1986
2017
A vibrant, fun-loving, friend-to-all, gentle giant, Matthew J. Calder 31, of Oak Circle, Winchester, NH, tragically lost his life as a result of injuries sustained in a motor vehicle accident on Tuesday, November 14, 2017 in Ascutney, Vermont.
Matthew's parents, Steven Calder and Elizabeth (Ruic) Calder, welcomed their son into the world on April 27, 1986 in Nassau County, Long Island, New York.
Matthew grew up in Dix Hills, Long Island and was a 2004 graduate of Half Hallow Hills High School in Dix Hills. He went on to attend culinary school at the Connecticut Culinary Institute. It was here, that Matthew met his future wife, Giovanna V. Marrone, who was also attending the Institute.
He was a resident of Keene, NH for a brief time before moving to Winchester a little over one year ago.
At the time of Matthew's accident, he was employed as a sales representative with AT&T in Keene, a job he was well-suited for with his friendly personality and natural talent for sales. Matt had recently been named the Stewart for the CWA Local 1400 through AT&T. It was a position he was proud to take for the union.
He was "big-hearted" and loved by, and made friends with everyone who came to know him.
Matthew was a serious "gamer", being able to play with a dedicated server and 3 monitors to pursue his thirst for the game with people around the world.
He will be greatly missed by many, especially his wife of four years, Giovanna V. "Gio" Calder of Winchester; his daughter, Emma Ann Calder of Winchester; his father, Steven Calder and his wife, Patricia, of Keene; his mother, Elizabeth Calder-Oberlin of Myrtle Beach, SC; two sisters, Jamie Oberlin and Sara Oberlin both of Myrtle Beach; a brother, Bill Oberlin of Myrtle Beach; his mother-in-law and father-in-law, Josephine and Rev. Dr. Bob Marrone of Peterborough, NH; a sister-in-law, Lindseigh Picard and her husband, John, of Winchester; brothers-in-law, Benjamin Marrone and Joseph Marrone, both of Holyoke, MA; his paternal grandmother, Marie Calder of Long Beach, Long Island, NY; his paternal great-grandmother, Barbara Calder of England; his maternal grandmother, Jane Ruic of Lindenhurst, NY; Gio's grandparents, Carol and Joe Marrone of Merrimack, NH; a nephew, Walker Picard of Winchester; a niece, Lola Picard of Winchester; and many cousins. He was predeceased by a brother, Steven D. Calder on December 1, 2011; his paternal grandfather, George T. Calder; his paternal grandmother, Lillian E. Calder; and his paternal great-grandfather, George T. Calder.
A celebration of Matthew's life and memorial service will be held on Monday, November 27, 2017 at 2:00PM in the United Church of Christ, 23 Central Square, Keene, NH.
In lieu of flowers, a fund has been established to benefit Emma Ann Calder. Please visit https://www.youcaring.com/emmaandgiocalder-1013971 to make donations to this fund.
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Sponsored by Foley Funeral Home.
January 20, 2018
Butch Cender
I knew you had a great heart way back when i used to play with you and steven while your mom cooked and cleaned. From what i have heard, your daughter has the same loving heart. I know, i was not there and it hurts. but i also know you would want all of your family and friends to carry on in life to its fullest. You and steven will always have a place in my heart...
December 4, 2017
Aunt Ginny
Matt, I didn't know you well living so far away but when I met you I was immediately drawn to your warmth and the way you loved your family. I was so glad Gio had such a strong man for a husband and delighted at the bond between you and sweet precious Emma. You were so much a part of the Marrone family making that branch of our family tree stronger. It felt perfect. I really liked you. Instantly. You will always live in our hearts.
November 27, 2017
Jonathan Leighton
Matt,
You were my big brother. You raised the bar for what it meant to be a husband, father, son, brother, and friend. You were always there for everyone you cared about regardless of what was going on. I can only hope to live up to your example. I love you man and I'm going to miss you.
Gio,
Throughout the time we've known each other we have spoken infrequently to say the least. Regardless, I've loved you like a sister for a long time for bringing such happiness and joy to one of my best friends, and will always be here for you if there is anything you need.
Emma,
You are a strong willed, excitable little girl who is very much like your father. You are able to bring s smile to everyone's face just by being around them. I hope that, like your father, you live life to the fullest, love and care for those around you passionately, and inspire those around you to be better.
November 27, 2017
Kelda Stetson
I did not know Matt personally, however his legacy lives on with his beautiful daughter Emma, and wife Gio. Everything I have read about Matt in the past weeks confirms he was one of kind and those who knew him were blessed to have him in their lives. Sending lots of love and hugs to all of you.
November 27, 2017
Laura Calnan
May your spirit shine brightly always as you were in life may you remain in your passing. Love and light
November 27, 2017
Sarah,Doug,shelby O'Neal
Emma and Gio,Matt was a great friend of ours,he would move mountains for your girls,I meet daddy and mommy when they lived near us,I will miss his bear hugs,so sorry for your loss,Emma daddy is now your special angel,when you see a bright star in the sky it's daddy,
November 27, 2017
Christopher and Liza Goldthwaite
Emma,
Your father was an amazing man who we were so fortunate to get to spend time with. He was one of those people who you only meet once In your lifetime. Your dad did everything he could for you and would've moved heaven and earth just to make you smile. He was taken too soon but he loved you with every fiber of his being and always remember that you are so incredibly special to him. Even now. We love you!
November 22, 2017
Jennifer Klein
Matt, we will miss your warm bear hugs and presence at our family gatherings. To watch you grow as a father and husband was just beautiful and we are heartbroken for Gio and Emma that this journey was cut so tragically short. Our love goes out to all the Marrones and the Calders, and all your friends. We are so very sorry. With love, Aunt Jeffie, Ellis, and Simone Klein
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