Carl Willis Smelley

1931 - 2017

Carl Willis Smelley obituary, 1931-2017, Henrico, VA

BORN

1931

DIED

2017

FUNERAL HOME

Woody Funeral Home Parham - Richmond

1771 North Parham Road

Richmond, Virginia

Carl Smelley Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Dec. 18, 2017.

Carl Willis Smelley, 86, of South Hill, Virginia, went to be with the Lord on December 17, 2017. He was preceded in death by his parents, Tom Pulley Smelley and Mattie Watson Smelley; and his beloved wife of 60 years, Barbara Gaines Smelley. He is survived by his two children, Craig Smelley (Terry) and Deborah Wickham.

Upon graduation from Smithdeal Massey School of Business in Richmond, VA, Carl worked at DuPont for a short while, before working at R. E. Michel Company, from which he retired after a 47-year career. For many years, he taught HVAC-related courses at the Richmond Technical School, and was awarded the distinction of being the "Instructor of the Year."

Carl was a faithful member of Skipwith Baptist Church for 60 years, and served in various capacities, to include Sunday School teacher for over 50 years, and Chairman of the Deacon Committee. He also served as a Bible teacher in the Henrico County Jail Ministry for many years. Carl served as Secretary, Trustee and Master of Joppa #40 A. F. & A. M. He was also a member of the ACCA Provost Guard, ACCA Shriners and the Scottish Rite of Freemasonry.

Carl loved sports, and could be found on the golf course most Saturdays. Carl will be remembered for his infectious laugh, his love of family, his generous and caring spirit, and his kind heart. He will be greatly missed by his family and friends.

The family will receive friends from 4 p.m. to 7 p.m., Wednesday, December 20, at Woody's, 1771 N. Parham Road, Richmond, VA. A celebration of Carl's life will be held at Skipwith Baptist Church, 1900 Skipwith Road, Henrico, VA 23294 on Thursday, December 21 at 11:00 a.m., followed by a graveside service at Westhampton Memorial Park. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Skipwith Baptist Church Endowment Fund.

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December 12, 2023

Friend

Randy Ussery

He treated me like a son. I my not have agreed with everything he advised, bottom line he never mislead me. Think about him frequently!!!

December 12, 2020

Friend

Randy Ussery

Although we did not agree on a number of things, Carl never led me down the wrong path. On the bright side even if I felt he was to be incorrect Bobbie was always there to keep us both straight. What a privilege it was to be a part of his family. I look forward to seeing him again in our new home !!!

December 21, 2017

Coworker

gay oliver

my thoughts and prayers are with the smelley family. carl always brightened my days when he would call the re michel company or was here to visit. i enjoyed every minute talking with him. his sense of humor and caring about people i will always remember. gay oliver re michel company receptionist.

December 20, 2017

Janis and Randy Ussery

Carl was a true friend and father figure towards our family. We are very sorry for your loss. Your family is in our prayers.

December 19, 2017

I was deeply saddened when I heard about the loss of Carl. Whenever I had the pleasure of being in his presence, he would share something new with me and I have never forgotten that. Take care, Carl

Paul Murray
R.E. Michel Co.

December 19, 2017

We are so very sorry to hear of your loss. He will be greatly missed. I have many fond memories of him. I recall how much my Dad loved to hear him laugh. Prayers are with you. Freda, Donna & Joel

December 19, 2017

I am sadden to hear of the passing of a dear friend, business associate and mentor. I will always remember Carl's kind heart, wisdom, positive spirit and pure golf swing. A true Southern Gentleman.

Glenn Baker
R. E. Michel Company

December 18, 2017

Bernie Henderson

As President of Woody Funeral Home, I extend our deepest sympathy from all our staff for your loss. We are committed to providing the utmost care to you at this time and throughout the days to come. Our purpose is to assist and serve you in a manner that exceeds your expectations. We pledge to strive to merit the trust you have reposed in us.

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Dec

20

Visitation

4:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

Woody Funeral Home Parham - Richmond

1771 North Parham Road, Richmond, VA 23229

Dec

21

Celebration of Life

11:00 a.m.

Skipwith Baptist Church

1900 Skipwith Road, Henrico, VA

Dec

21

Graveside service

Westhampton Memorial Gardens

VA

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1771 North Parham Road, Richmond, VA 23229

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