while that we must part,

So bless the memories within your heart.

I won't be far away for life goes on.

So if you need me,

Call me and I will be near.

And if you listen with your heart,

You'll hear

All my love around you,

Soft and clear.

And when you must come this way along,

I'll greet you with a smile,

And "Welcome Home"


May her beautiful soul rest in perfect peace!

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January 16, 2018

Today we say goodbye to our dear and beloved Nana. For my siblings, cousins and me, Nana was an encourager, comforter, storyteller, mentor, but most of all our grandmother. Grandparents give us a sense of who we are and where we came from. The values she instilled in us will help us develop into God fearing, intelligent and confident people.

Nana was a very religious person. She believed God should be in everything we do, I believe that is evident in the way she raised us. Every Saturday morning, she would make us sit for morning devotion. She would wake up early and prepare orange juice and bananas. If you know the Esantsi and Wilson children, we hate bananas. But she did it out of love because she wanted us to be healthy and strong. Morning devotion was always supposed to be 10-15mins, but Nana would always get overzealous and make it last at least an hour and a half. As children we would always want to hurry and finish to watch cartoons, but we would usually miss some of our cartoons. Looking back on these experiences, I see the importance of morning devotion as a cornerstone in our moral upbringing.

Nana always used to give us words of wisdom One thing at a time, Surround yourself with good company, Always try your best no matter how hard it gets. One of the lessons that resonated with my siblings and me Do everything perfectly well.

I always thought she meant perfection. I thought I could not live up to her advice. I thought she demanded too much of me. Perfection is impossible for anyone but God. It was a very lofty goal to achieve, and I'm sure all her grandchildren felt the same pressure I did of trying to please her in that respect. We all have stories that embody this core lesson, but a story that stands out to me is my time in 3rd grade.

As I matured, I've come to see the wisdom in her words. When she wanted perfection she really wanted us to strive for it, push ourselves and do the best we could do in everything we do. In the time she had with us, she took the time to try and cultivate in usall of ushabits and practices that would serve to better ourselves.

Those who touch our lives inspire us and love us. They do so for a lifetime. Nana always used to joke saying When I am dead and gone, you will remember my words and thank me. Time has proven you right, Nana. Thank you for your love and kind wisdom. We will always love and miss you.

With love,
Your Grandchildren
Michael Jr, Bryan, Nathan, Theodore, Pauline, Albert, Pauline E, Elise

December 21, 2017

Tribute to Mommie

The two most important things to our mother were her faith and her family. This was evidenced by how she lived and loved throughout her life.

We lost our father when we were all quite young, and since then Mommie was always our unshakeable rock and foundation. She instilled in us a sense of confidence and always told us to believe in ourselves. She taught us that we could soar to great heights if we worked hard and always kept our faith in God.

She was a sweet and gentle soul who always had a smile for anyone and everyone who came her way. She had love for everyone and never spoke ill of others. She was generous of spirit and always gave people the benefit of the doubt and to her, second and even third chances were a given. At the same time, she always strove for excellence and stood her ground on her convictions. Her faith in God was unshakeable.

Her kindness and benevolence extended beyond her immediate family and even to total strangers. She raised and educated several children of relatives as her own. I recall mentioning to Mom that I had a brilliant classmate who wanted to attend college but could not afford the cost of the application process. Without hesitation, she covered all his costs without even knowing the young man. That is the kind of person she was, generous to a fault.

Mommie was the glue that held us all together. After college when we moved away from Houston, she made it a point to keep in touch regularly. She came to assist whenever any of her grandchildren were born and always stressed the importance of maintaining a strong family bond. If she didn

December 5, 2017

JOSIE Ashon

TRIBUTE TO A BEAUTIFUL LADY MUM PAULINE FROM YOUR DAUGHTER JOSIE YOUR SWEETIE!

Mum Pauline, has always been like a mother to me. From the first time I met her, she made me feel like a daughter, and I saw her as another mother. She was friendly and I felt comfortable with her. She always showed total interest and complete acceptance in those she loves.

When my mother died, it was a terrible thing to have to deal with her loss and adjust to life without her. Mum Pauline was there for me and I am grateful to have her to turn to for some motherly advice.
I am particularly touched by a gesture of genuine love and affection towards me. Mum did not miss sending me lovely cards on occasions such as birthdays and during Christmas. She never called me by my name her pet name for me was my Sweetie! Anytime I called my sister Ivy she insisted she wanted to talk to me!

Mum Pauline's family----children, grandchildren----came first. Mum loved her grandchildren very much and extended this same love to my children. She would always send them gifts and lovely clothes from the US.

Mom's talents weren't reserved just for her own family though. At various times over the years, she cooked meals for friends of her children and they love her cooking. The friends of Ivy, Albert and Sydney were also her children.
Mom loved to go shopping and used to go shopping with Ivy and I when I visited the US. She would help me choose the clothing that best suited my figure!

Over years, Mom was a constant positive presence in my life. We kept in touch by phone and saw her about twice a year.
Mum was very spiritual and prayerful and had great faith in her Master. Anytime I visited, we never did anything without praying first and she would normally end telephone conversations with Master be with us all. Mummy dearest, may the Master whom you served diligently be with you till we meet again!
Mum Pauline the beautiful lady who loved God and her faith, who adores her family and would do anything to help her friends, is gone except in the memories of all of us who loved her.
I will always cherish memories of this lovely, kind and loving lady I called "Mummy", who was truly a mother to me.

MUMMY DEAREST, REST IN PERFECT PEACE!

November 28, 2017

Mike O Quaye jnr

(Sydney) Bro. We are apart physically but friendship wise closer than ever forever. We shred the core of our growing up together so we shall be buddies for life.
I was really sad to hear that your mum, your rock had passed.
As for your mum I have very fond memories of her.
The way she loved you.
The affection she showed when she hugged you whenever she came to visit. The way we teased you because no other mum hugged like that. Knowing what we know now, we should rather have been jealous.
The way she made your upbringing very privileged despite the early passing of your father etc etc etc; are all inspirational memories I will never forget.
All mums are loving, but Sydney your mum was really loving. I know you will feel her loss but God be with her till we meet her again.
Celebrate her life.
Once again Deepest Condolences to you and your Siblings.
God bless.
Your brother,
Mike Oquaye Jnr.
Ghana High Commissioner to India.

November 27, 2017

Kofi Dwomo

I have known Mrs. Wilson since I was a teenager, she has always been a lovely caring and kind mom to all those who found their way to her household. Alpaul Bakery is a name that anybody who lived in Asylum Down in the 1980s can never forget

It is with a heavy heart that I have to come to terms with the fact that you are no longer with us. I know you have departed from the physical realm however you will forever remain alive in our hearts and minds.

Please accept my condolence the Wilson sibling and entire family, mom will never be forgotten.

November 24, 2017

Dr. & Mrs. Katei

Auntie Pauline we are going to miss you very much. You were the epitome of strength, endurance, and a great source of inspiration for us all. We love you and we will miss you greatly. May your soul Rest In Peace.

November 23, 2017

Marcia Vanterpool

What a beautiful soul. What a wonderful gift. You were mom to us all. We thank God for your love, wisdom and counsel. Will miss you. May you rest in peace. God bless.
Marcia, Geli and Sidney

November 22, 2017

Greg Matthijetz

My wife Doris and I had known Pauline for several decades. She raised three wonderful children. She lived a life centered in spirituality. Her devotion to God was the bedrock of the family and it spread to the lives of her children and all who had contact with her. Her Love and Light will shine on in this world through them. They will miss her presence, as will all who knew her. But their smile will contain hers. May God bless the family with His Love and Peace and give them strength to bear this loss.

November 22, 2017

Josie Ashon

Rest in Peace dearest mum! You will forever be in our hearts!

November 16, 2017

Pauline was such a lovely person, inside and out. She always went above and beyond to help others. Her very strong devotion to God was her guiding light and an inspiration to all. We will truly miss dear Pauline! With sincere sympathy to the whole family.
Janie & John Laird
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