BORN

1916

DIED

2018

FUNERAL HOME

Edward F. Carter Funeral Home

41 Grand Street

Croton on Hudson, New York

Lillian Wickman Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 6, 2018.

In lieu of flowers - we would ask that you perform an act of kindness in memory of Lillian or please feel free to donate to your favorite charity in her name. To honor her memory wear red (her favorite color) one day and remember her in the good times.

Lillian Ida (Hembury) Wickman of Croton on Hudson, NY passed away peacefully, Saturday, January 6, 2018. She was 101 years old.

Born in Bronx, NY on June 5, 1916 at home, Lillian was the daughter of the late Edwin and Lillian Hembury.

She lived in the Bronx most of her life only moving to Croton-on-Hudson in 2003 to be closer to her family.

Lillian worked many decades in retail sales, retiring from Macys at the age of 87. She enjoyed spending time with family and friends, making those around her laugh, playing cards, traveling, shopping and being generous to all. She was a wonderful daughter, sister, wife, mother, aunt, grandmother, great grandmother and friend. She will be greatly missed by all who knew her. Anyone who met Lil loved her and she loved everyone.

She amazed all of us by working most of her adult life, learning how to drive at the age of 68 and living independently until the age of 99.

In addition to her parents, she is predeceased by her five siblings Frederick Hembury, Madeline Bottega, Gertrude Gonzales, Mabel Hembury and Edwin Hembury and her beloved husband of 43 years William Wickman.

Lillian is survived by her loving daughter Barbara Mayclim-Zabelicky, cherished grandchildren Scott and his wife Margie Mayclim, Dana Mayclim, Troy and his wife Eileen Mayclim, adored great grandchildren Erin, Robert, Cole, Nash and Quin, and by many loved nieces and nephews.

Visitation will be held on Monday, January 8, 2018 from 4-8PM at Edward F. Carter Funeral Home, 41 Grand St., Croton on Hudson, NY. A Celebration of life will take place at 7PM during the visitation. Burial at Evergreen Cemetery in Brooklyn, NY on Tuesday, January 9th, 11AM - all caring to join us will meet at the funeral home at 9 a.m.

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January 8, 2018

Marilyn Hembury

I learned many things from Aunt Lil - stay out of the sun, accessorize, have lots of fun and never quit! Always in my heart.

January 8, 2018

Marie Beers

"Aunt Lil", though you are not really my Aunt, you have for so many years treated my family and I as though I were. You were one of our most favorite people. Bianca enjoyed every minute she ever spent with you. You were a sweetheart we will never forget. Rest in Peace knowing you have made a positive impact on more people than we could ever count. May God Bless you as he has blessed us for having known you. xoxo

January 8, 2018

Lee Heiden

My 'LaLu': My Aunt and My Godmother (Fairy Godmother). I always thought she was a Movie Star (hence the photo above) Always Glittering - Not just on the outside - It Came From Within <3 She worked hard her whole life and was quick to laugh and be the first on the Dance Floor.. She was Fun - She showed us all what Strong - Brave and FAMILY MEANT~ EVERYTHING. I know we all will miss you, but you've got a date waiting and I bet Mr. Gimbal Himself Told St. Peter... I'll Greet This One Myself. Loved More Than Ever - She never forgot we were kids and somewhere she had that 'kid' inside her. Never Let Life Knock You Down.. Get Your Hair Done and Put on Your Lipstick an 'Smile Through The Good & The Bad'. Don't Ever Stop Dancing.. I do hope someone has the photo of her 90th B.D. on the Harley - lol- I've loved her my whole life and she was always a Lady.. You gave us so much - Always - I Hope Your Dancing <3 ... Your Loving Goddaughter ~ Lee L. Heiden XO (Sarasota,FL)

January 7, 2018

Betty Heiden

I consider her my first friend, when I moved to NY, she was always a lady, and I love/loved her dearly. Yes, folks we are talking 80 plus years.

January 7, 2018

Jim Heiden

To my wonderful Aunt Lil, "Lalu". You were always the prettiest lady I have have ever know. What a sweetheart. Say hi to Uncle Bill for me. Jim Heiden

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