Richard James Barbera

1950 - 2017

Richard James Barbera obituary, 1950-2017, Sherman, CT

BORN

1950

DIED

2017

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Danbury, Connecticut

Richard Barbera Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 24, 2017.

Richard Barbera, of Sherman Ct, 67, passed away unexpectedly Thursday November 23, 2017. He was the son of Samuel and Effie Barbera.

He was born in Danbury, CT and lived there until last year when he bought his dream property of forty-six acres in Sherman, CT. He was an avid gardener and a wonderful cook. He would grow enough to fill his freezer for the winter and more to share with friends and family to enjoy as well.

Before Rich retired, "Mr. B." was a guidance counselor in New Fairfield High School for 30 years. He was a coach and a mentor to so many students. He was involved in the track program, weight room, and the creation of the ALC program to help students who needed alternative learning. He was loved by his students and se still kept in touch with some of them. He was someone who truly wanted to make a difference.

In addition to gardening, Rich enjoyed woodworking and he made some beautiful furniture for his house.
He is survived by his older sister, Sandra Hawthorne and his younger brother, Frank Barbera. He also leaves behind his nieces, Christie and her husband Matt Hoey and Amanda Barbera and his nephews Michael Barbera, Devin Hawthorne, and Justin Hawthorne and his wife Chrissy and their children, Anna and Lila.

The family will receive friends at the Green Funeral Home, 57 Main Street, Danbury, CT, on Saturday, December 2, 2017 between the hours of 12:00pm and 3:00 p.m.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the American Diabetes Association, 2080 Silas Deane Hwy, Rocky Hill, CT 06067.

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December 4, 2017

Peggy Greene

Frank and the entire Barbera Family I'm so sorry for your loss.

December 3, 2017

Francibe Quinn

So sorry to hear of Richie's passing. Went to high school with him; truly a wonderful person; May God comfort the family and may he find peace with God and his angels

December 1, 2017

Bernhard Konrad

Rest in peace, you will be missed by all. My deepest sympathies to your family.

December 1, 2017

Karen L Fischer-Perkins

To the Friends and Family of Rich B. 12/1/17
So sorry and saddened to learn of Rich's sudden passing. I had the pleasure of working with him when he was a Guidnce Counselor at New FF HS, and when I was a school psychologist there. Rich always had an energy, positivity, and was an advocate for students. He cared about them, and tried to achieve the best solutions for kids. He worked at Danbury Youth Services as a Director in the beginnings of his career. Rich was kind and caring. May the company of good friends,good memories, as well as the a Higher Power be of comfort to you.
With Heartfelt Sympathy,
Karen L. Fischer-Perkins, MS, NCSP, LPC

December 1, 2017

I am stricken by the news of Richie's passing! I lived on Cornell Lane in Danbury. From our first day at Kindergarten through 6th grade, I walked to school every day with Richie and Eddie Fowler! We were joined at the bottom of Wooster Heights Rd by some of our cohorts from Southern Blvd.

I have many a story to tell about some of our conversations over those years.
Richie and I then, of course, went on to Main St School for Junior High and then onto the new DHS. I am fortunate that we remained friends for decades there after. I saw him a lot in the '80
s and 90's while my parents were waning. He, then, seemed to disappear from the DHS group. I missed him at our last reunion!!

Bottom line, this was a man who was integral to my life for decades!! I missed him a lot over the last few. I am incredibly saddened by this news. My heart goes out to all of you.

Sincerely,

Lorraine Chickering
of 35 Cornell Lane, Danbury, CT

November 30, 2017

Karen Vaughn

So sorry for your loss. Rich was a very special man.

November 30, 2017

Karl Hanson

Sandra, Frank & Family
Rich & I were best of friends for many years. We fished, skied and cooked together for years. Traveled to UConn BB games in Hartford , Storrs and Madison Square Garden, claimed,cooked and drank together on CapeCod, skied the slopes at MT Snow in Vermont. He sat at many a family table with both my wife's and me. We taught and coached together and shared confidences. I will carry the best of Rich with me for the rest of my life. God Bless
Karl

November 30, 2017

Peter Cohen

I'm saddened to learn of the passing of my friend and colleague. Rich was a dedicated professional, with the warmest of hearts, who always put the kids first. Condolences to Frank and family.

November 30, 2017

To Sandy & family,
So sorry to hear about Rich's passing. Please know that my prayers & thoughts are with you.
Sharon Woodin Adams

November 30, 2017

Carol Zinser

Rich was a bright light among the members of our NFHS faculty. The students knew that they had a trusted adult to speak with...someone who could help and comfort. I extend my deepest sympathy to his family and wish them peace.

November 30, 2017

M. Ogden

Rich was a kind a caring soul and will be missed by many. "They may forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel." Thanks for helping so many people feel good.

November 30, 2017

Sandra, Frank and family,
I'm so saddened to hear that Rich has passed. I knew him as a kindhearted, generous man who seemed very true to himself. He was a very special person indeed. I know he'll be sorely missed. It was an honor to know him and to work with him.
With heartfelt sympathy,
Lorie Davis

November 29, 2017

Jeff Castaldi

You were the best Rich..... we had a great time @ NF and we shared a lot of laughs!!! You always put the kids first and that's what I loved about you!! God Bless!!

November 29, 2017

Robert & Rob Cellamare

We are shocked and saddened to hear of Rich's passing. Our hearts go out to Frank and the rest of the family. As a counselor at New Fairfield High School, he made quite an impression in my son's life.

November 29, 2017

Karen LaPorte

My thoughts and prayers are with Rich's family . May the Lord continue to surround them with family, friends and loved ones who will offer words of comfort. Rich and I got to know one another as co-advisors for the Class of 1984. A wonderful person with the kindest heart.

November 29, 2017

Mr. B was my boys' guidance counselor, an outstanding one,and one who was greatly missed when he retired. I will never forget his many kindnesses, including putting my son Josh's college application fee on his own credit card when he found out Yale wouldn't take my Discover card. Who does that!?! A wonderful, caring person like Mr. Barbera.

November 29, 2017

We are heartbroken at the Loss of our friend who I have known since my childhood
We will cherish our memories of Richie.

Ed and Carol Fowler

November 29, 2017

Joseph Castellano

Mr. B was a good man and a good leader of the youth. He will be remembered fondly. My condolences to his family and friends.

November 29, 2017

Willy Drucker

Mr. B., you were the best! Love you buddy.

November 29, 2017

Patricia Lopes

To the Family of Rich,

My husband and I send our deepest sympathy for your loss. I so enjoyed working with Rich at NFHS. He left a lasting impression on many students and faculty members. May the wonderful memories of Rich help lessen your pain.

Joe and Pat Lopes

November 29, 2017

Margo (Reynolds) Steiner

Hard to forget Richie. He was my first boyfriend (and my first kiss!) in 7th grade at Main Street School. I still have the Valentine's card he sent me then, filled with xxx's. I'm not surprised he was so loved by his students.

November 29, 2017

Donna Eriquezzo

Fly with the Angels Ritchie...to his family..im so very sorry for your loss..my deepest condolences, love light and prayers ❤❤

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