Melissa Diane Gootkin

1963 - 2018

Melissa Diane Gootkin obituary, 1963-2018

BORN

1963

DIED

2018

FUNERAL HOME

Kuehl-Nicolay Funeral Home

1703 Spring St

Paso Robles, California

Melissa Gootkin Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 21, 2018.

Melissa Diane Gootkin, 54, passed away on January 16, 2018, at home. Born in Santa Maria to Robert and Dee Weiss, Melissa was a long time resident of San Luis Obispo County. She was a registered nurse and was active in various community organizations. Melissa is survived by her loving husband, Howard; her daughter, Hannah; and her sons: Eric and Ben. She also leaves behind her parents; brother, Kevin (Betsy) Weiss; brother-in-law, Kenneth (Wendy) Gootkin; sister-in- law, Sharon (Michael) Landau; many adoring nieces and nephews; and her mother-in-law, Jan Gootkin. A memorial service will be held at 1:00 pm, Monday, January 22, 2018, at Kuehl Nicolay Funeral Home, 1703 Spring St., Paso Robles, with final interment to be at a later date at Walker Union Cemetery in Oregon.

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January 25, 2018

Shelley Stevens

This still doesn't feel real. Thoughts and prayers and hugs for Howard Hannah and the boys!

January 23, 2018

Howard,

Everyone at Diablo is in shock. We are so sorry to hear you lost Melissa. What a tragedy. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help you. Prayers for strength and comfort as you endure the coming months.

Hugs and friendship,
Randy and Tracy Dumont

January 22, 2018

Howard, Hannah and Boys,
We were so sorry to hear of your great loss. Our prayers go out to you at this very difficult time.

Rob and Lynne

January 22, 2018

Jerome Turner DDS

I knew this lovely pair before they were married, having shared many shooting match with them at the Hogue Range in SLO. For many years, they were patients in my dental practice in Morro Bay until they established themselves in Templeton. Good people and friends forever.

January 22, 2018

Erin O'Donnell

Peace Be with your Family. We are all saddened to hear of the loss of Melissa.
Erin @ San Luis Dermatology

January 22, 2018

Pattie Keller

Rest In Peace dear Melissa.
My deepest condolence to Howard; Hannah, Ben and Eric.

Posted by Pattie Keller

January 22, 2018

Jim n Ellen

Howard, Hannah, Ben and Eric,
We were saddened to hear of Melissa passing. We will continue to pray for your family. Lots of hugs to all.

January 22, 2018

My awesome sweet friend Melissa, The Lord called you way to soon. However I know you are free of the tremendous pain you have endured . It has been such a Blessing for me to have you by my side when I was so sick. You were there for me when you yourself were struggling with your own pain. You have left us with a gift of memories to share.You will forever be in my heart and Love for your family. You now are their Guardian Angel. Forever with Love Kay

January 20, 2018

Megan

Dear Sweet Melissa

You will be missed by your sisters in the VdC. So many of us you have helped with your compassion and medical knowledge. Life just isn't fair.

January 20, 2018

Scott Brockway

Farewell to our friend and classmate. All of St Joseph High School mourns your passing. All our prayers to your family and friends.

January 20, 2018

We are so sorry to here of Melissa passing. We will remember many fun times. Love to the family. Sincerely, Wendy and Phill Veneris

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